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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think this track was added just for dragging. This is supposed to be a family show, there is no need to show SR/physical intimacy. If the intention is to show that a woman has a right to say no.. then the whole childish drama of pretending to be asleep etc. was not needed. Anandi is such a mature person and Shiv is so understanding. Anandi could have shown to tell Shiv about her hesitation. Please I am not telling it is Anandi's fault.. She is a fictional charecter and it is the story writer who is to blame for this stupid track. Don't know what social message they are trying to convey. Post marriage, the behaviour of Anandi with the Shekhars also is strange. It is her second marriage and any girl in her position will give priority to her new in-laws especially with one failed marriage, a girl will make all effort to make the new marriage successful. And Anandi is such a loving and caring person. But Anandi did not care how upset Ira was with the decision of Shiv and Anandi going back to Jaitsar so early. It was Shiv who decided to go back to Jaitsar, but Anandi may have offered to stay back.. As per CVs it is only Singh family who need to be taken care of, Shekhar family or Anandi's father do not need any care... This is not to bash Anandi. To drag the show, CVs have made Anandi's some actions irrational.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nolla



I agree with you. But if we follow this logic, then the show has no meaning at all. Infact, it is a warning to all those who are thinking of marrying a divorced or a widow. That they shouldn't as this is most likely going to happen to them. If thats the msg of BV!!, then this logic applies completly & the cvs shld set Shiv free of anandi.

To be honest with you, if this is the case, i ll be disappointed b'coz i thought this show (AnSh) wld ve been a good ex for those who want to move on!!!


I really feel sorry for Shiv.


i agree with you 100% nolla
Each and every word of yours
Is this bv cvs are trying to convey as a message for men who marry widows and divorcees?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheetsden

I really don't understand anandi. Why cannot anandi love shiv ? Anybody in her shoes will fall in love with him. He has done so many things to make her happy. She cares, respects and trusts him but not love him. She is really a stubborn woman. Does she love him or does not realize she is in love already ? I really wished they both would have fallen in love before they got marriage. After a long time I got addicted to a serial but cv have spoiled the story. May, June, July episodes were so beautiful with both the stories progressing well. Now it's like a kichidi. Entire Singh and shekhar family always run into each other. Why cannot they keep their stories separate for few days atleast ? Once in couple of days all of them meet and few minutes r wasted doing namaste and showing their faces.

I sincerely request siddharth and Shashank to quit the show soon. Both r good actors who can get better roles than what they r currently doing in BV.

is falling in love like giving thanks to some1 or a kind of favour?..that anandi will love shiv as a return gift of all good things he has done with her? 😕..falling is love is something like a miracle & miracle takes time to happen!! anandi needs that time..
@bold... 😆..i am sure none of them wants to leave BV 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The problem is - Anandi has no friends whatsoever. She had one Phooli who also would not have qualified here as she is single. Anandi needs a good and close friend to confide in and sort out her feelings. Which is why a lot of us have been hoping Ashima will come soon.

A is with a crowd where either she touches their feet or kids look up to her. she doesn't have a single souls to call her friend who will be her sounding board and not be judgmental about her feelings.

She needs a friend desperately like Jagya has LalSingh. That is what is missing. I don't know why they don't show Sugna anymore- she would have been the most perfect person for A right now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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As for Shiov getting despo and/or DESERVING to be loved, well the heart has never been a rational organ. That is the job of the head.

If her heart doesn't race when she sees him - then it doesn't race. If she is petrified despite trying to reason with her own self - can she help it ? What is needed is some space - for Shiv to just shower her with attention and drop the Jee and insist on Shiv and not Collector Sahab for starters.

Everytime she says that - she distances him and that is plain wrong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

The problem is - Anandi has no friends whatsoever. She had one Phooli who also would not have qualified here as she is single. Anandi needs a good and close friend to confide in and sort out her feelings. Which is why a lot of us have been hoping Ashima will come soon.


A is with a crowd where either she touches their feet or kids look up to her. she doesn't have a single souls to call her friend who will be her sounding board and not be judgmental about her feelings.

She needs a friend desperately like Jagya has LalSingh. That is what is missing. I don't know why they don't show Sugna anymore- she would have been the most perfect person for A right now.




Hooked i haven't seen you for a while...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: musicmaniac

I have few answers for your question:


Shiv is outperforming and over shadowing Anandi in "saving the helpless Singhs and long suffering Jagiya" project. He is now even performing beyond the initial expectation. He has become a strong competitor in the 'Mahanta' department also. Besides, Shiv is taking away all the reasons to cry from Anandi. The poor girl is left without any activity. Shiv is torturing her more than DS and Jagiya in that way. That's why she cannot fall in love with Shiv so easily.






P.S. For the sensitive minds, this is supposed to be a FUN post - I will not be responsible for heartbreaks and emotional outbursts.


💔


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

is falling in love like giving thanks to some1 or a kind of favour?..that anandi will love shiv as a return gift of all good things he has done with her? 😕..falling is love is something like a miracle & miracle takes time to happen!! anandi needs that time..
@bold... 😆..i am sure none of them wants to leave BV 😉


Monamie, we meet again.

I have no problem when u say "is falling in love like giving thanks to some1 or a kind of favour?". My prob is why the heck did she get married if she cannot be a proper wife in all respect? Was there a warning disclosure sign, marry but no touch, this is such horse crap and you people even defend her?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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well its all cvs fault...they dont want her to love him...they want to delay the sr for trps and torture us.so blame them for this dragging drama.
wat they r showing is impractical i mean really who can resist shiv ;-) any normal hot blooded female will not think twice for samarpan or whatever ;-)
but cvs r hell bent to show anandi or rather any female lead of daily soap as asexual beings
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nniks

well its all cvs fault...they dont want her to love him...they want to delay the sr for trps and torture us.so blame them for this dragging drama.
wat they r showing is impractical i mean really who can resist shiv ;-) any normal hot blooded female will not think twice for samarpan or whatever ;-)
but cvs r hell bent to show anandi or rather any female lead of daily soap as asexual beings


Hey Neha. Two words stuck out in your post.

Hot blooded female, Anandi? That is sacrilege? She has been trained not to have any warm blood as far as men are concerned. Baki sab ke kiye theek hai, teacherji, gyaaniji, sarpanchji, for makiing halwa. She was sexier doing champi to Shiv than she is now.

Second word is asexual. Correct word, that is what her upbringing is.

But you know many, in fact lacs of women, in India fall in that category ? There have been several articles and research on this topic, why girls are taught to be asexual.

Strange, no?


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