AnSh & Remarriage Track - My Analysis & POV - Page 3

Awesome analysis...U have covered almost all points., what have been goin on in her mind., and how Shiv could u/stand her so well...

Originally posted by: snowy80

actually i agree with u. why she always remembers good things about jagya,not ad days and insults by him.why she always remembers her moms last wish and how her aatma is in peace.when she said yesterday shiv was little upset and asked that how about anandi becoz for him her happiness is imp.

Its our thinking that the flashback she had was her thinking of the good times with Jagya, why can't we understand that no one can just stop thinking about their past especially when the past is so haunting and painful, her thinking about her memories of her and Jagya were just a reminder after she saw the ambiance set for her by Shiv, so it was quite natural for a memory to pop up in her mind. Also looking at her experience with Jagya who never ever spared a thought of her, it would never occur to her that her happiness would mean so much to someone, when in her previous experience it was all about what Jagya wants, so with time she will come to understand the sincerity of Shiv's love and devotion to her.

Originally posted by: xaviara

heyyy Suchi !!! *hugs* Oh yes I was in CCBM forum too, and I still remember your amazing FF on NivRen, it is so nice to see you here in BV forum !!! :) Thanks a lot for the appreciation ! :)

Originally posted by: Malika

Navz - 🤗

First of all lemme tell u who am I...if u remmeber...me princessyashika from MJHT forum.

Till date I so cudnt believe how come no SaJan fan likes AnSh...but seeing u here is a treat for me.I still remember how long discussions we used to have on Sajan...specially of season-2.Ur gunjan posts were anyday my fav.

Coming to AnSh I so agree with all ur words.Though u/standing them is a task for many but once u get their nuance they dont cease to surprise u.Anandi and Shiv till date have been true to their spirits in every form - whether it was as colleagues,friends, a couple in courtship or now as each other's life partners.And similarly they will cont to rise together in each other's love 😳

Navz wud love to see u in AnSH AT...its not like the usual ATs...we have a blast there.

Heyyy Yashi !!! *hugs* Great to see you and of course I remember our discussions on SaJan and Gunjan !! Its a pleasure watching AnSh, their relationship even through very gradual, it had touch my heart, because it started with mutual respect and admiration for each other and then developed into a strong friendship which would result in a beautiful love story soon :)

I will try and pop in at the AnSh AT some time for sure !! would love to drool over AnSh especially Shiv, because for sure he is everything I have ever dreamed in my Mr. Right !! ;)

Originally posted by: xaviara

Heyyy Yashi !!! *hugs* Great to see you and of course I remember our discussions on SaJan and Gunjan !! Its a pleasure watching AnSh, their relationship even through very gradual, it had touch my heart, because it started with mutual respect and admiration for each other and then developed into a strong friendship which would result in a beautiful love story soon :)

I will try and pop in at the AnSh AT some time for sure !! would love to drool over AnSh especially Shiv, because for sure he is everything I have ever dreamed in my Mr. Right !! ;)

I will surely wait for u there...m sure u will love the environment in the AT

@bold Absolutely... I so love him for the way he treats his lady.The way he gives her all the freedom to be herself...to do what she wants to...to let her for once live life for herself. His love was never abt his 'expectations' but her 'happiness' and thats what he proved last night.His trust on the persistence of his love is something that makes him so special and beautiful as a character.I am sure he will soon w/o touching her will touch parts of her existence/soul she doesnt even know exist.

Originally posted by: Resh...

Hi suchi and xaviara... I too have read your posts in CCBM forum...you both were active members there... I have also read suchi's amazing FFs , her ffs were a welcome relief when we were not happy with CCBM track ...and i remember the discussions with xaviara when Viren became the villain in CCBM...😆... and your earlier profile pic was of karan tacker right...😊... coming to BV again I loved your views and I agree with you that it is not necessary to consummate marriage in the first night itself... but I feel Anandi should have married Shiv after she was fully ready... she is an intelligent girl and i dont know why she didnt think of this before her marriage...

Resh its so good to see old members of the forum again, whom I used to interact with so much on a regular basis.

As for Anandi, I don't think she would have been ever ready to marry again, like she said to Shiv, if it was her decision only she would have never remarried again, and would have continued to work for the village, and that she agreed for her mom's sake because it was her last wish before dying, and Shiv married her knowing all this because he was confident in his love for her, and knew with his love and support, she would be able to let go of her past, move on and love him back as much as he love her. Anandi under the circumstances married Shiv with the full intention of trying to make their marriage a success, even though her decision was for her mom and family, but for any women who ventures into a new relationship and family, it takes time for her to get used to the family and especially her husband.

Originally posted by: Malika

I will surely wait for u there...m sure u will love the environment in the AT

@bold Absolutely... I so love him for the way he treats his lady.The way he gives her all the freedom to be herself...to do what she wants to...to let her for once live life for herself. His love was never abt his 'expectations' but her 'happiness' and thats what he proved last night.His trust on the persistence of his love is something that makes him so special and beautiful as a character.I am sure he will soon w/o touching her will touch parts of her existence/soul she doesnt even know exist.

@ bold : Awww that was beautiful Yashi !! I agree, his love for her has no limits, and that is why he is willing to wait for her to accept him and his love and this patience and this devotion for her happiness, to see her smile always, will make their bond s much more intimate and special then physical intimacy ever could, because this way he would make a place in her heart and touch her soul as u said <3

Originally posted by: adi2512

Awesome analysis...U have covered almost all points., what have been goin on in her mind., and how Shiv could u/stand her so well...

Was pleased to read your take...and its positivity.

Well Done...👍🏼

Thank you so much for liking and appreciating my post :)

good analysis! liked it very much!

Originally posted by: xaviara

I'm usually a silent reader on this forum, but in the past few days, since AnSh got married, I have been reading a lot of posts bashing either Anandi's character or Shiv's, so I thought I'll put forth my two cents as well, because I'm one of those viewers who doesn't have any complaints with either of their characters and are enjoying their track immensely, especially last night's episode was a treat to watch, because in my opinion the CV's handled AnSh's situation and their characters perfectly.

We seem to forget at times that this show and this couple is not like our usual daily soap stories or typical jodi, this show's main USP is the problems/issues faced by the society and women even today in this day and age. Right now AnSh's story is a remarriage track of a CHILD BRIDE. How easy it is for us to be angry at Anandi, to bash her for using Shiv, for not caring about Shiv, for caring more about his family, but do we ever actually stop for a minute and put ourselves in her shoes ? Think about it, she was made to marry when she was a child, she grew up with Jagya in the same house and later fell in love with him and accepted him as her husband, so can you imagine the emotional scars she must still have after he betrayed and hurt her so badly ? It is because of these emotional scars that she is unable to give in to physical intimacy at this point which is very very natural, especially in the case of remarriages. Her fear and hesitancy is not because of her leftover feelings for Jagya, its mostly because for a woman, it is not easy to physically intimate with another man, especially someone she has known for only a few months. All she needs is some time and space to get used to Shiv as her husband and life partner, for her to realize her feelings for Shiv, which she already has, but her fears ad insecurities about herself and her emotional scars are not letting her move forward with Shiv, because we can't forget that AnSh's wedding was followed by her divorce and her mother's demise, she already had a lot of her plate emotionally and then to marry someone at this stage took a lot of guts and courage, so to expect her to consummate their marriage on the first night is a bit much for anyone to ask, ad that is what the message the CV's are trying to give to the viewers that it is very natural for a women to have this hesitancy, to let go of her past and to move on when they are remarried. With times and Shiv's unconditional love and support, very soon she will not only love Shiv, but will give in to him and surrender herself to him, mind, body and soul, because she already cares for him, the fact that was feeling miserable about saying NO to him made her feel guilty is proof enough, so once her emotional scars are healed by Shiv's love and understanding, she would have no issues or fears left.

As for Shiv, I could not believe, some of us are bashing him for being such a gem of a human being :P Like any other guy madly in love, he wanted to express his love to Anandi in all the ways possible, and physical intimacy is one of the expressions of love, but he is not the sort to force Anandi to do anything she not comfortable with as yet, so it was necessary for him to make her open up to him and talk out her fears and hesitancy, because it is quite right that he knows her more then she knows him, why wouldn't he ? He loves her, and one tends to know everything about the person they love, but for Anandi who had so much is her emotional palate already, it would take time for her to get to know Shiv as well as he knows her, and she would get to know him, but like every newly wed woman, she needs to adjust to being married again, especially to a man as wonderful as Shiv, because her previous experience wasn't all bed of roses. And itsnot as Shiv didn't know what he was getting into, Anandi has been honest and forthright about everything from the start. She had told him early on when she asked him to marry her that if it had been her decision only, she would have not agreed to marry him, so Shiv knew that it would take a lot of time, patience and love from his side for Anandi to accept his love and him, and since he loves her, he is willing to wait for her, that makes him a gem of a human being, not someone who deserves to be bashed :)

CV's are keeping their story and track as realistic as possible, and AnSh conversation in last night's episode was a treat to watch, so most definitely looking forward to see what happens next with this magical couple :)