yesterday's desponess-so not shiv - Page 10

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

He went fast for her? After waiting for 4 months? She repeatedly says she has no regrets of marrying Shiv, then why she has this attitude? She can be blushing, be shy, but why this anger?

The CVs want the audience to believe this pseudo drama? anandi marries Shiv khushi khushi and then spurns his touch? This is height of ridiculousness and hypocrisy. At least in the Western world, there is no hypocrisy like this. In Indian society, we are all hypocrites, say something, and do something else.

I am not upset with Shiv for making an advance towards Anandi. I remember Anandi lovers were saying before that how can Anandi take a bold step forward? Shiv should profess love to her, he should take the first step. Now he waited for 4 months, declared his love, forgave Anandi for staying with Jagiya in the same house, and now people are saying give her more time.

I cannot tolerate Jagiya, but I want him to come back with Smriti Jha and start a rocking chemistry. This AnSh romance that I looked forward to is a big damper because of both Anandi's sulks and Shiv's mahanta. He bringing that huge portrait of Singhs in the bedroom is the height of lunacy. Anandi will now look at the picture and cry for the next several months, forget about making love. He could not think of a better gift?

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Where did I say that Shiv did was wrong?Don't you see my disagreement with the TM??Why don't you read the topic makers post?

Did I ever condemn Shiv's behaviour in my post?

As for Anandi she may have issues which were related to her previous relationship and she may have been worried that she may not match up to her current husband's expaectations. That could very well be the reason she is scared and reluctant to get into a physical relationship.

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

He went fast for her? After waiting for 4 months? She repeatedly says she has no regrets of marrying Shiv, then why she has this attitude? She can be blushing, be shy, but why this anger?

The CVs want the audience to believe this pseudo drama? anandi marries Shiv khushi khushi and then spurns his touch? This is height of ridiculousness and hypocrisy. At least in the Western world, there is no hypocrisy like this. In Indian society, we are all hypocrites, say something, and do something else.

I am not upset with Shiv for making an advance towards Anandi. I remember Anandi lovers were saying before that how can Anandi take a bold step forward? Shiv should profess love to her, he should take the first step. Now he waited for 4 months, declared his love, forgave Anandi for staying with Jagiya in the same house, and now people are saying give her more time.

I cannot tolerate Jagiya, but I want him to come back with Smriti Jha and start a rocking chemistry. This AnSh romance that I looked forward to is a big damper because of both Anandi's sulks and Shiv's mahanta. He bringing that huge portrait of Singhs in the bedroom is the height of lunacy. Anandi will now look at the picture and cry for the next several months, forget about making love. He could not think of a better gift?

Shiv is not wrong. He had been professing his love to Anandi through words till now…and now he wants to express it by action. Being a husband who is crazily in love with his wife, what he is doing is very normal. So yes…Shiv is not wrong.

But Anandi too is not wrong here. Anandi at this point is confused and scared about physical intimacy. And yes…Shiv did go too fast for her. But he was not wrong in doing so too. May be this way, Anandi will start her battle between her heart and mind. She had been a victim of infidelity and constant emotional abuse and insult of being compared to another woman and may be having a deep inferiority complex. We don't know the intensity of the effect of her failed marriage on her. We don't know about what her relation with Jagya was when he used to visit Jaitsar on holidays during his MBBS days. We don't know what would be happening behind the closed doors. A woman can always sense if there is an emotional disconnect with her spouse and it can be very painful.

I feel this is the only way how she could have known how much her hubby loves her….and give her some time, she will come around. Imagine the condition, if she wanted it and Shiv didn't initiate. So it is better to initiate than not.

I am sure Shiv will understand her and give her the time she needs and I think that she may not take more time. If we recall after thanking Shiv for gifting her Singhs' framed picture, he does touch her shoulders and wish her for their first morning of marriage, she was very comfortable with him.

So lets wait and I am sure they both will sail through this. At this point, I can only say Bechara Shiv, Bechari Anandi and Bechare Hum.

We all are shocked….so CVs you can have your last laugh!

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

you dont have to shalluu... but we do right.

So unless there is real criticism of the character.. just dont bash her character calling her names, mocking her.

Real criticism is fine... like talking about feelings and thoughts rather htan taunts...

Because... we relate... and sympathize..

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In our discussions, you think AnSh supporters don't criticize Anandi?

OFCOURSE they do.. but they don't taunt her. WE discuss.. her feelings and why she might be doing what she is doing and if she is wrong she is wrong. Her way , her approach ..but htere is a way to say and do things..

Why hurt other people's sentiment by always taunting and mocking her?

Thats why if you don't care atleast think abotu those who do care and stop for that...

You are more than welcome to discuss about A's thoughts and feelings but please do it in a proper manner without hurting others sentiments.