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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: -Perseus-



not sure what your problem is? Was it that Anandi was inconsiderate or was it that her act is Mahaan??

i'm confused because I don't think these two acts go together.

unlike you I wasn't spell bound cause Anandi did not plot to make Shiv sleep away from her . She was just preoccupied and casual about it.too much of nitpicking in the forum 🥱

I like your way of putting things, and was really looking forward for your reply. So very well put
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dsupriya

I like your way of putting things, and was really looking forward for your reply. So very well put



My problem is that I cannot tolerate Anandi to be completely inconsiderate towards Shiv. She never had a deadline to marry - so she could wait and make a serious effort to take the relationship to the next level. But all the steps were taken by Shiv and she has not moved forward an inch despite knowing that she will be married to him. This is neither friendship nor love. And specially it hurts because it is almost impossible to get a person like Shiv in a lifetime.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It was very strange that Anandi didn't talk to Shiv about him sleeping on the chair. I was wondering what happened to our ever caring Anandi. After pondering over it for 2-3 days, I think I got the answer.
Anandi is big time confused. On one hand she wants to move on and make Shiv happy. On the other hand she is hell scared that whether she is good enough for him and whether she can fulfill his dreams with absolute honesty. She doesn't want to start a conversation with him regarding the sleeping arrangement since she herself doesn't know what to tell him.
She does not want to ask him for time. She will not be able to commit on a time frame. Also, she does not want to disppoint him.
She doesn't want to invite him to bed because she doesn't know whether she is ready.
She is leaving the choice to him. She wants to accept his decision, whatever it is.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Without taking any sides, I will say very bad direction. CVs have failed big time in making Anandi emote properly. They should have shown her more caring, they should have shown her to be woken up by the 12 alarm clocks, and blushingly asking her husband to sleep on the bed. Instead of showing her nervous and blushing, they showed her upset in the precap next morning when Shiv tried touching her. Either they are giving bad direction or Prats is unable to emote.

This is higly unrealistic. Have not seen the next day's episode yet, but Anandi's dull expressions and Shiv's stupid surrender to his wife's weird behavior, makes the upcoming episodes very uninteresting.

Anyways, CVs are humans too, and I hope they will make amends. They are capable of good work, and they should display that soon. I think a new track with Jagya and Ganga is highly desirable, as this AnSh track is very boring and predictable, like every other show.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Without taking any sides, I will say very bad direction. CVs have failed big time in making Anandi emote properly. They should have shown her more caring, they should have shown her to be woken up by the 12 alarm clocks, and blushingly asking her husband to sleep on the bed. Instead of showing her nervous and blushing, they showed her upset in the precap next morning when Shiv tried touching her. Either they are giving bad direction or Prats is unable to emote.


This is higly unrealistic. Have not seen the next day's episode yet, but Anandi's dull expressions and Shiv's stupid surrender to his wife's weird behavior, makes the upcoming episodes very uninteresting.

Anyways, CVs are humans too, and I hope they will make amends. They are capable of good work, and they should display that soon. I think a new track with Jagya and Ganga is highly desirable, as this AnSh track is very boring and predictable, like every other show.

We did not want to see her nervous and blushing on Shiv touching her. So wats bad direction on CVs part for some may not be same for others.
It was evident from the different signs that Anandi will not sleep with Shiv on the wedding night because she is not ready for that level of intimacy. She was not comfortable the night before the wedding. I am only waiting for her to tell him to back off as she needs more time. Looking forward to that episode.
I wud have been seriously disappointed with CVs if they made Anandi submit against her will to Shiv's advances just because she is his wife now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Woh din bhi aa jayega., Itni jaldi bhi kya hai? Mujhe to lagta hai,bahat jald hi aayega.😉😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: poiu123

We did not want to see her nervous and blushing on Shiv touching her. So wats bad direction on CVs part for some may not be same for others.

It was evident from the different signs that Anandi will not sleep with Shiv on the wedding night because she is not ready for that level of intimacy. She was not comfortable the night before the wedding. I am only waiting for her to tell him to back off as she needs more time. Looking forward to that episode.
I wud have been seriously disappointed with CVs if they made Anandi submit against her will to Shiv's advances just because she is his wife now.

True, we all knew that they will not sleep together on the first night. But the way she fell asleep, and never woke up by those 12 alarm clocks, and forgot to say sorry to Shiv that she fell asleep, shows her very uncaring and insensitive. I think that is bad direction. CVs have always shown her confused with Shiv. Giving encouraging signs sometimes, and then shrinking away from him. To me that tells that CVs want to drag the AnSh story and are confused themselves how to proceed. They don't have to show Anandi jumping on the bed with Shiv, but at least show her to be caring and kind towards her best friend, her husband.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@JuhiRockz

exactly..cvs dint know how to elongate the anandi shiv track...so they pushed the nice caring n reciprocating anandi into this new this mode...
i just cant believe its the same anandi who was dreaming about shiv the night after shiv decided to call off the wedding...n blushed when shiv asked if she would miss him...
is it the same anandi who promised herself that she would share everything with shiv..
--she said 'kuch na chupaaungi apse' in front of windchimes gifted by shiv..
her being afraid of physical intimacy is fine..but the way she is avoiding him and behaving as if she doesnt care really questions her character..

i agree this is sheer bad story telling.

even anandi and singhs missing each other has been overdone to the limits..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@poiu123 n mansimat

how long will u try n justify anandi... lyk u i was also a big anandi fan--a girl who never succumbed to the most difficult of situation.. always wanted anandi to hate jagat for his misdeeds n alwz wanted anandi to meet a perfect guy like shiv...
after introduction of shiv,, anandis character has become weaker n weaker ...
first mistake she made was when she asked shiv to marry her..how cud she be so inconsiderate..ok its fine since she was in shock of her mothers death..
her present concerns are abrupt..how did the physical intimacy issues not occur to her when chotimaa asked her to backoff from the marriage..
she says she values his freidship n the relatioship they share..but her actions speak otherwise..
how did chotimas words not echo in her ears when she asked jagdish to stay in the haveli..
again she chose being mahaan n risked their relationship...

now she is not even acting mahaan..she has become so that timid that she cannot ask shiv for some space
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jack0007

@poiu123 n mansimat


how long will u try n justify anandi... lyk u i was also a big anandi fan--a girl who never succumbed to the most difficult of situation.. always wanted anandi to hate jagat for his misdeeds n alwz wanted anandi to meet a perfect guy like shiv...
after introduction of shiv,, anandis character has become weaker n weaker ...
first mistake she made was when she asked shiv to marry her..how cud she be so inconsiderate..ok its fine since she was in shock of her mothers death..
her present concerns are abrupt..how did the physical intimacy issues not occur to her when chotimaa asked her to backoff from the marriage..
she says she values his freidship n the relatioship they share..but her actions speak otherwise..
how did chotimas words not echo in her ears when she asked jagdish to stay in the haveli..
again she chose being mahaan n risked their relationship...

now she is not even acting mahaan..she has become so that timid that she cannot ask shiv for some space

Yes, it is very strange that Shiv all of a sudden has become like a stranger to her.😆
Let us leave the issue of SR aside. How could she not see how uncomfortable shiv was sleeping in the chair? Had no courtsey to ask him that either? It is not like anandi's character at all.
when she was taking care of jagya during his false-bimari, she herself had sat down on the floor whole night leaning her head against the bed instead of sleeping properly in her bed.
Why this step-mothely treatment for Shiv ??

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