Anandi not bothered about Shiv sleeping in chair - Page 3

for feeling love toward she already told to sumitra and she even said to sumitra aisa kurke main shiv ke saath anyaye kur rahi hoon .she is not at all happy she is not in love with shiv instead she is feeling guilty, anandi was betrayed in love so it is natural she will not fall in love to shiv so easily no matter how shiv care her but at least she is caring for shiv and by this caring when she will fall in love with shiv she will herself dont know because it is said v do not love but it autamatically happen

😭poor shiv iss mein ajee ka kya fault shiv was busy staring at his wife and ajee was busy staring at alarms 🤣

To yeh baat saaf saaf Shiv ko kyun nehi keh dete that even after 4 months I still do not feel any love towards you - no matter whatever you feel towards me or no matter how deeply you have expressed your feelings towards me. Aise to she summons the Collector Saab for her every agony for Jagiya, and enjoys the collector saab's attention and his every possible excuses to talk to her with encouraging smiles - to itna to kahi sakti thi na ke I enjoy your attention towards me but do not take it as love since I can only love Jagiya - itna honesty to mahaan Anandi se expect kiya jaa saakta hai na?

Originally posted by: musicmaniac

To yeh baat saaf saaf Shiv ko kyun nehi keh dete that even after 4 months I still do not feel any love towards you - no matter whatever you feel towards me or no matter how deeply you have expressed your feelings towards me. Aise to she summons the Collector Saab for her every agony for Jagiya, and enjoys the collector saab's attention and his every possible excuses to talk to her with encouraging smiles - to itna to kahi sakti thi na ke I enjoy your attention towards me but do not take it as love since I can only love Jagiya - itna honesty to mahaan Anandi se expect kiya jaa saakta hai na?

She can clearly see how madly Shiv has fallen in love with her - why did she raise his expectations? She should have spoken clearly with him before marriage and could still be good friends with him. She should remember that Shiv did not propose marriage to her - her esteemed selfish dadisa proposed this to Shiv. Shiv never forced marriage to her - her dadisa did. So why should Shiv suffer?

Koi zaroori thodi na hai that she has to fall in love with him on Day 1 of marriage. And why sud she lie and say she still loves Jagya when she does not. She had made her feelings clear before she married Shiv that she does not love him .He still married her. Infact the last I remember, Shiv was saying "Please mujhse shaadi kar lijiye" when he was trying to return the payal. So it was him asking her to marry him. Waise bhi it takes guts for a man to marry a girl with a troubled or painful past. Any average or "normal" man cannot do it. Such a person requires a little more sensitivity , care , understanding and patience that your average male and hence such men are rare. Till now CVs have portayed Shiv to be such a person till now and thats why they have chosen him for Anandi.

Originally posted by: poiu123

Koi zaroori thodi na hai that she has to fall in love with him on Day 1 of marriage. And why sud she lie and say she still loves Jagya when she does not. She had made her feelings clear before she married Shiv that she does not love him .He still married her. Infact the last I remember, Shiv was saying "Please mujhse shaadi kar lijiye" when he was trying to return the payal. So it was him asking her to marry him. Waise bhi it takes guts for a man to marry a girl with a troubled or painful past. Any average or "normal" man cannot do it. Such a person requires a little more sensitivity , care , understanding and patience that your average male and hence such men are rare. Till now CVs have portayed Shiv to be such a person till now and thats why they have chosen him for Anandi.

Well even Shiv was not bothered by Anandi's uncomfortable sleeping position...She had slept off half sitting on the bed.he could have adjusted her to sleep better instead he was busy recording her...So tht way they r in same boat so why question only Anandi 😉

shiv acchi tarah janta hai ki anandi mujhse pyaar nahi karti bus meri izzat kurti hai to iske bavjood bhi shiv aisa kurta hai to anandi ki koi galti nahi aur maine aaj tuk nahi dekha ki shiv ko isse koi abhi tuk eitraz hai bulki woh usse khush hai to hum kaise keh sekte hain ki woh suffer kur raha hai

Shiv has clearly said that he is happy with Anandi's friendship and WILL WAIT for her to fall in love with him. There is no time deal in falling in love though. Four months have passed with Shiv caring for her, I agree. But that''s not a guaranteed time frame to fall in love with someone.

Anandi proposed bcoz of her promise to her mom. True. Shiv was very well aware of the situation. Anandi didn't pretend to love him or seduce him and get him married to her. She has been honest with her intention. Shiv is madly in love with her, so he agreed.

So if we see, Shiv is pretty clear about where he stands with her.

Now that Shiv & Anandi's stands are clear to each other, it's obvious that Anandi will not immediately jump in bed with him. She will take some time. From the way Shiv has been shown as a perceptive and sensitive person, he understands this too & that's why out of respect for Anandi he slept on the sofa. Anandi gracefully accepted his gesture & his care. She already knew why he slept on the sofa. So she didn't ask an intrusive, uncomfortable question like this in the morning.

Everything is how it would be when it's an arranged marriage with a twist..

Now the story is about how & when Anandi falls in love with him. Till now its been shown that she cares for him, respects the institution of marriage and respects Shiv himself highly. How has this much happened, bcoz of Shiv's behavior, his caring sensitive attitude, the way he gives her so much respect - everything that he has done so far.

she is victim dear we cant say anythig against her...shekhars and sigh are the families of today generation but they cant change thinknig of their so called victim bahu...anandi is lucky to have shiv but shiv is unlucky to have her...

Originally posted by: musicmaniac

Today Anandi got up and switched off the alarm and started brushing her hair. She never even bothered to ask shiv why he slept in the chair - whether he could sleep well in the chair or not. The way she nonchalantlywent to brush her perfectly combed hair without bothering about Shiv, left me completely spellbound. As if it is expected that Shiv will sleep in the chair and she will sleep in the bed.

Honestly, if I am married to a person whom I have not known before, and I wake up to see him sleeping on the couch on my wedding night, first thing I would have told him to sleep on the bed to get rest as he has not slept well. My "unknown" husband or my not so good "friend" would deserve at least that much respect. But again, I am normal human being and not a "mahaan aatma".

not sure what your problem is? Was it that Anandi was inconsiderate or was it that her act is Mahaan??

i'm confused because I don't think these two acts go together.

unlike you I wasn't spell bound cause Anandi did not plot to make Shiv sleep away from her . She was just preoccupied and casual about it.too much of nitpicking in the forum 🥱