anandi-sumitra convo-awesome and much needed - Page 2

Originally posted by: shivanandi78

Anandi to fir kyu kaha ki ab uske man me jagya ke liye Kuch Nahi he.mandir scane,Payal scane aur ab ye sab . Anandi sirf apne maa ke vachan ke liye hi ye shadi kar rahi. Shiv ki life spoil kar degi .use shiv se sach me shadi Nahi karni chahiye.apne matlab ke liye kisi aur ki jindgi Nahi barbad kar sakti . Usne ab tak shiv Jo bhi kaha voh sab juth tha. CM word is right ki anandi shiv ko voh jagah tkarde payegi? Sach eisa feel hota he ab shiv ke sath uski shadi na ho to achcha he. She deserve just jagya.ab tak kya kar rahi thi smile kar kar ke shiv ko phasa diya.

Very well said,nice post. Convo between Sumitra adn Anandi was so heart touching. when I first heard A saying that I thought why she is saying so ?? But then I realized that ok she only thinks that Love can happen only once and many people think so as well. She thinks that She was in love with J long time back it doesn't mean that she is still in love with J. Her love was already shattered and she is already out and over with J.Now she only fear for her new relation and Shiv. She only fear about will she be able to love back Shiv as much love she will get from him. It only shows that she is already feeling for Shiv but only scared...just my thought

HMMM yeh to sach hai ki everybody wants to know that will anandi fall in love with shiv or not? lekin guy's ek baat to hai ki she already fallen in love with him in disguies of respect... she already told that she doesn't have any feeling for jagia...infact if we remember today also when she was looking at jagia she was thinking abt their "childhood" when they were friends... aaj ke jagia ke liye nahi soch raha tha...kyon ki aaj ke jagia ko yaad karne ke liye uske pass koi achchi yaad hi nahi hai...so pati ka pyaar ke bare me anandi ko pata nahi aur woh jagah bilqul khali hai... isiliye"shiv" ke liye alag se"jagah"banane ki zaroorat hi nahi hai kyon ki woh jagah already khali hai... aur jo worry aaj anandi ki thi shiv ke liye woh bhi agar socha jaee to "pyaar" hi hai kyon ki woh chahti hi nahi ki"shiv" ko badle me thora sa bhi kam pyaar woh kare...shiv ko woh utna hi pyaar ker sake jitna shiv usse karta hai...aur" paar ek baar hi hota hai" mujhe nahi lagta ki poori tarah se sahi hai... coz as "sumitra" said... "hamara kaleja itna bara hai ki hum kisi anjaan aurat ko "ma" aur anjaan mard ko"baap" maan lete hai ...yo"shiv" to behud pyaar karne wala pati hai...so chill guys...haan itna zaroor request hai cv.s se ANSH ke pyyar ke devlopment ko khubsurti se dikhaya jaee

Agreed to each and every point you have mentioned here...She just needs a realization that all the feelings/lagav/emotions that she has towards Shiv are not just feelings...they are more than that...right now she is just worried that she might not be able to reciprocate Shiv's feelings...which I think she is already doing but not realizing...the blushes...the smiles...the care in her eyes towards shiv😊

really, I thought this conversation was a big bore.

Very good post on a brilliant episode and conversation. Wish every mother is at hand when their daughters feel marriage blues.

ya even i luvd d convo especially d rference 2 namkeen khichdi..

Ye namkeen khicadi vali advise to sirf anandi ke liye hi nahi sabhi ladkiyo ke liye samjane vali bat he.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Nice post.Thanks.

She is very clear that she wants S as her life partner.

She is only overwhelmed by his love for her and she is worried whether she will be able to match up to that love.

Because she thinks all that love she had for Jagya had not been enough to save her marriage and that's why she is having doubts of her capacity to love again r will her love be enough to make her marriage a success this time.

She is only expressing her apprehensions about her capabilities

It is just that she has not realised that she has started to love him already. For that to happen she has to live with him to realise how much he means to her.

very well said Aparna

Very nice post, thread maker.