anandi-sumitra convo-awesome and much needed

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Shreya

@luv_shanak

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Posted: 12 years ago

today's episode was so emotional..awesome episode👏👏. i loved that anandi shared her fears with sumitra.. its very natural for a girl going to get married to have these kinds of insecurities , specially when its the case of punar vivah and i m glad ki anandi openly shared her feelings with her mother...some people , i noticed , are dissapointed that anandi said ki "pyar ek baar hi hota hai" and" will she able to love shiv the same way" ... but guys i dont understand why are you unhappy... this was bound to happen kyunki we know ki anandi is yet to realise her love for shiv... use abhi bhi lagta hai ki love happens once, so she , though respects shiv a lot , is not sure if she would be able to reciprocate his love in the same way , little does she know that she is already fallen head over heels for him but some big jhatka is required for her to realise her love for shiv...

and some people at at were saying ki if anandi doesnt love shiv then what was her lines of lagaav and all when shiv cancelled the wedding.. then guys i must tell you that at that time also anandi didnt say that she loved shiv.. she only said ki use shiv ke sath hi apna jeevan bitana hai because he is only one who understands her completely... but when she saw the intensity of shiv's love for her , she is having doubts ki what if she fails in loving shiv as much as he does her.. wont it be an injustice to him...

itne years ke rishte se bahar ana itna asan nahi hota ki 4-5 mahine mein sab bhul jaya jae .. dheere dheere time lagta lagta hai.. infact i would have been dissapointed if anandi shiv se itni jaldi pyaar karne lagti... once bitten is twice shy.. so anandi ke liye shiv se pyar kki realisation mein abhi bahut time hai

so guys chill.. aj jo hua , ye to hona hi that kyunki as i mentioned earlier also ki anandi is still not at same place where shiv is..bt she would be there soon once she starts living with him...i was so glad when she shared her concern about shiv's feelings and says that she trust him fully...

pa aj ke episode se ek baat to pakki hai ki suhaagraat ko abhi bahut time lagne wala hai.. its not gonna happen any time soon😭😭

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booksfreak07

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Posted: 12 years ago

Completely agree with everything you just said.
She hasn't realised her live yet, because I don't think she loves him completely yet. She loves him little bit but has immense amount of respect for him. That's the most important thing for now as love without trust and respect never lasts.
Something major has to happen or her to maybe start the process of love or realization of love (depends on how the CVs want to portray it).
And yes, no SR in the near future for sure!!

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice post.Thanks.

She is very clear that she wants S as her life partner.

She is only overwhelmed by his love for her and she is worried whether she will be able to match up to that love.

Because she thinks all that love she had for Jagya had not been enough to save her marriage and that's why she is having doubts of her capacity to love again r will her love be enough to make her marriage a success this time.

She is only expressing her apprehensions about her capabilities

It is just that she has not realised that she has started to love him already. For that to happen she has to live with him to realise how much he means to her.

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booksfreak07

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Nice post.Thanks.

She is very clear that she wants S as her life partner.

She is onlyoverwhelmedby his love for her and she is worried whether she will be able to match up to that love.

Because she thinks all that love she had for Jagya had not been enough to save her marriage and that's why she is having doubts of her capacity to love again r will her love be enough to make her marriage a success this time.

She is only expressing her apprehensions about her capabilities

It is just that she has not realised that she has started to love him already. For that to happen she has to live with him to realise how much he means to her.

Very well analyzed and very well put 😊

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Bulbul

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Posted: 12 years ago

agree with you..having apprehensions in case of second marriage is not weird or wrong..the insecurities to be able to make this marriage a success will remain for sometime!

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Shreya

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: booksfreak07
Completely agree with everything you just said.
She hasn't realised her live yet, because I don't think she loves him completely yet. She loves him little bit but has immense amount of respect for him. That's the most important thing for now as love without trust and respect never lasts.
Something major has to happen or her to maybe start the process of love or realization of love (depends on how the CVs want to portray it).
And yes, no SR in the near future for sure!!

you are absolutely right ... pyar ,secially mere liye to ek dusre ke liye respect se badh ka kuch nahi hai, and we all know ki anandi kitni izzat karti hai apne collector sahab ki...and you are right ki major jhatka will only maake her realise that.. may be ashima ka track isiliye cvs ne open choda hai ...

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Shreya

@luv_shanak

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Nice post.Thanks.

She is very clear that she wants S as her life partner.

She is only overwhelmed by his love for her and she is worried whether she will be able to match up to that love.

Because she thinks all that love she had for Jagya had not been enough to save her marriage and that's why she is having doubts of her capacity to love again r will her love be enough to make her marriage a success this time.

She is only expressing her apprehensions about her capabilities

It is just that she has not realised that she has started to love him already. For that to happen she has to live with him to realise how much he means to her.

exactly my point ki she is feeling insecu anyt didnt getre ki what if he second marriage doesnt work out .. in case of her and jagiya, she gave her 100%, but didnt get anything .. au ab when she saw ki 200% se zyada de raha hai to their relationshi[, she is scaed coz she thinks that this time she might not be able to give justice to this relationship , which is quite normall

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Shreya

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Bul3
agree with you..having apprehensions in case of second marriage is not weird or wrong..the insecurities to be able to make this marriage a success will remain for sometime!

and i m glad ki wo insecurity rahe thode time tak.. i dont want cvs to rush their love story.. bas shadi jaldi dikha de.. pyar ke liye to i can wait and we know ki pyar to ho kar hi rahega😊😊

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mozart66

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Posted: 12 years ago

Correct! Well said.

Anandi has really not seen the world outside Jaitser and Bilaria. Her world is now about to expand beyond the horizons of Jaitser and only then will she realize her feelings for Shiv. Till now, she has been living life as per other's wishes or her mind was conditioned in a very traditional way. Now she is truly stepping into an outside world. She is bound to have apprehensions. regarding 'pyaar ek baar hi hota hai...' dialogue - all I can say is that till now Jagya was her world and she never ever experienced attention of any other man in her life as her friend or lover, so she is unaware of her true feelings.

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Jaymaa

@Jaymaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Anandi to fir kyu kaha ki ab uske man me jagya ke liye Kuch Nahi he.mandir scane,Payal scane aur ab ye sab . Anandi sirf apne maa ke vachan ke liye hi ye shadi kar rahi. Shiv ki life spoil kar degi .use shiv se sach me shadi Nahi karni chahiye.apne matlab ke liye kisi aur ki jindgi Nahi barbad kar sakti . Usne ab tak shiv Jo bhi kaha voh sab juth tha. CM word is right ki anandi shiv ko voh jagah de payegi? Sach eisa feel hota he ab shiv ke sath uski shadi na ho to achcha he. She deserve just jagya.ab tak kya kar rahi thi smile kar kar ke shiv ko phasa diya.

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anandi-sumitra convo-awesome and much needed

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