BV WU 22/10 ...Choti maa's warning...

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#61

I feel ansh sagai to break temporarily and make anandi independent of Singh family. Live away from the family so DS realize her value. Anandi getting freedom to take her decision to marry or remain single. Shiv shld still be her friend and work together irrespective of their broken sagai. May be this might give her space to think abt her decision to marry or not.

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Mikey21

@Mikey21

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Posted: 12 years ago

#62

Sagai is not broken .ek dusre ki ring vapas dene par sagai tuti he mana jayega.CM ne do bat kahi he rethink about rista or shadi ki date aage karne ke liye. I worried about rail ghotala. Then may be rethink about rista.

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vamita

@vamita

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#63

I don't understand one thing and that is why Anandi feels that Singhs had done her a favour...Ehsaan...That is just too big a word...I have seen many talking about it as well...She was there daughter in law...They had bought her during her childhood as a child bride and that was their mistake...Not just theirs, but also her parents...Then she got attached to them and they to her...The relationship developed into a beautiful bond slowly through the years...Yeah, it is rare that people support their daughter-in-law, but Singhs did this, because they knew the difference between right and wrong and they choose the path of the truth and supported Anandi...That doesn't mean that they did favour to her...They did what they thought right...They made her their daughter and like every other parent wished that she be happy in her life...It is not ehsaan, but love...And further, she did for them as much as they did for her...She took care of them day and night, took the bullet meant for Jagya, helped Jagya in reaching his goals, bought happiness in everyone's life...So, it was mutual love of the family...

She needs to understand this and put forward her thoughts before them including dadisa, instead of crying in front of Shiv...She doesn't feel right with Jagya, still she keeps quite and cries before Shiv...If she is not liking it, she needs to talk to dadisa and tell her about it...Didn't dadisa told her that she is their daughter...Then as a daughter, she needs to tell her this without any hesitation...I really hope that she comes out of her gloomy past and walk towards the path where she sees light...

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anonee

@anonee

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#64

One thing is not clear to me: Why did choti ma not remind the Singh's that they had promised the Shekhar parivaar that Jagia would never enter the haveli - that they would never, in anyway entertain Jagia!!

The Singhs have double standards - and Anadi's concept and understanding of a hubby-wife relationship is all warped. Her loyalty to Shiv, her fiance, and his family - is namesake compared to the loyalty she feels towards Jagia and Dadisa!

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anonee

@anonee

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
How shamelessly DS told Cm how anandi is acting as jaggubhai wife. I wish she gets a heart attack after leading abt jaggubhai fake memory loss. I seriously wish anandi giving her left right bashaan abt her deeds. She first forced her into getting married to shiv then now what's her to act as beendhni to her potha. She shld die after getting heartattack. She is the most disgusting old lady in the serial.

No Dadisa should not die - she should live long to suffer inconsolably for her double standards and misdeeds!!

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anonee

@anonee

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: elasingh
Ppl r saying Shiv should have stopped Anandi acting as Jagia's wife. I wonder if she would
have listened to him.
Till now i have seen her using Shiv , never caring for his feelings.

ITA Anandi does not show respect or concern for Shiv. She has no loyalty or integrity re: their relationship

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anonee

@anonee

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye

Honestly I think it is entirely Anandi's fault. Yes DS is definitely to blame, but the person who is being taken advantage of here is Anandi, and if she lets that happen then it is her fault alone.

Bhairon is definitely not at fault. Every time he is the only one who has stood up to DS for Anandi, and each time Anandi stops him and agrees to bend over backwards. Had Anandi not done that Bhairon would have taken a firmer stand. Since Anandi keeps telling him that she will do it, he is helpless.

What can Shiv do? He is not yet married to Anandi, so he has only the rights that Anandi gives him. They have a friendship and are not lovers yet, so he doesn't have as much right yet.

I see this as entirely Anandi's battle to fight. DS has always taken advantage of her and she has allowed it. Even in this dire situation she is allowing DS to overrule her. When DS had Jagya and Gauri stay together in front of Anandi, when DS had Anandi pretend to be Jagya's wife when her sister was here, in all cases a normal person would have refused. But Anandi being the martyr obliged.

Yup - Anandi is the main culprit here. She is the one who is perpetrating the situation. She does not want to accept that she is no longer married to Jagia and is betrothed to Shiv!!

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Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#68

Dadisa is the real culprit, no second opinion needed in that. But at least this time she did not force anandi to act as jagya's wife. It was purely anandi's decision.

Before dadisa could even open her mouth, Bhairo went against his mother to support anandi. he said we will take him to jaipur and give him the best treatment, but when parampujya anandi devi herself said that she wants to do his seva, what could the father say? (Maybe she thought no doctors can treat him better than her.😆😆...such a pure, innocent soul!)

And we all know how firm our dadisa's bhola-bhala son is!🤣

So how is dadisa responsible for everything?

It was more like a sarpanch's decision.

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Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: elasingh
Ppl r saying Shiv should have stopped Anandi acting as Jagia's wife. I wonder if she would
have listened to him.
Till now i have seen her using Shiv , never caring for his feelings.

she went all the way to the pond to make him listen to her and only to convince him. I am sure that pond was filled only with her tears!