BV WU 22/10 ...Choti maa's warning... - Page 8

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Posted: 12 years ago
#71
thanks for a great WU,interesting account of events.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

All I can say about this episode is there is limits to what extent you can go to help a fellow human being whether the person is deserving or not.


I hope A and S learnt their lessons from this.There is only so much pain you can take.I hope they realise that they have reached their maximum levels
If they persist with this I have to say they are being stupid.

Well Singhs got what they deserved.Serves DS right even if the lesson has come from CM.

Totally agree with you aparna...This is like tolerating non-sense to no limits, in the name of goodness...One should always be balanced between what is right and wrong and what is good for us as well as what is good thing to do...If we don't then there is no limit to tears and they will never cease to come...!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A and J still acting like couple. In maha arti session.
It seems CM's warning fell upon deaf ears.
Edited by elasingh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#74
Thanks foe the wu . I used to watch this show regularly long back. Nicely written👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anonee

One thing is not clear to me: Why did choti ma not remind the Singh's that they had promised the Shekhar parivaar that Jagia would never enter the haveli - that they would never, in anyway entertain Jagia!!

The Singhs have double standards - and Anadi's concept and understanding of a hubby-wife relationship is all warped. Her loyalty to Shiv, her fiance, and his family - is namesake compared to the loyalty she feels towards Jagia and Dadisa!


When J walked in with Nandu CM was there.So she knew in what situation he entered the house.But the rest of it she did not know.Only when Nandu said all taht he wanted to say that she got to know about this.Since he was ill obviously she cannot say why he was allowed to stay at home.I don't think she had problems with Singhs looking after their son.She had problems with A pretending to be his wife.
But she could not protest much because her beloved son was also into this drama.

Singhs or rather DS's double standards got exposed by CM.That's why she didn't open her mouth.

I blame S here.He should have put his foot down when DS decided to continue with this drama.A wouldn't have gone ahead with it if S put his foot down.

What can you expect from S?He is the moonchewale Anandi.
So today we had CM taking up the cause of A and S and fighting on their behalf.

CM seems to do good to A and S relationship unintentionally and DS does bad unintentionally despite wanting A and S to be together.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vamita

I don't understand one thing and that is why Anandi feels that Singhs had done her a favour...Ehsaan...That is just too big a word...I have seen many talking about it as well...She was there daughter in law...They had bought her during her childhood as a child bride and that was their mistake...Not just theirs, but also her parents...Then she got attached to them and they to her...The relationship developed into a beautiful bond slowly through the years...Yeah, it is rare that people support their daughter-in-law, but Singhs did this, because they knew the difference between right and wrong and they choose the path of the truth and supported Anandi...That doesn't mean that they did favour to her...They did what they thought right...They made her their daughter and like every other parent wished that she be happy in her life...It is not ehsaan, but love...And further, she did for them as much as they did for her...She took care of them day and night, took the bullet meant for Jagya, helped Jagya in reaching his goals, bought happiness in everyone's life...So, it was mutual love of the family...

She needs to understand this and put forward her thoughts before them including dadisa, instead of crying in front of Shiv...She doesn't feel right with Jagya, still she keeps quite and cries before Shiv...If she is not liking it, she needs to talk to dadisa and tell her about it...Didn't dadisa told her that she is their daughter...Then as a daughter, she needs to tell her this without any hesitation...I really hope that she comes out of her gloomy past and walk towards the path where she sees light...


Even I agree with you.In fact it is Anandi who has done ehsaan to Singhs by sticking with them even after their son has kicked them and left them.It is she who gave them the feeling that their son is still with them.Not to mention the way she saved his life.I think it is high time DS realises this and des the right thing by standing by A.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have yet to watch. But, AM PISSED!

I saw this coming - cuz it is parallel completely to the BM track, but am still mad. I can understand taking care of J while he was genuinely sick and delirious. I wud do same in a heartbeat. Its my first responders' lifesaving training and personal ethics to save first think later even if its my worst enemy.🤔 But, AnSh today are the real AMNESIACS not J. His life is no longer hanging in the balance, so I fail to see the need for them to play along with him. He forgot A's NOT his wife - TOO BAD - SO SAD... For 1/2 a decade he DIDN'T REMEMBER she was his wife! A owes him nothing. The need for humanity is no more.

I don't think she is doing it out of duty for the Singhs but, love and human duty. But, human duty ended when J stopped fighting btwn life -death. As for love for the Singhs, it should not override common sense & propriety now that the emergency is over.

Coming to Shiv - its hurting him and he can see that its hurting Anandi. As such he should stop this objectively from a place of reason & logic.

The Singhs and all have clearly lost their Common Sense to Moh Maya of Jagya. 🤪

As for Jagya he's becoming irredeemable day by day... I don't know how he recovers from this... how 1/5 J survives this balakar of his character? He is harassing - sexually harassing the woman who was his childhood bestfriend, the girl that took a bullet for him, the wife that sustained his family. Forget violation of every other relationship they have shared... what J is doing is violation of the husband-wife relationship itself. It is near mental rape. No man - no husband should thus betray a woman. A wife should be her husbands' honour, here what J is doing is complete dishonour...Imposition of his will by deceit bin haq.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anjana - I am sure A and S will learn a lesson from this.They sure will realise that being too good,kind and understanding is not good always.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anjana - I am sure A and S will learn a lesson from this.They sure will realise that being too good,kind and understanding is not good always.


I hope so! Its a valuable life lesson I personally learnt through error too. Actually, retrospectively maybe I didn't cuz I wud do what I did again🤣 Doing the "right" thing matters more then doing the "smart" thing for me too. Guess I am mad at AnSh because somewhere am as foolish!😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ


I hope so! Its a valuable life lesson I personally learnt through error too. Actually, retrospectively maybe I didn't cuz I wud do what I did again🤣 Doing the "right" thing matters more then doing the "smart" thing for me too. Guess I am mad at AnSh because somewhere am as foolish!😆


I agree It is better to trust and be a fool than not to trust and regret later.

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