read all responses and agree with most of you. There is no one way of looking at J's etry in the haveli. As a matter of fact to some extent (redemption / revenge aside), the moment Jagya came back to Jaitser this was as decided as A-S marriage...
But I personally feel that -
1)In a village setting this is not just akward, it is next to impossible that people will not look at this in wrong way. And this can not be compared to Jagya-Gauri staying with Anandi. We may try to deny as much as we want but there are always different standards which apply to honor when it comes to a man and a woman. Also, Jagya's second ex/wife was there with him whereas Shiv is not there. If Shiv was also staying in haveli, it would have been a totally different scenario. In the end it will lead to tounges wagering and always it is the girl who has to bear brunt of it...
2) As a person, Anandi's self respect will be again wonded. Also it will definately bring back painful memories and no way she can be comfortable. Just imagine, cooking for your ex, seeing him eat food, roaming around the house. Also, Jagya in his revenge mode will try to get maximum mileage and try to come close to her.
3)Shiv's are her in-laws. yes they love her a lot and accept her as their daughter. But in the end, guilt, akwardness and uncomfortable feeling will burden her further. If they don't love him while he is sick, she wil;l feel guilty. If they do, she will feel akward. In either case, she will undergo maximum pain for no fault of hers
Knowing that belariya is out of reach, Bhairav singh should talk about her shifting with phooli for few days. I don't think she herself can say it because of hurting Singhs but Bhairav Singh should understand her position and actually apologise and ask her to stay somewhere else...they may have to swallow thier pride and agree that they failed to look after her but the fact it will be truth if Jagya stays in haveli before Anandi's wedding.