Death Would B Easy for Sleeping Ugly (J) - Page 4

@Hina - I am not a psych student, but I do have a level of empathy for genuine victims and I have taken a psych course or three as well. Anandi sitting in the rain was also bewakoofi. Self hurt like cutting...a manifestation of her emotional pain. Self destructive behavior. A SELFISH BEHAVIOUR...no matter who is doing it. But, I do differentiate btwn Anandi and Jugat is that Jugat is not a VICTIM. He is the AUTHOR of his OWN MISERY. So, no sympathy from me. I don't care about his WOE ME!

arey no Anje dear i was not saying you should feel empathy for victims or any sympathy for him i am only saying his behavior right now is normal with every human being in his shoes or not but is burdened with guilt ...thats it

@Hina - i think we are on the same page about Gauri...I am all for her experiencing all the thiraskar and dard she has put Anandi through and I too don't want her to b forgiven by J until and unless she accepted her culpability for her share of their mutual misdeeds.

i agree with you Anjana...even i dont want her to be forgiven by Jagaya so soon untill or unless she tastes real pain what she did with Anandi and singh family..realize all her mistakes , and try to correct them by doing something good for them ...sorry she has dong way too wrong that she can be forgiven so easily .i still remember that badi massi incident that monster who was dragging Jagaya outside lets go when BM fainted 😡that was so inhumane of her ...life has given her many chances but each time she proved she is worst so this time chance she needs to earn with lots of lots of hard work ...she has done many many many mistakes and she needs to repent them ..i will really hate this idea if cvs some day tapkofy her with baby and fall on everyone's feet sorry ...no way ..not acceptable at all ...🤢she and her mother needs to face all that what they have put other's into

Absolutely right Anjana,

Death would be too easy way to escape...Coward that he is, instead of facing life, the fact that he choose the easy path shows that he is a long way from the reality of realizing that what he did is something which can't be forgiven so easily...He has to pay for every insult and betrayal...!

Why should anyone melt at the sight of Jagya now? Anandi may not have physically slept on the road or her feet may not have stepped on thorns and stones but whatever she went through was actual hell. It is easier to go through physical pain but mental torture is unbearable.

@Fast trak - could not agree more with you. J's journey of realization has just began. They may have to take him in due to health, but G will be BACK. J ka redemption will happen, but there will be miles and miles of reel b4 that happens...and some sins will haunt him till the very end especially as A moves ahead with S😉😆

he is not going to die😆 ...and i think cvs are not trying to gain sympathies for him .😆this is last stage of downfall cvs can show of him ...now he is totally alone , with burden of his mistakes that he realized he has done wrong and is hanging between life and death ...Jagaya's realization must have begin now but not his punishment ..he has been punished for a long time still going on ..where was his life at peace ?😆the day Bhairo came to know about him being having an affair with Gauri and he slapped him from then on where was peace in his life ..his downfall began and that continued and this is final stage for him when he is badly broken ..left alone .is hanging in between life and death ..

@Mahi - l so enjoy your posts and perspective on J.

@Anjana...thank you for liking my posts😳 ...about Jagaya's punishment i was giving an over all view about comments here who are saying Jagaya didn't suffer much ...😆..yes i agree his punishment previously carried no realization with it he was in why why why mode why this is happening to me ...yes he happily chosen his misery ...no doubt in it ..he intentionally threw axe on his feet so now bear pain 😆now he realized why why this was happening to me ... cvs have now pushed him to last straw of his downfall which i think started from the day with his marriage to Gauri now this is the limit now how more they can push him ...i mean he is hanging between life and death..so now probably or must be beginning of rectifying those mistakes ...now even a ray hope again came back in his hopeless life dadisaa's caring hand so now he should try to win the lost trust back of his family selflessly..with realization of his mistakes realize what he needs to do to rectify those mistakes ..of course the path is still full of thorns for him not so easy ...but with flowers comes thorns too he should realize that ..life is not always a bed of roses it carries many thorns of hardships with it he should be ready for it ...about pain and guilt that he will carry for a long time with him definitely its a lot hard for him to come out of everything and move ahead in life not to sulk his all life in depression. but he needs to do that .make him strong enough to do so