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Piya Sharma

@Piyuu_SRK

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

@hina

Actually they both are 50-50% responsible for everything. They both may have different issues but they both were wrong and lacked sense of morality. I am not a supporter of Gauri, never was, infact im the one who never hesitates to tag her with words like s***s as i hate this ''doosri aurat'' concept ! But i just cant see every blame on her coz she was not like that before. JaGa are equally responsible for their downfall. Gauri changed coz of jealousy and insecurity. Whatever she has become ( selfish and a complete liar ) that coz of Jugs and whatever Anandi has become ( from a happy chirpy girl to a girl who is suddenly so mature and serious and still haunted by past memories ) thats also coz of him only. He s responsible for exploitation of two women. He cant walk away so easily. I dont want him dead. I want him to go through the same pain through which Anandi went. Whenever i watch those epis in which he insulted Anandi i just go mad ! He was no less than a monster then ! No !! Only 2 days are not enough for him. No way ! He had to go through a lot.

Gauri. She will suffer her quota of sufferings. See her condition. The man for whom he dod all bad things has left her. She has nothing with her. A woman is complete with a life partner and she dont have one. He has left her. What type of a life she will have ?? No one to love ! She is going to get hell ! She snatched other woman's happiness, how can she remain happy ?! Instead of jugs i want her to suicide out pf guilt or end up in an asylum !!

Edited by piya_anshian - 13 years ago

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
@Hina - he's doing passive inept suicide attempt...a selfish act by sitting in the rain and not eating like an idiot He's not a child. He's supposedly a DOCTOR...he doesn't know the consequences of his own actions on his health? He can't diagnose his own physical state? 😆 That's like saying people doing bhook anshaan don't know they are engaging in social emotional blackmail

Anandi spent whole night in rain when Jagaya came home with Gauri married do we call she was emotionally blackmailing anyone no..or we say she was committing suiced there ..she was in deep pain and depressed not in right mind frame ...same is here with jagaya he is too depressed right now to think where he is what he is doing ...right now for him he is no doctor but a man who is broken himself by his own hands ..difference is Anandi had dadisaa with her who brought her in Jagaya has his father's words no one want to his face so what he should Anje you tell me ...right now in his shoes any person will commit suicide ..not mocking you please don't take me wrong but i am psychology student ...so perhaps i feel his current mind state his emotional breakdowns are very well shown by cvs which are humanly not fictional which any person will have in his shoes

As for why he was going to A...I watched and heard...Uss ghar mein koi hai joh meri baat sunnegi aab bhi... He wants sympathy and entry into the house via Anandi. He thinks if she forgives him then everyone else will ...same as he thought with DS ki bharose... He does not want to disturb A's happiness...hahahaha... he didn't think of that b4 he saw Shiv there with her😆 That's what stopped him.

he said in that house only one person is there to listen to me who will listen to what is in my heart ..when he used words of forgiveness that means all he wanted there to ask forgiveness not house ...when he saw shiv there and Anandi he stopped later what he said o i will meet Anandi after shiv is gone sometime later no he said i cannot even come in front of Anandi seeing her so happy ...so he didn't come in front of Anandi not interfere in her happiness not because he was scared of shiv😆neither he even think to corner her some other time but left it as it is and was going from there when he fainted under the tree

If he was truly embarrassed and didnt want to disturb her happiness, which was apparent to him from the Sagaai, then he would have never even thought to approach Anandi - not at the haveli or at the school.

he wanted to ask forgiveness from her but when didn't get a chance he didn't plan or plot there to come back again for her i don't know about future but if he is does want to interfere in her happiness why not call her there .,..thats only a joke but do you expect shiv would have beaten him or Anandi would have let shiv to raise hand on him ...when he let Anandi to happily go with shiv so it meant he didn't want to interfere in happy life which if he wanted he could have easily done so right there which he didn't ...😕

As for Gauri - he cheated her for 5 years whilst he was with A...if she could forgive him all that after his rain bath...then J owes her the same chance. Also, most of what G did...she did infront of him except for her "education" confrontation with his family. Nothing else was behind his back. If he chose to be oblivious that's on HIM as much as her. Gauri just betrayed the Singh's namak and J's so called "sacha" pyaar. J betrayed his entire family, wife, and gaon's namak, respect,. trust, and love. Stack em up... if J thinks his crimes are forgivable then so are Gauri's... If hers aren't then neither are his.

if she want a chance why not she ask forgiveness ...she didn't gave him a free chance she was angry at him left him he did everything to get her forgiveness so why not she try then see if he forgives her or not then compare both situations and say but right now she is throwing on his face defendng herself she is right so he should give chance to her without her even show one sign of remorse she was sorry for her actions on contrary she can anything with him when she feel he is wrong ...if chances are the case ...after badi massi incident , after each and every insult , that deans case she said sorry he forgave her not leaving her when we started to call him pet husband ..weren't those chances this time again chance without any effort from her is no justice in my opinion

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: hina13
@piya...i am not saying feel sorry for Jaggu ..no 😆but at least put right blames .. for the last few episodes he is completely blaming himself where he blamed others ...in that famous rain episode where he was drenching himself what he said ....i was the eye candy of which eyes today i am piecing those eyes like a pebble ...for this i am solely responsible .my attitude , my ego took everything from me today i have nothing no one with me what i have done ?.so where is blaming Gauri ..and i believe in that famous slap episode to Gauri he was also said .even to Gauri ...all fault is mine ..even to bade papa he said i responsible all sins too ..so where he is blaming others or Gauri...😕

Hina i kinda agree with you..but honestly, he does blame gauri.

If he was a man enough to take responsibility then he would not leave her. Yes she betrayed him yes she lied to him..but so did he.

His ego is tooo big! he thinks that his lying and cheating to her was ok and he should be forgiven because he drenched in rain and went goo goo over her... I mean you weigh it out

lying about marital status

lying about the name

lying about his village

lying about his identity

vs.

Gauri lying to him that bade papa and her relationship was ok

Gauri going to jetsar and yelling at them

Which is heavier?

The first one made gauri think that he does not love Anandi and will never go back to her and thus she , the foolish loser, went ahead to marry him.

The second, one the lie of Gauri made jagya go away from his parents.

Jagya is at fault which you agree, gauri is at fault but , Jagya and Gauri did not leave each other. When worst came to worst, gauri stayed with Jagya and jagya stayed with gauri but once the lie was exposed... who ditched who...

Jagya ditched her.

I am sure if Jagya was having a great job at SNG, respected , with money , then he would have not left gauri.

he was just sick of being dependent on Gauri. His ego did not allow him to be under her. She always challenged his authority. He is not used to that. Before he was ok with it cause he wanted to woo gauri.. and if he had hte money, they would have easily worked this out.

Gauri yes manipulated him..but honestly,... She said few things... where the hec is his brain?why did he have to listen

So if he blames himself he is not doing a favor. But look at the action

He blames himself , fine...as a result he ditches gauri and runs back to comfort again.

So yeah.. I even though I totally totally dislike gauri (even today I do nto hate her, I only hate jagya) she was ditched because jagya, the MCP thought she is beneath him.

Again I state, if he had a great job with money flowing from his bapusa's account he would be FINE!!!

He would be angry with gauri for a moment and then everything would be back to normal.

Before such fights happened, the only reason they were back to normal was cause , there was money in teh bank and a career ahead of him.

Only when he LOSt everything did he think to return to his family.

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Piya Sharma

@Piyuu_SRK

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

@suchi...my point exactly ! 👏 was not getting words to explain properly. Glad you said what was roaming here and there in my heart. Thx 🤗

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: wooster
I feel we have lost all decency! are you guys educated??? ! so guy falls in love with another women leaves his wife ...so he is bad guy and he should suffer all is death is too easy!!! dude are kidding me!!!
do you guys live in the real world!!! its a TV show but come on... don't be nasty!!! he is character he is grey not black!!!

NO ONE Can PLaY GOD and he doesn't deserve to die and everyone deserves a second chance!!!

please don't be a moral police... next you guys will be the ones writing about girls wearing jeans is wrong!!! !

so what if he has an ego so do all people in this world ...he is most real characters!!!

We are not very educated that's why we feel the way we do when we see a guy falls in love with another woman,cheats his wife and later insults his wife then leaves her.

We have also lost all sense of decency because we saw the same man who left his wife when he saw that his ex wife with another man suddenly he starts remembering all the good times he had spent with her.

You may call us moral police but we do know that there is vast difference between a girl who wears jeans and a man who cheats and abuses his wife.

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

@piya...these are no two days he has been crying for a long time..if he insulted Anandi he got insulted from many too for a long time 😆..being rejected by everyone .Anandi had singh family with her she has never been alone but he is alone at this moment not a single shoulder to shed his tears on ...and he never intentionally asked Gauri to become like this if she did so its her fault Gauri kept on fooling him he became fool that is his fault ..bade papa was right in saying you are no innocent she kept fooling you you became a fool.. blind in her love that you forgot your family and Jagaya said that he is a sinner too and i think by separating himself from gauri he punished himself too because he said for this i should be punished too and his tears in his eyes after tasting the betrayal from the woman he loved ..left everyone for her , kept dancing on her tunes , felt he can move on his life with her support , his decision is right ...breaking off with her is not easy for him either ...in fact cvs tasted him betrayal by Gauri's this act how does it feel when someone you love betrays your trust .and don't accept her mistake either ..this incident opened his eyes he started seeing his mistakes ..

his punishment cvs are giving twice of what he did with Anandi ..mental pain with a spice of physical pain both 😆..everything he has done wrong is being thrown on his face ...and this no end there is lot more to come ..his mental pain is never ending ...he will carry the guilt of his wrong doing all his life ...if cvs redeemed him chances are of it then still where is peace for him how he will forgive himself ...there is a long way to go for him to find peace in his life ...so where his punishment is ending ...right now he is standing at this stage where he will mostly be misunderstood no one trusts him to gain that trust back especially of Bhairo how many rejections he will face .it is yet to come ...as for Gauri i don' t know what is happening of her ,,cvs have cut her character very short ..i want to see her crying , screaming remembering her sins 😭

Edited by hina13 - 13 years ago

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

mistakes of jagya and gauri is totally different .yes he has cheated gauri but he want to tell her through letter but he could not and gauri is happily married to her after knowing everything but it has no connection with what gauri has done .she abuses jagya parents .if gauri is having affair with another man and if jagya is angry on her that i would say jagya has no right to angry on her because u yourself did this .but here is case is totally different .jagya though cheat gauri but he never insulted gauri parents .good his eyes is open after hearing truth of gauri and he realizes gauri too wrong as well as i am also wrong .good he is no more puppet on gauri hand

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Rumjhum Laha

@Patrarekha

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

great post dear..completely agree with you..his act is not forgivable..if he was really repenting then he would face the situation never tried to commit suicide

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: wooster
I feel we have lost all decency! are you guys educated??? ! so guy falls in love with another women leaves his wife ...so he is bad guy and he should suffer all is death is too easy!!! dude are kidding me!!!
do you guys live in the real world!!! its a TV show but come on... don't be nasty!!! he is character he is grey not black!!!

NO ONE Can PLaY GOD and he doesn't deserve to die and everyone deserves a second chance!!!

please don't be a moral police... next you guys will be the ones writing about girls wearing jeans is wrong!!! !

so what if he has an ego so do all people in this world ...he is most real characters!!!

@Red - personal bashing is not allowed on this forum.

And how have I played god? *scratches head*🤣🤣🤣

His conduct is not only immoral, its illegal. So your comment and comparision to jeans makes no sense to me. He hasn't decided to cross-dress! He committed BIGAMY and DEFRAUDED the Court. He further ABUSED Anandi for years verbally and BATTERED Gauri with the slap. He attempted to EXTORT his family. For all that the law would have him pissing chaaki in jail...death is reserved for grander things😆

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

Hina i kinda agree with you..but honestly, he does blame gauri.

If he was a man enough to take responsibility then he would not leave her. Yes she betrayed him yes she lied to him..but so did he.
His ego is tooo big! he thinks that his lying and cheating to her was ok and he should be forgiven because he drenched in rain and went goo goo over her... I mean you weigh it out

lying about marital status
lying about the name
lying about his village
lying about his identity

vs.

Gauri lying to him that bade papa and her relationship was ok
Gauri going to jetsar and yelling at them

Which is heavier?

The first one made gauri think that he does not love Anandi and will never go back to her and thus she , the foolish loser, went ahead to marry him.

The second, one the lie of Gauri made jagya go away from his parents.

Jagya is at fault which you agree, gauri is at fault but , Jagya and Gauri did not leave each other. When worst came to worst, gauri stayed with Jagya and jagya stayed with gauri but once the lie was exposed... who ditched who...

Jagya ditched her.

I am sure if Jagya was having a great job at SNG, respected , with money , then he would have not left gauri.

he was just sick of being dependent on Gauri. His ego did not allow him to be under her. She always challenged his authority. He is not used to that. Before he was ok with it cause he wanted to woo gauri.. and if he had hte money, they would have easily worked this out.

Gauri yes manipulated him..but honestly,... She said few things... where the hec is his brain?why did he have to listen

So if he blames himself he is not doing a favor. But look at the action
He blames himself , fine...as a result he ditches gauri and runs back to comfort again.

So yeah.. I even though I totally totally dislike gauri (even today I do nto hate her, I only hate jagya) she was ditched because jagya, the MCP thought she is beneath him.

Again I state, if he had a great job with money flowing from his bapusa's account he would be FINE!!!

He would be angry with gauri for a moment and then everything would be back to normal.
Before such fights happened, the only reason they were back to normal was cause , there was money in teh bank and a career ahead of him.

Only when he LOSt everything did he think to return to his family.

sorry suchi but you are not getting my point ...if he lied to her he asked forgiveness she lied to him she is showing yes i did i don't care for you ...how many times they fought ..is this first time ..no if what Gauri did with badi massi he came back to her now when this trust broke she doesn't love him but was using him for her revenge who is this mahaan in the world to still be fulfilling his reponsibilities ..does this woman have no responsibilities ...i am not saying you ae not defending her but i believe somewhere you are expecting too much from jagaya which i believe no person in his shoes will be doing what you are asking him to do ...loving a person at its worst means with a trust this person will change ...if Gauri accepted him after his lie to her but not after he asked forgiveness and was giving tests of his love for her so how many times he accepted her at her worst...was she was sweet cotton candy to him never ..how many times they fought and how many insults he took though i am not he happily took but never left her , cases like badi massi , his carrier ruining if after so many he didn't leave her so he accepted her at her worst too but now when she crossed limits then he thought of why not heal the wounds of those who loved me and stopped many times not ro run after this woman ask their forgiveness whats wrong in his thinking like this when again and again destiny has given him many chances to rethink but he didn't thought but now rethinking about those times and i believe cvs have shown him not remembering his honey moon days with Anandi while coming back but scenes from badi massi's tracks .but here when he didn't get that chance he lost it ..and i believe it is said when a person loses everything then he realizes his what he lost not before that...true ..this is with Jagaya..if he would have been living happily with Gauri then how he would realize what wrong he has done in his life...this one betrayal of Gauri shooked him to core he started seeing his own mistakes ..right now he is at too early stage of realizing his mistakes and accepting what wrong he did what he lost ...time will come for him to make up with it right now that time is not here yet but if this time came that will be too...at least he is not planning and plotting to take Anandi back from shiv ..neither he is saying Gauri made me do all that but he mostly saying i did that ...so sorry at this moment i disagree with this charge in him he is blaming Gauri

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