Uncivilized way to kick out ex-husband of Anandy - Page 8

This is the second time Shiv has failed to defend his Anandiji . First time with Sanchi. Second on friday episode.

Originally posted by: elasingh

I m fan of Shiv but I also feel that Shiv should have defended Anandi right there.

Hi Ela..

Hmmm I see your point about him not defending Anandi in fronta his family.. But if you see, Chotima's taunt didnt create a huge fuss... Shiv and Anandi both handled it in a very mature way.. Why to interfere in their business when Anandi is capable enough to defend herself.. She doesnt 'need' Shiv for such small issues.. It rather showed how strong, educated, well-mannered and self-sufficient Anandi is 😳

Secondly, fighting with family for small small issues or big issue for love ( would be wife / wife / girlfriend ) is not Shiv's thing.. It's what Jagya is expert at 😊 If Shiv also starts to fight with CM cuz they are insulting Anandi, what will be the difference between him and Jagya..

But I would never say in future Shiv shouldnt ever interfere between CM and Anandi if CM doesnt stop this.. Shiv should.. But not in a rebellion way.. 😳 I want them to win over CM with love.. Not by hurting her.. 😊 That's all.. 😃

Anandi spoke up herself...she didn't need Shiv to defend her. As for Sanchi - Shiv expressed his respect of Anandi clearly and didn't back off from the engagement just because his sister is a twit. He isn't Jugya to take panga with family over silliness...he and Anandi have their own way of dealing with family respectfully and maturely. Immature insults in defence of Gauri is one of the many many reasons J is where he is today.

@ prerna At the end of that scene CM looked like a fool, Anandi looked completely dignified lekin Shiv ke baare mein kya kahu? I watch this serial mainly for him.

@ELA - pls open topic about Shiv if you are disgusted with him. You know the rules, na?

Originally posted by: bhach

You cannot imagine the pains in Jagya s mind...Jaya has put so much faith on Anandi that after leaving Gauri he came straight back to his Anandi..Jagya would have never dreamt that his Anandi will get engaged to someone...Bravo Jagya for putting so much faith on Anandi...but his faith got shattere..yes he was wrong...and now when Anadi also moved on by forgetting Jagya...then why we blame only Jagya...Both have found their own ways...but why we all himpighead and want his head chopped off...He went to Gauri realised his mistake and came back...Anandi is still with Shiv...she can also come back...is she does not want..it is ok...why she always then feel the Jagya in her every breath...It was Jagya who used to save Anandi from DS in the childhood..Jagya took care of Anandi...but look at shiv...when CM taunted our Anandi that "shivpighead" kept mum...as such he does not know how to speak...AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF ANANDI...FIRST TIME SHE WAS CALLED HOME AND INSULED...

@bold Red

Oh my god!! What a comparison!! Wow I m touched😭😭😭

Jagiya cheated Anandi while they were married and sleeping together (sorry have to use these words) But Anandi has no relationship with Jagiya anymore they are divorced. She is free to marry Shiv. What do you think of her or any other woman who faced similar situation like Anandi? Jagiya ka jab mann kiya faith dikha diya aur jab mann kiya kick kzr diya?? This is disgusting!!!

Originally posted by: elasingh

@ prerna At the end of that scene CM looked like a fool, Anandi looked completely dignified lekin Shiv ke baare mein kya kahu? I watch this serial mainly for him.

Anandi should win CM's heart? Why? CM kyon nahi make an effort to win Anandi's heart. Kab tak Anandi doosaro ka dil jeetane ki koshish karegi?

All in all I m dissapointed with Shiv.

Very good ques.. And that's something very common in all our households.. At least one member you'l find in every household who creates problems for a new bride.. CM is no different..

And unfortunately though it should be the other way round like you mentioned, but it's always the DIL who has to struggle to be in good book of everyone.. CM might be a disappointment in coming episodes but lets just hope she would change once she gets to know Anandi more 😭

For Shiv, hmmm you are disappointed I can see.. Cant help der.. But I am jz happy with Shiv not doing 'bagaawat' with his family members at such early stage of his relationship😳 For me it makes Shiv even more dignified and adorable 😳 Difference of opinion.. so yeah ! 😳

@ Anjana I can never be disguted with Shiv . Never. I m just dissapointed. Abb yaha nahi bologi to kaha bolugi.

Originally posted by: elasingh

@ Anjana I can never be disguted with Shiv . Never. I m just dissapointed. Abb yaha nahi bologi to kaha bolugi.

So I m in Team Jagia. I will take it as a compliment. Dil ki baat bolu I was , I m and I will always be in team Shiv only.

Originally posted by: elasingh

I m fan of Shiv but I also feel that Shiv should have defended Anandi right there.