I think I understood CM's problem

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sravanthi vangala

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Posted: 13 years ago

Guys I think I understood CM's problem, I doesnot have problem with Anandi but I is able to sense Anandi's not complete willingness to accept the marriage, as wee can see in the 1st meeting she was not happy as anandi herself didnot seen to be happy her 2nd though to go ahead or not.And on sagai day also with Anandi with smile touched her feet she gave blessing without 2nd thought n afterwards when Anandi thought so much time to put the ring n then took blessing she was not happy to bless.

I think as she is a widow she can understand how different it will be to come out of ur 1st marriage n the thought of second marriage, I feel her m,eaning for nayi dulhana mean not that Anandi is second hand but that Anandi once gone through a bad experience of marriage will she be able to come out of that n fulfil all the duty n irresponsible of wife n keep Shiv happy.

When Anandi happily came for sagai she thought she is happy so she can move on n whenever Anandi has sad of doubtful face that doubt of shiv's happiness comes.

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smeenakshi76

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Posted: 13 years ago

This can be a probability too. I also think no other solid reason except this.

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vsumeetha

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Posted: 13 years ago

I don't think she is a widow. I think probably her husband left her got married second time. And papaji threw the son out and allowed her and his grandson to stay.

That's probably why, Shiv is so understanding. She has objections because, she knows what a woman in that position would go through. And that too so soon after divorce.

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smeenakshi76

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hmmm...So CM's concern are same as expected. Her points are valid. She is not negative or grey, instead a practical lady. She has apprehensions about if anandi will forget her first husband after a relationship of so long. It's natural. She is concerned abt Shiv which that is genuine. Rahi baat anandi ki, its not easy to forget instantly but yes, y keep on remembering a person responsible for miseries. Again director failed to justify her dilemma. Isse natural to CM la dilemma tha jo bilkul natural lag bhi raha tha. She admitted that she never married agin as she cant forget her husband. Anandi, if u cant forget jagya then no need to mvoe ahead. Y making shiv bali ka bakra? U have to pull up socks really.

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

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Posted: 13 years ago

If she is widow than its wrong to compare her with anandi.

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smeenakshi76

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -ASTHA-
If she is widow than its wrong to compare her with anandi.

Its not abt widow or divorcee or abandoned women, its about forgetting ur first husband with whom u have spent along time

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CoffeeCake

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: smeenakshi76

Its not abt widow or divorcee or abandoned women, its about forgetting ur first husband with whom u have spent along time

Sorry but cant agree with u. Case of widow and abandoned woman is different.

Society always show sympathy for widow while same society is different for abandoned woman.

If she is widow than she has sweet memories of her husband while anandi is left with grudges, harsh feelings and insults. Its very hard to live with those bitter memories..

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Mikey21

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Posted: 13 years ago

Cm bar bar shiv main me ye bat kyu ghusana chahti he ...

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