What's wrong with Chotti Maa of Shiv?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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It seems she doesn't like Anandi just because she is divorcee...

Agreed that every mother wants best for their sons, but she is not even a mother, she is just an aunt...

Agreed that it is close knit joint family, and she has raised shiv - whatever, but aunt is aunt.. and it is hard to believe that aunt can be this possessive of nephew... Why she is so concerned... While shiv's own mother has no objection

You know what - I often see this in many serials, that people who are not close relative are more concerned then close relatives, for eg: even in Anandi's sister-in-law Sugna's case same thing was shown, her own mother and father-in-law had no problem with her son from previous husband, but her father-in-law's brother (shyam's uncle) was interfering unnecessaryly and had strange dislike for sugna's son... Whenever I saw that track, I just felt, what to him and why don't he mind his own business?

Even Anandi's & Jagya's family is close knit joint family but do you think that Basant and Gehna will show that much right over Anandi or Jagya... I mean that they are well-wishers, they care and love for them, but they don't interfere in Bhairav's family matters and just go with family's decisions, i.e. if other family members had accepted gauri, then I don't think Basant or Gehna had opposed or felt bad about that personally... This is how family should be, love and care should be there, but not possessiveness and useless interference esp. in sibling's, sibling-in-laws, cousin's, niece/nephew's or uncle/aunt's life and also son & daughter's married life... I have the same kind of family, like my uncle aunts cousins, siblings, siblings-in-laws all care but its not like if anyone take any decision and others show objection or dislike, end of the day everyone minds their own business

Why Choti Maa is feeling bad for Shiv is choosing Anandi when she is just an Aunt - I don't understand

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Posted: 13 years ago
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may be she is his real mom...shiv does not know abt it..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree about CM, I didn't like the dirty dirty looks she was giving Anandi, as if its Anandi's fault that Shiv chose to marry her. I didn't like it at all. She looked so evil and wicked, and Anandi really doesn't need to go through the process of making in-laws come around again. She has suffered enough. So yes I didn't like CM's attitude at all, especially the dirty looks as if Anandi is someone Shiv picked up on the streets or something. While I understand that she is playing the role of "society" in questioning Anandi's divorcee status, what is the need to give Anandi such bad looks? So what if she brought up Shiv, clearly Shiv thinks more like his own parents and Dadaji, not like CM. I don't like such people at all since they interfere more than necessary, and in in-laws it can create big problems.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheetsden

may be she is his real mom...shiv does not know abt it..


Oh yeah, it could be and that would be a new twist, after-all show-makers cannot show anything straight and simple without twist, because if everything will be fine then serial will end 😆😆

And I have one another guess - 😛 It also could be possible that Choti-Maa is actually negative character who is just pretending to be good in front of family but in reality she might be concerned about family's property, and when she heard from Shiv about how good, matured and smart Anandi is, maybe she is worried that if such a matured and smart girl will come home, she could be obstacle in her way of fulfilling her intentions of getting whole property in her own or her children's name and exclude shiv from property, and right now she is just pretending that she has problem with Anandi's divorce, but real problem could be something else
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: riks111


Oh yeah, it could be and that would be a new twist, after-all show-makers cannot show anything straight and simple without twist, because if everything will be fine then serial will end 😆😆

And I have one another guess - 😛 It also could be possible that Choti-Maa is actually negative character who is just pretending to be good in front of family but in reality she might be concerned about family's property, and when she heard from Shiv about how good, matured and smart Anandi is, maybe she is worried that if such a matured and smart girl will come home, she could be obstacle in her way of fulfilling her intentions of getting whole property in her own or her children's name and exclude shiv from property, and right now she is just pretending that she has problem with Anandi's divorce, but real problem could be something else

hope things wont turn out like you wrote😕😕
For the time being lets assume that she is still doubtful about Anandi...maybe within the 4 months time she would get convinced and all doubts would be out of the way😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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And if CM is supposed to turn out to be that negative then a negative sister's entry isn't required!
But why on earth will a sister who loves her brother oppose this marriage😕😕 Thats an unwanted headache😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: katts

And if CM is supposed to turn out to be that negative then a negative sister's entry isn't required!

But why on earth will a sister who loves her brother oppose this marriage😕😕 Thats an unwanted headache😭

She would probably have preferred a trendy, modern bhabhi like Ashi...
But I'm optimistic. I mean, how much can a spoiled brat sister really affect the sarpanch of Jaitsar? CM is the one I'm more concerned about. I dunno why she was giving Anandi such dirty looks... I thought that was pretty rude, actually!
I hope she isn't negative and after property or any of that stuff. We don't need Kekta plotlines 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think it would be unrealistic to show that absolutely no one in shiv's family had a problem with anandi being a divorcee. they are showing a balance of new and old way of thinking, something that i guess they need to keep the story going, otherwise if everyone is hunky dory then what's left to show. they can't keep showing them cracking jokes etc.
as far as she not being shiv's mother, i strongly disagree with the notion that only his parents have a right to feel good or bad about this decision. everyone who is shiv's family and loves shiv has a right to have an opinion or feeling towards this rishta. i don't believe that only those related by blood have a right over you...by that token, no one in singh's family (especially bhairon and his wife) has a right to feel good or bad about anandi marrying shiv because she is not their daughter.
the main point is weather or not this concern/objection manifests itself into issues in the life for ansh in the future, and i guess that's what the show will try and show.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She seems to be a young widow...she's jealous tht anandi is getting a second chance in life whereas she has to spend her life all alone.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really did not expect the entire family to emrace Anandi straight away.
Her objection to Anandi would be valid if she is concerned about the emotional baggage Anandi might be carrying from her previous relationship her concerns about that interfering with Shiv Anandi relationship.
To me her objection is solely because Anandi is second hand material(sorry for that distasteful expression).That's what put me off her.

Even when she asked Anandi about her plans post marriage it looked like she is trying to extract some material from Anandi which she can use it later on against her.

Her being posessive about Shiv I can understand that.Here they told us that she has raised Shiv.

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