I have had enough! - Page 7

ok tinoo whateve she do but she do it alone and in that whole scene she nowere blame shiv and family she was just frusttrated because of wording of bhairon singh maine apne raam ke liye sita doodhi hain

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

She should decide once and for all what exactly she wants out of life. Jagya chapter is closed forever unless CVs think something really ridiculous and try to bring them together( I hope it does not happen).

That leaves her with Shiv and her promise to her mother.

If she thinks she is getting married just to keep her promise to her mother she needs to think not once,not twice but, thousand times.

So far I have seen her only thinking of her predicament,how she has been made to fulfill other people's wishes,so on and so forth.

Time has come so she needs to think of some body else too. She is walking into some one else's life. This relationship is not hers alone,somebody else also is deeply involved in this. There is a family involved in this.

It is not fair that you take every one for granted and think that your suffering,your problem,your prevarications are far more important to you.

If you can not make this judgement,then quit it. Do not punish somebody because you walked into a marriage with him without your heart in it.

He did no wrong and he does not deserve this treatment.

Please spare Shiv.

Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

I still don't think Anandi's stance is right. She has willingly agreed to get married despite knowing that she is not happy with it. What bugs me about it is she has chosen this path for herself, but what is Shiv's fault in all this? Why is she expecting Shiv to accomodate her mother's wishes and marry her knowing full well she cannot be the wife he wants. Even today when she was talking to Shiv, or wore the necklace back, she did it out of obligation and she was talking like a zombie to Shiv. This is just like Suguna-Shyam. I wonder why serials like to show this forced marriage all the time.

bold so they can drag their serial to eternity with faltu ka suspense 😆like in BV will Anandi fall in love with shiv ?when? where ?right now she is not happy , she is not in love with him ..omg she is so broken she doesn't want to trust any man what will happen ? this that and cvs wow our audience are so much involved with our serial see how interesting our plot is 😆

Originally posted by: tinoo

You are missing the point I am trying to make --

If she is going to respect her mother's last wish THEN SHE SHOULD DO IT HAPPILY.

If she cant do it happily, then just the action of marriage will not be called 'respecting last wish' if it is done with resentment and hatred.

If anandi cannot do something with belief and desire, it would be better for her to call it off altogether.

I hardly think this way of doing things is called "respecting" ... she is being disrespectful to her mother's last wish.

It is not just the action journey I am talking about, it is the emotional journey.

Nice thread. Totally agree with Tinoo who clearly articulates what is wrong with A. We are not unnecessarily criticizing A as some one pointed out. We are realists and thinking people. In real life we see divorces, I'll treatment etc. what happened to A with divorce and her mom's death has been over

If this marriage does not happen because of her attitude, she will be the one responsible for not fulfilling her mom's death wish.

Originally posted by: poiu123

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She is not a robot that she can switch on her happy part in a few days time after her mother's death. She has made a commitment to marry Shiv and she is doing it .. . She is doing it to make her dying mom happy. Did her Mom bother to ask her .. will you be happy marrying Shiv???? No. Her mom thought she will be happy with Shiv. Why does she have to be happy marrying Shiv ? Happiness comes from within and cannot be forced or promised.

What I found very funny that they were discussing Jetsar's progress. FVrom Shiv's dialogues I feel that this marriage might not happen. He said I hope onerday I might ( not will) become part of ur life.

Thank you, even I wanted to say this for a long time but was afraid of the bashing I might get since I'm not a regular to this forum. I even asked what is with Anandi's sour look and everyone kept telling me that she has a right to look sour and not to judge her, and blah blah blah. I think it would be the greatest thing to see Anandi have to work for Shiv's affection. I am really excited about his sister coming in, now her and choti ma can get together and stop this Anandi from marrying Shiv until she gets some brains. I agree regardless of all her big big words Anandi still loves Jagya, honestly I feel more sympathy for Jagya then Anandi.