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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont know what Anandi wants. Shiv told her atleast a couple of times that they should wait and not rush into a marriage. She begged him not to speak that way and to please marry her. And he agreed coz he loves her, had reassured her dad etc. Now, this gloomy face of anandi's is not justified. Things are happening right now because she wanted it that way. She could have married Shiv eventually. Bhago didnt ask her to get married right away. In any case, her glum face can be construed as a general shyness / hesitation by Shiv's family. After all, they arent privy to her irritating Jagya flashbacks like we are😡. I feel sorry for Shiv.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@moonmoon darling after watching todays episode its really frutrating...yep anandi is sad...and lolzzz..how evr much it hurts to say but she in this field of ehr life really dosent know whats good for her at all...she is quit creepy where this field is concern...its good DS and bhairo took maters in their hands..and not leaving in her hands...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhairon didn't fail Mona. Agar Anandi se poochh kar woh uski shadi ki baat karta toh Anandi sari umra Jagya ke yaad ko liye baithi depressed rehti. This is the best way to bring her back. Woh kehte haina ki shadi us se mat karo jis se tum pyar karte ho, balki us se karo jo tumhe pyar karta hai.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

no one in the haveli can see it that anandi is not happy!!!...are u all blind? 😡 😭

why DS is not asking her "chodi tu khus to he na?"...why bhairon is keeping quiet? why? why...why???..

everyone is doing it for anandi's happiness..but can't they see it that she is not ready..she is not happy at all!!..even if she has agreed to marry shiv is it not their responsibility that they will confirm it once again with her..if she really wants to marry again!!? 😕

I agree with you, but here are all slepi.I looks so boring in this episode, she thinks the jagija, on her, let her come back all happy and satisfied. this will not work with Shiva. he is good and all, but in vain when it's heart will not.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111


i partially agree with u tinoo..but i still feel that somehow shiv's family also did not care how anandi is feeling right now and if she is really happy!! 🤔...bcoz shiv's family just came to know that shiv has liked her and wants to marry her...but they did not ask shiv..has anandi liked him too or not?

they came there bcoz they heard about ashima is shiv's galfren..when they heard that anandi is the gal they did not ask how it happened...

when they came to know that she has lost her mother recently then also they did not ask why she has agreed to marry so soon then...

they r only happy to see shiv's happy and smiling face..have they ever tried to see anandi's face?..i hoped it that at least shiv's mom and dad will ask her why she is so sad?..but they did not..i think any sensible parents even if it is a love marriage asks their children if they r really happy and ask them to think twice...

but however i want to blame DS & Bhairon the most..

I think Shiv's parents were clear about their priorities.They have seen how happy Shiv is.They know that Shiv is in love with this girl.They came to check out the girl.They did not find anything objectionable about her.They also know that her mother passed away recently.If they noticed that she is sad they probably will attribute to her mother's demise.

They dont know that Anandi is being forced to marry him.If they know that will they allow the marriage to happen? Then what will happen to Anandi's promise to her dying mother?

You are right we should blame DS mostly for this and Bhairon caving to his mother's demands despite knowing better.

But problem is Anandi herself is not making things easier.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

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i partially agree with u tinoo..but i still feel that somehow shiv's family also did not care how anandi is feeling right now and if she is really happy!! 🤔...bcoz shiv's family just came to know that shiv has liked her and wants to marry her...but they did not ask shiv..has anandi liked him too or not?

they came there bcoz they heard about ashima is shiv's galfren..when they heard that anandi is the gal they did not ask how it happened...

when they came to know that she has lost her mother recently then also they did not ask why she has agreed to marry so soon then...

they r only happy to see shiv's happy and smiling face..have they ever tried to see anandi's face?..i hoped it that at least shiv's mom and dad will ask her why she is so sad?..but they did not..i think any sensible parents even if it is a love marriage asks their children if they r really happy and ask them to think twice...

but however i want to blame DS & Bhairon the most..

Mona,
I am still struggling to understand what you expect shiv's parents to do?
I dont understand why you feel that they should ask if anandi loves him or not?
It is not an arranged marriage, where they have to ask "kya ladki ki marzi se ho rahi hai yeh shaadi?"
It is something that shiv himself has selected.
Yes they came thinking that it was ashima, and they found that it was anandi instead.
But why would they automatically assume that a girl who is an independent leader like a sarpanch, and whom shiv has fallen in love with -- will marry him out of force? It will not enter anyone's mind at all.
That was shiv's responsibility to clear to his family "I am in love with her, she is not in love with me, so it's too premature to meet the family"
He should have clarified it is one-sided love ... it is not their job to do face-reading exercises in their matter I feel.
In addition, shiv is an eligible bachelor both because of his academic achievements, his position and his family background. Add to that his loving nature, his soft-spoken manner and his polite manner. His family has had several proposals coming to them -- his mother herself said -- from delhi to kolkatta, from london to india.
why will they assume that some girl, a divorcee no less, will be unhappy to marry such a prized catch??

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