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Ela Singh

@elasingh

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Malika
I dont really agree Tinoo...she has made her mind.When meenakshi asked her that whether she wants to continue with her work after marriage or not,she said she wont work if its against her family's wish.This clearly indicates she is all ready to accept Shiv's family.For a girl like Anandi,marriage first means family and then anything else.She has time and again said that an indian marriage is not just union of 2 ppl but 2 families.As of now she can't dare to dream Shiv as her knight in shining armour.She cant see her future with him bcoz someone from her past crushed her abilities to dream and aspire.She is taking this marriage ONLY as an alliance of two families and she is all ready to give her 100% to Shiv's family.This is a very positive start from her side.I think we should patiently wait for her to realize her soulmate in Shiv.As of now Shiv hasnt done anything to make her see her soul companion in him.He just saved her from some random goons or accepted her marriage proposal which she still thinks off as an out and out act of kindness.Theres nothing Shiv has done to make her 'accept' him.Let him heal her...let him make her realize her inner beauty...let him show how he will stand by her...and then u see how she accepts him.I said earlier as well...the day Anandi will fall in love with Shiv,,,the world shall see!😳

Apki saari batein mani. Lekin yeh bataiye ki anandi abhi bhi jagiya ke baare mein kyon soochati hai? Is not it very degrading for a self respecting woman?

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Smriti

@smriti81

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#22

I have come to the conclusion that the CVs are rubbing in Anandi's unhappiness in our faces constantly cause they want to drive home the point with hammers into our heads that 'see what BV did to this girl's state of mind'...they are worried lest we forget what we are watching & mistake it for another one of those lowwee stories with ANSH eye locks & trip falls, etc.

To them I want to say...GOT YOUR POINT buddy...have been getting it for the past one year now can we please move on & promise we will not ask for any hot scenes between ANSH but please can we have Anandi smile a little on her engagement & not look at Shiv like he is a punishment from dadisa.

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avivakirk

@avivakirk

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Agree with you totally abt a mind makeover ..When she asked Shiv to marry her he said the right thing not to take a decision in her present frame of mind .. she should have jumped at the chance to wait ... but she didn't .She should have agreed with him and this decision should have been conveyed to the family jointly...This present scenario would not have risen then.

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rusha4003

@rusha4003

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

I so agree with you Tinoo ...

Cant really take the way CVs are showing this Anandi ...

She and Jagya separated years ago ... and he has put her thru untold misery ... so how come A is still remembering only the happy happy FBs and none of the insults J & G threw at her ????

Jagya FBs are getting really irritating ... I just cant connect with that ...

And, she looks accusingly at Shiv whenever he comes in front of her ... even though she was the one who requested him to marry her , in spite of his advice that she should take her time.

And I think with this frame of mind Anandi is not doing the right thing by agreeing for the marriage ...

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rusha4003

@rusha4003

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: avivakirk
Agree with you totally abt a mind makeover ..When she asked Shiv to marry her he said the right thing not to take a decision in her present frame of mind .. she should have jumped at the chance to wait ... but she didn't .She should have agreed with him and this decision should have been conveyed to the family jointly...This present scenario would not have risen then.

@red: This would have been the best ... maybe this is how the sensible Anandi would have acted ...

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XAiShBaBy08X

@XAiShBaBy08X

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: elasingh
Apki saari batein mani. Lekin yeh bataiye ki anandi abhi bhi jagiya ke baare mein kyon soochati hai? Is not it very degrading for a self respecting woman?

@ elasingh

I can definitely see what you are saying, and I agree as well. Anandi really should forget...and I think she really is trying. But I don't think she can help but think of Jagya at certain times. There is nothing else to associate Teej with besides Jagya. Also, she did this done this fast for Jagya since she was a child. It's only normal that she remembers him. It's also really hard to forget certain moments. But I do agree that she does need to forget and move on.

@Malika

I understand what you are saying...but I believe that she should at least soften for the family. I definitely do not mean smiling the whole time or anything like that...but she didn't look at the family appreciatively or kindly or any other emotion apart from hurt and disappointment. The hurt I understand as well as some disappointment...but she could have at least let go once like when the Dadaji was saying how Shiv and the rest of family didn't understand this gardening skills.

But I'm not going to complain anymore...she did lose her mother which I imagine is one of the most painful experiences a person could go through. I probably shouldn't expect anything from her. 😭

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preeti

@teletubby

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

very valid points n reasoning!

it's becoming a pain to watch a grumpy grouchy anandi all th tym...if her sadness was due to losing her mom i'd sympathize but her superior attitude to shiv n his family is totally rude n ungracious!!! she has been more welcoming n accomodating to gauri during her visits t jaitsar!!!!

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JuhiR

@JuhiR

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Her Royal Highness has lost it. This is what Shiv's unconditional love has done to her. turned her into stone. Take, take and only take from Shiv, from Day 1. what has she given back to him in return? For saving her life twice, for supporting her work, for standing by her in death and despair?

Oh, wait, not true! the stone statue turns into life amazingly as soon as flashbacks of that ex- husband comes to her mind...what garbage CVs are dishing out...and we are devouring it.

Someone had told me not to throw junk on CVs...I had said I was not...but now I will. I can't take this double standards any more.

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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: smriti81
I have come to the conclusion that the CVs are rubbing in Anandi's unhappiness in our faces constantly cause they want to drive home the point with hammers into our heads that 'see what BV did to this girl's state of mind'...they are worried lest we forget what we are watching & mistake it for another one of those lowwee stories with ANSH eye locks & trip falls, etc.

To them I want to say...GOT YOUR POINT buddy...have been getting it for the past one year now can we please move on & promise we will not ask for any hot scenes between ANSH but please can we have Anandi smile a little on her engagement & not look at Shiv like he is a punishment from dadisa.

@smriti81. Completely agree with you.

I do not question her hesitation in getting into an alliance. I do not question her sadness.

what I cannot understand why she behaves so rudely when Shiv is around when Shiv is no way responsible for the state that you find yourself in.

When you can help a complete stranger even talk to him sweetly give a smile here and there thinking of something from the past, then what is wrong is accepting Shiv and his family with grace?

You have walked into this marriage knowing fully your state of mind. Shiv's family does not know that. Why behave as if they are unwanted and intruding into her life?

And what happened to Shiv? He was a person who never accepted nonsense from any one and here he coyly accepts whatever shit this lady dished out to your family?

No man will digest this. It is sad to see Shiv's character panning out like this.

Edited by mocking_bird - 13 years ago

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wuthering

@wuthering

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Yet to read the entire thing...but SERIOUSLY man...its ABOUT time. You know, I would have been OKAY IF her flashbacks involved Bhago. If Bhagos demise was the reason for her rookhapan. Like while celebrating Teej, she had some childhood memory of Bilaria where Bhago celebrated it or something.

But from whatever we saw,it led me to believe that ALL her misery in the current state of affairs is because of Jagyas absence. It HAS been almost 5/6 years since she last got to celebrate Teej or any other festival for that matter with him. Then why the heck is she doing whatever she is doing and that too in the presence of the guy who SHE requested to marry not too long ago. And oh, lets not forget that his family happened to be there too.

To reiterate, I am alright with Anandi being sad right now. I just have a problem with the REASON behind her sadness. Its almost as if, all of it stems from Jagya. And that is really not funny ANYMORE. Dude, did you NOT see how that guy insulted your mum? Seriously. Get OVER it ALREADY.

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