AN ATTITUDE MAKEOVER FOR ANANDI - Page 2

Seriously, anandi should get a reality check, and get over that lousy love of hers. How annoying can one can...holding onto something like that...Isherwood doesn't deserve shiv

Originally posted by: AY_candy_luver

I agree that Anandi's attitude is becoming a little tiresome. But how can you expect her to be all happy and joyful? She's doing this against her wish, and has, essentially been blackmailed by everyone who loves her to marry Shiv. You can't expect her to jump up and down in delight so soon! Give her some time, and she'll settle down, look at how handsome and amazing Shiv is and become happy again :)

Anandi still thinking about Jagya is completely unacceptable. What is the point? Do they want us to believe that she still loves Jagya? And for what? Why cry for a person who never thought twice before dumping you?

She always thinks of Jagya as breaking her fast,playing with her on the roof top,talking sweet nothings. Why does she not think of him introducing her as a cousin named Nandini to his friends and hid the truth about her? Why does not she think about the rude and obnoxious way he treated her on innumerable occasions?

This should also come as a natural thought. When she parted ways with Jagya she wished him well and walked off. That showed a determined Anandi who has left her past behind her and embarking on a new journey. Now again we are back to square one. She is still thinking of a man who has left her and moved on with his life. Someone should knock some senses to her pretty little but empty head.

If chotima really means that Anandi should not carry her past with her to her new household (when she referred a nayi naveli dulhan)then she is right.

I also find this very degrading for a person like Shiv. He should not be treated in this fashion. Poor guy is up for big surprises after marriage. It is better not to get married rather than getting married and suffering later.

I agree. Am tired of watching Anandi sulk away to glory - Shiv wanted to wait and she was begging him to marry her. And now she's carrying on like she's doing the world a favour. She couldnt even manage to crack a smile at the general good natured dialogue that was carrying on around her. Am also real tired of her constant Jagya flashbacks. Please end this rubbish.

I dont really agree Tinoo...she has made her mind.When meenakshi asked her that whether she wants to continue with her work after marriage or not,she said she wont work if its against her family's wish.This clearly indicates she is all ready to accept Shiv's family.For a girl like Anandi,marriage first means family and then anything else.She has time and again said that an indian marriage is not just union of 2 ppl but 2 families.As of now she can't dare to dream Shiv as her knight in shining armour.She cant see her future with him bcoz someone from her past crushed her abilities to dream and aspire.She is taking this marriage ONLY as an alliance of two families and she is all ready to give her 100% to Shiv's family.This is a very positive start from her side.I think we should patiently wait for her to realize her soulmate in Shiv.As of now Shiv hasnt done anything to make her see her soul companion in him.He just saved her from some random goons or accepted her marriage proposal which she still thinks off as an out and out act of kindness.Theres nothing Shiv has done to make her 'accept' him.Let him heal her...let him make her realize her inner beauty...let him show how he will stand by her...and then u see how she accepts him.I said earlier as well...the day Anandi will fall in love with Shiv,,,the world shall see!😳

So true.. The looks she keeps giving scares Shiv all the time !!! 😆 Understand she is under whole lot of pressure but still the man whom you requested to marry to fulfil your wishes wants to help you and is standing by your side and you give him loads of attitude 😡 . Feel bad for Shiv and his position. I feel for Anandi too because she has been put in the situation too. But, truly Shiv does not deserve this.

Originally posted by: tinoo

there have been many discussions about a clothing makeover for anandi.

I suggest that she get an attitude makeover.

She needs to make up her mind

1. either she should say no to shiv

OR

2. she should align with the fact that she is making a compromise and make the best of it.

But this middle path of "I'm in this relationship, and I hate it. I hate it I dont want it. Let me go around with a swollen face and show my displeasure towards this situation and demonstrate it to my fiance, his family" is really disgusting.

If at all she is angry, that anger should be displayed towards dadisa and bhairon only for pressurizing her through her mom's last promise after saying no.

So totallly with you on this 👍🏼. I mean she shows cordiality even to Gauri for godsakes and she cant crack a smile atleast a formal one for shiv s family. She really needs to get a maakeover and asap. CM s attitude makes sense. as a mother she wants only the best for her son and she is not convinced that anadi is the one but anandi😲. first of all shiv agreed to marry her on her request cant she atleast try to keep his happiness also in mind. her morose , tragedy look really irritated me today

@dixie...it's not like we want her to smile & joke with the new inlaws...but less than 24 hrs ago u request this guy with folded hands to marry you so u can fulfill ur mothes's last wishes. At least don't treat him with such revulsion. Every time he comes forward to help she acts like he is intruding in her private space both physical & mental w/o permission. And how will he help heal her & build trust if she looks at him like 'what the hell are you doing here'! while reminiscing J memories. Her state of mind is understandable but her attitude towards Shiv is getting very annoying.

Originally posted by: smriti81

@dixie...it's not like we want her to smile & joke with the new inlaws...but less than 24 hrs ago u request this guy with folded hands to marry you so u can fulfill ur mothes's last wishes. At least don't treat him with such revulsion. Every time he comes forward to help she acts like he is intruding in her private space both physical & mental w/o permission. And how will he help heal her & build trust if she looks at him like 'what the hell are you doing here'! while reminiscing J memories. Her state of mind is understandable but her attitude towards Shiv is getting very annoying.

This behavior is simply unacceptable. cry for someone who treated you shabbily and sulk with ones who genuinley care. And this is totally against the image that has been portrayed about Anandi. where is her sense of judgement about right and wrong?