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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: liv2laugh

A rose is a rose by any other name
The circumstances and not Anandi are to blame
She is a girl who was happy and cheerful
Jagya's deceit made her lonesome and tearful

Happiness is not something that she feels now
The divorce followed by the loss of her mother
Have left her feeling really really low
This family will its love and laughter on her bestow
Watch her as she smiles and begins to glow

A rose will bloom in a garden as well as in the marsh
Don't you think your analysis is a little harsh
She has always tried to find happiness in little things
Lets raise a toast to her marriage to Shiv and new beginnings.

A new Anandi will rise more confident and fearless
Whose love for Shiv will be strong and endless
Even though Anandi for this marriage was initially reluctant
She will in the course of time find real contentment
AnSh will build a marriage based on mutual trust and commitment
In this marriage Anandi will finally find real fulfillment.




👏 👏 👏 👏

⭐️ Cant say more ~! AnSh rockkk and about Anandi, well yeah, she will be back to her cheerful and happy-self once she overcomes the shock of her mom's death 😊 Basically Bhago's death helped Anandi to lessen her pain for her divorce .. Now the situation is like, she is devastated cuz of such early death of Bhago and her last wish, not because of her divorce with that Jagya.. I shouldn't say this, but there was a slight possibility that if she wasn't struck with a bigger blow in her life than her divorce from a childhood marriage, she would stay with that pain for a long time, would refuse to come out of Jagya's memory.. But Bhago's death has put the pain of her meaningless 1st marriage and sad divorce thing to backfoot..

So only pain atm is Bhago's death.. And with time, she will overcome it and just wait to see HOW ! 😊 Poor Anandi.. Shiv is gonna change her life for ever 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gudddi🤗didnt expect you here🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocobear

Gudddi🤗didnt expect you here🤗



Kiu bhayo ! Thaare bola tha ne chori ke mhaaro dil aa gayo Shiv Ji par 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav



Kiu bhayo ! Thaare bola tha ne chori ke mhaaro dil aa gayo Shiv Ji par 😳


Haan woh toh hain☺️maaro bhi dil aayo shivji pe☺️manno bhule gayo chuu😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocobear


Haan woh toh hain☺️maaro bhi dil aayo shivji pe☺️manno bhule gayo chuu😆



Chori thik thaak se rajasthani language bol leve go tabhi bolne ki kosis karo ho.. Aise gujju aur rajasthaani bhasha ko mix karo toh nhaa bolo rajasthaani bass haan keh diyo manne ! 😆

P.S - We are just having fun guys both of us are bongs, we aint insulting any language.. just really inspired by Dadisa's perfect Rajasthaani accent ! 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thari bhali hove😆main toh hun hi wannabe rajasthani n gujju😆

PSS: Yeah we dont intend to hurt anyone's feelings. We are bongs and shiv is not a bong🥺
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17
@ TM u mean its Anandi's fault tht Jagya strayed away !!😲
wat do u mean tht Anandi shld be cautious...there's something called trust...Aandi trusted jagya...he broke her trust.
I am not sure if ur married but being suspicious in a marriage is not a solution.,...infact it dooms the marriage.

If Jagya wanted to go with gawari how come its anandi's fault...Anandi was always a perfect wife.
When jagya made it clear he didnt want to stay with her she let him go...why should she fight for someone who dosnt value her...
U cant force someone to love u...
currently she is traumatised because of her divorce and bhago's death...she needs time...she'll be a very good wife and bahu for Shiv and his family.
As for choti ma I dont knopw wats her prob...Shiv is not her son...when his parents dont have any prob with Anandi why is she interfering.
Anyways I know she'll also accept Anandi...when Anandi can change dadisa ye choti ma kya cheez hai 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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First of all, being cautious is not same as being suspicious. However, she had enough reasons to be suspicious from the way Jagya was behaving with her. Fair enough, she trusted him and he broke her trust. What do you think she should have done under these circumstances?

You are saying "When jagya made it clear he didnt want to stay with her she let him go"... where in the serial is it shown that she let him go? In fact, she clinged on to him mentally and legally, though not physically, hoping, day dreaming that he would return to her one day. A fantasy is a fantasy. He never returned to her. It was his family who suggested that she divorce him so that they could get her re-married.

If she let him go, then why should she be "traumatised because of her divorce"? She should be happy and start her new life with Shiv with enthusiasm. But she didnt want that. Clinging on to Jagya was her victory. Even when Gauri was pregnant, she didnt think of divorcing him and letting him free. Now this divorce has made her feel like a failure.

How much time does a woman need to see light from darkness? She is marrying him only because of her mother's antim iccha. No doubt, she will do her duty as a good wife and bahu in the new family. But why should Shiv become a replacement for Jagya just as Shyam became a replacement for Sugna's first husband? That is unfair to him. He should be loved for what he is.

She supported Asha, gulli, and others, but in her life she is just a victim of circumstances only because she allowed herself to be. You are responsible for your misfortune, not others. You have to be an alert citizen be it in marriage, workplace or anywhere else. If not, you will be like anandi. That is the message you get from this serial. But all anandis are not fortunate enough to find Shivs.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Shinya Dont be so negative. Anandi has faced a lot. She will need some time to recover. Think of her state of mind.
She just can't smile all of a sudden when her hubby has left her for another woman and mer mom is dead.
With time im sure Anandi will smile and get all the happiness that a girl of her age deserves. 😃😃😃😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
#20
I am not negative. Its just that I dont like the way a woman is portrayed in the form of anandi in this serial.
Be it a village or a city girl, a woman has a heart and mind of a woman. Who said village girls have no self-respect ? Dont they fight back when husband abuses them for no fault of theirs? Anandi had her teacherji as a role model. why should she be shown as a "bechhari", a victim crying all the time and getting sympathy from everyone? At least once they must show her strong, having her own voice and standing for herself and fighting against the circumstances. As a lead character, she must set an example before others. She may have started a school and become a sarpach, but that is her professional side. In her personal life, she is a total failure which I dont like.

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