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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

There is no repentance or realization by Jaggu about what he has lost😒

I think Juggu FB is effect of Gauri's scolding him He always recalls Anandi when Gauri berates him about something😡 He will be back to his usual puddle self the moment Gauri gives him her famous crocodile smile.🤢 He is real sucker for them😆😆

Edited by sdk10 - 13 years ago

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ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

J is nt realizing anything... He just had a FB coz of G's word abt fast... Just coz tht was related to his past, his family... Sometimes similar conditions made us remember things which we dnt want to. Same happened with Jagya.

Edited by mishti31 - 13 years ago

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wuthering

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Bechara is just plain and simple jobless- thats why! Now a man needs some timepass for his khaali time na. So socha why not pass time today by remembering Anandi. 🤪

Jokes apart, I really didn't get the point of the flashbacks in todays epi.

I Don't think Jagyas redemption / realization is around the corner. Given the speed of Ansh wedding, Jagya- Gauri remain the main 'antagonists' of the show. If the creatives show their redemption so soon- don't know what will be left.

As for Jagyas so called moments of realization where he compares Gauri- Anandi, I really don't get it. Despite all the shouting sessions with Gauri et al, fact of the matter remains he IS willing to go to any lengths for his sacha pyaar- stooping down so low so as to do black magic on the grave of a woman he called 'mother' once.

That apart- I don't get why most people think Jagya should be redeemed before Gauri. Why are Gauris crimes larger/ greater in magnitude than Jagyas. In my eyes, he is the bigger culprit. He is the one who left Anandi. He is the one who treated her the way he did. Gauri is only concerned about her love for her 'husband'. I am not saying she is NOT a culprit but just that I don't get why Jagya should be given a free rope.

Yes, he was a 'victim' of child marriage too- but did that give him the right to mentally abuse and torture the wife who has been nothing but good to him and a wife he apparently 'loved' before he saw the city lights.

This has always bugged me. Why should we hold Jagya less accountable for the mess that is Anandis life. I think most people here still hope that he gets back with his family. I am not saying thats necessarily a bad thing- but my point is- why should all be forgiven sooo soon for him and not for Gauri? Is there really a difference between the two? Shouldn't both be held equally accountable? If Jagya can be forgiven (once he does the needful penance)- then Gauri too should be na?

Another thing that has been bugging me since some time- everyone (me including) can't wait for Bade Papas truth to be revealed in front of Jagya. We are hoping that would bring about a change in Jagya- Gauris dynamics. But my question is- will it?!!! I mean what exactly is Bade Papas truth? That he detests Gauri for getting married to a guy who was already married? Nothing new there! Jagya knows many people turned their backs on them once they got to know about this- Shivani for example...The other aspect of Bade Papas truth is that Bhairon funded Gauris education. Will that really matter to Jagya? Like will he really start hating on Gauri for this?

And then of course the last thing- the fact that Gauri visited Jaitser behind his back and basically had a showdown with the Singhs. I was not a regular follower of the show back then- but does Bade Papa know about this?

Even assuming that Jagya DOES get to know about all the above- I don't know whether it will be enough for Jagya to leave his sacha pyaar. These two appear like a HIGHLY dysfunctional couple to me. They are hanging on to each other at all costs. They have these EPIC fights one night & the next morning they pretend as if nothing even happened. I am not saying married couples don't fight- I guess they do- but I am not sure if most married couples fight on SUCH regular basis, with such intensity and then brush EVERY issue they have with each other under the carpet rather than having mature discussions about it...

Sorry for going on a monologue here Anjana! 😳 And sorry for going off topic! I didn't realize I would rant so much. 😆

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Sia - thank you for the thoughtful post. I don't think he's realizing anything of any significance with the flashbacks today. He's just comparing and maybe missing his adoring doormat! *his perspective of Anandi not mine*

As for Bade Papa truth - I have similar thoughts as you. What will it really change btwn JaGa and why? True change has to come from within and for that he needs to realize and introspect on his own errors nobody elses... at max Gauri's truths can trigger of that self analysis but, that isn't a given...just possibility.

Gauri v. Jugat - who is worse? I vote for Jugat everytime. He is parasite who betrayed his bestfriend, his lover, his wife, his family and hometown.

Gauri is just plane selfish.

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itsRitzi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Jug and anandi grew up together so he cant forget her easily and they shared sweet relationship!!

but i personally think he is confused man i mean i never see his love for gawri dunno y !!! this couple is so misfit

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wuthering

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Sia - thank you for the thoughtful post. I don't think he's realizing anything of any significance with the flashbacks today. He's just comparing and maybe missing his adoring doormat! *his perspective of Anandi not mine*

Yup..fact of the matter remains...Anandi was just a doormat for him. I mean I was shaking my head at his gal when in Belaria, during Khajans accusations, he is looking at Anandi to BAIL him out and support him? REALLY Jagya?!!! 😡😆

You know I feel the Creatives were never clear about their game plan for the future. I think I read an article that was posted on the forum recently ( a week or two ago) with some sort of an interview with one of the creatives of the show. He basically said that Anandi- Jagyas divorce was not in the original storyline but since their show was on Child Marriage, they realized they HAD to show the evils associated with it rather than depicting a rosier version of the same. Thats why I felt- for the LONGEST time they made us believe Jagya will realize his mistakes and get back. Otherwise there really was NO point in Jagyas being the one to save Anandi from the kidnappers or Jagya leaving his MS exams to be in Jaitser for Badi Masaji. Jagya- Anandi even had 'moments' during that track (When they are decorating the Haveli etc.). Even Sumitras challenge to Gauri had me believe he would get back. So yeah, basically the Creatives were confused about whether Anandi- Jagya would be end game or not. I am glad they chose the latter.

They tried to show he has SOME humanity STILL left in him but for me that was never enough. The way he berated Anandi for being who she was- made fun of her education or rather lack of, hid her from his friends, brought another woman to his house and slept with her by literally shutting the door on Anandis face- these crimes are just not pardonable.

As for Bade Papa truth - I have similar thoughts as you. What will it really change btwn JaGa and why? True change has to come from within and for that he needs to realize and introspect on his own errors nobody elses... at max Gauri's truths can trigger of that self analysis but, that isn't a given...just possibility.

Exactly! Its not like Gauri behaved a different way with the Singhs in front of Jagya and a different way behind his back. Shes not a hypocrite! She has always shown shes not exactly fond of his family. I mean according to me, if Jagya could not realize how selfish she was when she completely disregarded his ill grandmother (Badi Masi) & exposed the truth about their marriage- then why will he now?! Bade Papas truth is not exactly earth shattering! And yes, like you said, introspection needs to come from within. I hope when Jagya finally realizes- he doesn't blame Gauri but rather himself.

Gauri v. Jugat - who is worse? I vote for Jugat everytime. He is parasite who betrayed his bestfriend, his lover, his wife, his family and hometown.

Gauri is just plane selfish.

Agreed! Add insecure to selfish for Gauri. In my eyes- thats wrong- but not as WRONG as what Jagya did.

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poiu123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

I am really interested to know if Jagat has kept fast for Gauri his saccha pyar.

Jagya ( not Jagat ) used to keep fast for Anandi whom he loved then.

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Sukanya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
I don''t understand why Jugat is recalling Anandi on Teej? He recalls fasting for her and her breaking his fast. Is he finally understanding depth of Gauri's sacha pyaar or his own for her? 😕 Is jugya finally smelling the burnt to crisp coffee?

Aaj kal kuch khaas kam to hai nehi.Isiliye baithe baithe yehi sochte hain 😆

Edited by mocking_bird - 13 years ago

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srijay

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Shaista - Shashank is a good actor...I too look forward to Jugya/Jugat angst, but I doubt I will buy Jugya's "love" for Anandi. Its too late for him to wake up...and am not sure he is waking up. Tomorrow Gauri will make him pakora and he will think she is amazing.🤔

Ha ha ha :)