Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
To me a need is base point - fundamental. You cannot function without it at all. Jugya functions as Gauri's puppet or poppat regardless of Anandi. I don't see his "need" for Anandi. She was a link to his family but, a need? Nah. He is not success because he has no self control and galat sangat (Gauri), but he certainly has capacity to excel without Anandi in his life.
To me Anandi is more like his baby blanket...something that makes him feel good about himself or rather used to. Her true value and depth as a partner he never grasped.
Agreed he never realised the true value of Anandi as a partner.Agree about his reasons for failure in his life.
He was so used to being guided by Anandi when they were kids.Because at the time he realised that Anandi's advice helped him to stay out of trouble.Since then till he went away to Mumbai he always use to seek her approval in everything he did. Infact that was one of the most beautiful aspects of their life.
Once he is in Mumbai he realised that there is no one to guide him then he met Gauri.I still remember his first impression about Gauri " She is just like Anandi" And so he latched on to her thinking that she is an upgraded version of Anandi.
Now he realised that she is totally of a different make altogether.And he wants to have the original version of Anandi back.That's why he is remembering her.
Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago