Anandi did not break her fast

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Piya Sharma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: dixie123

Piya, Aparna: I am sure kuch aur hoga. CVs better not make him look bad.
Maa ko pehle se hi na laage ki iss ladki ke waijse meri beta jhoot bhi bolta hai mujhse se !!!😆😆

true yaar ..these hotties maas are soo insecure and senti 😆

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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: dixie123
Piya, Aparna: I am sure kuch aur hoga. CVs better not make him look bad.
Maa ko pehle se hi na laage ki iss ladki ke waijse meri beta jhoot bhi bolta hai mujhse se !!!😆😆

I don't think he will lie to her.After all that talk about wanting to discuss his marriage issue with his family he went ahead and proposed indirectly to Anandi and her father.He has not bothered to tell his mother of all these developments. So she will be angry with him.

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dixie123

@dixie123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: aparnauma

I don't think he will lie to her.After all that talk about wanting to discuss his marriage issue with his family he went ahead and proposed indirectly to Anandi and her father.He has not bothered to tell his mother of all these developments. So she will be angry with him.

@bold: Isme Shiv ki lagti nahi hai. What can he do if the CVs didn't introduce his family almost after 2.5 months after his entry !!!

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Piya Sharma

@Piyuu_SRK

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: aparnauma

I don't think he will lie to her.After all that talk about wanting to discuss his marriage issue with his family he went ahead and proposed indirectly to Anandi and her father.He has not bothered to tell his mother of all these developments. So she will be angry with him.

You know what appy..vo gussa karengi that toh is sure..but vo maa wala gussa hoga 😆 not much 😳 and jaise srk says in OSO, ''maa ka dil to aisa hi hota hai''. Shiv is a straight forward and sensible man. He is not in his teens jo ye bacchon jaise harkatein karega. Vaise bhi he told DS ki he need to talk to his parents agar vo apne parents ke haan krne ke baare me sure naa hota toh kabhi bhi DS ko haan nahi bolta. Maybe thoda time lage but he will tell them directly. 😃 😆

Edited by piya_anshian - 13 years ago

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sunshine244

@sunshine244

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Interesting discussion! I couldnt help but pitch in my own two cents on this :P

First and foremost: do you know there are three types of teej fasts - incl hariyali, kajli, hartalika. While hariyali teej is popular in some states (incl Rajasthan), it is not so in others. Customs and rituals to be followed in each of these fasts differ - from region to region, community to community and family to family. What we are discussing is the teej fast kept in Anandi's family, in Jaitser village near Jodhpur district of Rajasthan!

Secondly, as opposed to Karwa chauth, the presence of husband is not mandatory - as in fact many women actually return to their parental homes to observe the fasting and festivities. While married women tend to fast for the long and healthy life of their husbands, unmarried girls fast to get a good husband (So it cannot be said that Anandi kept the fast only for Shiv or Jagya- theoretically. That Dadisa asked her to keep the fast for Shiv is a different matter)

About drinking water, since the norm is that once a woman initiates a fast, she should continue to observe it the same way as she did for the first time ; in many families, girls are advised to drink a glass of water so as not to be totally nirjala forthe 24 hrs for which they fast- as it may become difficult for them to observe nirjala fast during their pregnancy and/or ill health. (So Anandi may have done nothing wrong in drinking water). Or as some one else also noted- it may be a custom in rajasthan.

About keeping the same fast as the MIL - again - there are no hard and fast rules. My grandmother told my mother not to keep fasts if she didnt feel like, even though she her self kept teej. Eventually, my mother started Karwa chauth. The only thing to remember is that the practice of keeping a fast shouldnt be given up once started, unless one becomes a widow. So since Anandi had started observing teej (prevalent in Rajasthan), and since Shiv is also from Udaipur; Dadisa may not have thought of checking Shiv's family's customs before asking Anandi to keep the fast this year too!

Sorry for the long boring post...but as i said, couldnt help !! :)

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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: piya_anshian

You know what appy..vo gussa karengi that toh is sure..but vo maa wala gussa hoga 😆 not much 😳 and jaise srk says in OSO, ''maa ka dil to aisa hi hota hai''. Shiv is a straight forward and sensible man. He is not in his teens jo ye bacchon jaise harkatein karega. Vaise bhi he told DS ki he need to talk to his parents agar vo apne parents ke haan krne ke baare me sure naa hota toh kabhi bhi DS ko haan nahi bolta. Maybe thoda time lage but he will tell them directly. 😃 😆

But don't you see how interesting the proceedings will get if they Shiv's mom running after him with a danda😆

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Piya Sharma

@Piyuu_SRK

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

@sunshine..( sorry dont know your actual name ) ..thanks a lot ! That was a news ! It was a little long but not at all boring, infact i found it interesting that there are many types of teej 😆 our cult is really rich i must say 😳 vaise bhi i dont think CV's think much about these things. They just show whatever they know or came to know from aas paas of people. 😆 Koi bhi teej ho, kaise bhi rakhi ho, one thing is sure that Anandi has kept her vrat for our handsome Shivu 😆 and there will be cute romntc scenes we are going to see in upcoming epis !! 😉