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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

well mujhe nahi lagta ki jagya nashe me tha woh poore hosh mein tha

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anshul

@milindrose

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

i too felt same her mesmerized eyes or my mesmerizes shock to se this but i hated all this ,let her see how this man is cruel shrewd unkind ,this was god signal to her leave this man he is in jail see ur loosing a looser leave him but she is really

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Minu Mishra

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Guyz do u think its that easy to get divorce. H was also looking at her in aisle. BTW she luved him unconditionally. he does what is none of her business but she loved him a lot.

There is a phrase " Jis Tan Lage tehiTan Jane" or Ghayal Ki Gati Ghayal Jane"

Yehi toh hum Indian Ladkiyon ko sikhaya jata hai ki love ur husband unconditionally. PhirAnandi ka jo character hai woh toh typical cultured Indian Girl ka hi. Waise aisi wifes ke pyar ke karan bhi jagya type ke husband bigad jatein hain coz they know that no matter what will get away...

Her reaction was normal. Aansoo sirf strong persons hi bahate hain. Sure they had eye locks becoz'

CVs wanted to have tht.
Anandi knew that she is not goi ng to see her husband who was her best friend even after break ups..

Self respect ki toh baat hee nahee aati hai. Yeh toh jaise uske dil ka koi hissa kata ja raha thaa. She is the one who took Chandi Roop when jagya refuse to come to the court for first court appearance for divorce.

This scene is very difficult to understand unless u went thru this (Bhagwaan Dushman ko bhi na dikhaye)

So Guyz Chill... Thand rakh bhaya.

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fredoom

@fredoom

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: tinoo
ritzy, you are valid in your interpretation of the looks per se, but my broader question (which i did not spell out in my post) is that i dont think that this was the appropriate time for all those lines which you have written in red... or her displaying that much of emotion...

much water has passed down the bridge since his betrayal and forgetting about her ... and today was just a formality that should have been completed in a fairly stoic manner... all this would have been appropriate at an earlier date...

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Maybe we didn't experienced the same thing as Anandi, but some of us had similar situation in real life. Jagdis didnt do all this stuff to Anandi yesterday, but long ago. It's not enough for her to forget all those things, but it's enough to dont look at him in that way. She can cry, and express her weakness when she's alone or in front of her close people, but not in front of him, he doesnt deserve that, he is not worth of that, he is pighead. Her look seems to me like she was asking him: "How this happend to us?", answer to that is clear and deep inside she knows it, her ex hubby is selfish brat. I dont blame Anandi because she is really good person and that is her way, but I dont prefer that kind of behavior.

Edited by fredoom - 13 years ago

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

I agree with the previous poster that Anandi's looks today were more of betrayal, how could the relationship that she trusted so much come to this, all these years were for nothing. Her looks at Jagya were more accusatory and of betrayal, like "how could you not feel anything, how could the dreams and desires, the marriage come to this". Even Jagya was conscious of their breaking bond. While I didn't like Anandi hesitating and following him while walking, the CVs wanted to draw a parallel with her walking behind him during their wedding, so it was symbolic.

I didn't see Anandi as losing respect. She looked at Jagya in the eye, the Jagya she knew in the past and the Jagya that was there today, thinking of their friendship. She had to come to terms that this Jagya is not the same Jagya that she had gotten married to and grown up with. The CVs also repeated it in Anandi's mind Jagya's words that he doesn't love her, he loves someone else, so Anandi in her mind is trying to come to terms with this truth.

This episode was about Anandi's letting go, coming to terms with with her "failure" in the relationship, coming to terms with a Jagya that is so different from the one she shared dreams and her life with. I say failure because that is in her mind, not mine.

I really liked Anandi's expressions. She has always worn her heart on her sleeve as far as her family is concerned, it is the same with Jagya. Anandi didn't really get time to recover from Jagya's betrayal previously. Jagya brought Gauri to the house living in front of Anandi, Anandi had to steel herself to prevent a breakdown. Gauri's constant yelling and abusing the family and Anandi. Then Anandi's studying, getting into working for the village, and so on. When has she had the time to really let this whole betrayal sink in? Since the divorce she has had the time, so it was natural for her to show her feelings today.

Hopefully now she can put this behind her.

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disha123

@disha123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Guys ... try to understand ... when an relation of 17 years breaks ... even if you do not have the feeling for the other party ... you feel bad , hurt, sad ... and here the list of emotions is long ... everything will be over and erased ... give her some right to feel sad ... look like a Damsel in Distress ... not everytime a person can be strong ... this is her time too feel sad and hurt ...

From all the 17 years ... the past 5-6years are trauma ... but the remaining 10-11 years where Happiness and Good Memories ... let her shed some tears over them ... tears make a memory bitter ... help in making them vanish forever ...

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sukanya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

at first i was confused,but then i tried to understand the meaning of anandi's staring at jagya.she probably had question in her eyes for the last time for jagya that after sharing such a lovely relation with her how he could continue to hurt her again and again.after their signs all will be over for ever.for the last time she tried to read jagya's eyes,is their any pain or remorse?or what does this changed jagya looks like?her eyes kept on questioning how could you..how could you?but one thing must be admitted if not equally sad,but jagya's pain and guilty feeling were evident all through.

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Nazneen

@SiriuslySujal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: funky_junkie
I don't completely agree with the @tm.
Tinoo, how can we interpret her expressions just like that? Its like we see what we actually want to see. I wanted to see a stronger Anandi and hence, I saw.
Didn't you notice the disgust in her eyes when Jagya was staring at Shiv? She was clearly and visibly ashamed.
And according to me, she wasn't waiting for a miracle to happen. Maybe she was wondering 'what the hell happened to my sweet Jagya? When did he become Jagat and why?' Maybe she was asking herself what wrong did I do? Maybe she was trying to see some remorse in his eyes not because she wants him back but because she thinks she deserves it.
And about the precap. Precaps can be misleading and we all know that.
I know today's episode was frustating and esp for Anshians like us but come on! Its the divorce!!!
Most awaited event of the series. They will surely drag it to the hilt, as one of the members said 'more than Anandi's hesitation to sign, it was the CV's wish to draaag...

Yes, I think that makes more sense than the idea of her looking at him pleadingly because she wants him back. I reckon she just wanted to see a sign that he was affected by the situation... that he wasn't just callously going to sign without feeling anything. I think she wanted to see a flicker of emotion in his eyes, not out of love for her, but in memory of all the years they shared together. If that makes sense. She's trying to find her closure in knowing that it meant something to him, that it wasn't a 17-year-long delusion.

I think one thing we all have to bear in mind is that, being on this forum, we have confirmation through articles and such that the divorce is going to happen. The layman watcher does not, and therefore may have derived a fair bit of tension from the scene ("Will he or won't he? Will she or won't she?"). So I think in dragging the scene in that manner, the CVs were catering to those who don't have advance information 😉

Besides, I'm sure a lot of people out there thought JaAn were cute back in the day. I think that pairing deserves a proper farewell given that they were the main couple of the series from its inception. And then in future we will have lots and lots of AnSh. Sabr ka phal meetha hota hai!

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: neelanjanasingh

yeah...Let see!!

tinoo then why the new topic: will anandi keep in touch too? i am assuming that is also based on after he precap right?

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: tinoo
Today first of all, when they got up and were together in the aisle ... jagya doesnt look at her but walks forward... she follows him looking at him like a puppy dog.

Then, all throughout the long drawn signing, she keeps looking at him with some pleading eyes... like please change your mind and dont sign ... when he signs and slides the paper over to her for her signature ... then she gets an angry look in her eyes ... as if she wanted him to say "i cant do this... i cant divorce you"

then tomorrow after the signing, he leaves and is not looking back at her ... again she calls out to him and says "Jagya"...

I mean really 🤢🤢

Why not just let him go and be done with it?

Is this the time for a final goodbye. That already happened in the cowshed.

But Jagya also kept looking at her through out and they kept looking at each other.

May be the walk through the aisle is added for drama because to me it really looked like bride and groom walking through that aisle

.While sitting in front of the judge she probably was looking into his face to see if can find her Jagya in him.May be she was trying to connect with Jagya and tell him how much this is hurting her??

In all their interactions post Jagya's marriage I dont think she ever let him see how much he hurt her.Probably she is telling and letting him see how much he hurt her for probably the first time and definitely for the last time.

I want Jagya to see for himself how much he hurt her.I think it is ok for her to show her feelings in front of him.I want this image of hers to haunt him.

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