both jagat n anandi r victim of child marriage

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madhubala.fan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: shalluuu

yes thats what i want to say they had their suhaag raat in the age of 20- 21 where person hardly go for marriage..so everything hapen in their life suddenly and reason behind child marriage...agar college life m jagat ko anandi jaisi ladki mili hoti to aaj gauri nhi anandi hoti...

sorry i fail to appreciate ur logic. 21 is an adult age. the legal age of marriage for guys as per the constitution of india so yes HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING. it was not liek any one including bhairon and dadisa held a gun to his tempel and forced himt o perform the act!

and do i need to give a biology disocurse here that in order to perform the act the male shoudl find the female attarctive enough. so basically he had no problems with anandi ... untill he found someone who aroused him more. OK SLIME BALL. thats what he is!

m sorry im not bashign u shalu im just in mood of doign soem serious jagiya bashing.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

yeh to dadisa ka baddappan hai ki woh jagya ko victim maan rahi hain pur mujhe to jagya kahin se bhi victim nahi lagaa .koi aisa scene hai jahaan pur prove kurta hai ki woh child marriage ka victim hai ? bachpann mein dadisa ke ladpyaar mein raha phir paanch saal ke liye door ho gaye phir apni marji se anandi ko letter bhejta tha aur uske saamne vesh badal kur anandi ke saamne jaata tha phir doctory mein select ho gaya aur paanch saal tuk gauri ke saath aish .to bataao jagya kaise victim ho gaya .yeh sirf anandi hi hai jo child marriage ki victim hai

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Blukitten

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Many serial killers and rapists go through child abuse so does it mean they should be pardoned for their crimes??

Jagya is a victim tht does not give him licence to humiliate anandi.

His attitude was mean towards everyone not just Anandi...

He insulted his childhood friends,His village people,Shayam...What has child marriage got to do with this ??

He has grown into this airhead who is running after glamerous city life...he rejected anandi not cos of love but coz he wanted a modern upgraded wife...

Imagine if Gawari was an uneducated village girl would he still love her ??

He just wanted a modern city girl since Gawari was the only girl in college who gave him bhav he got attached to her...its not true love its just convience.

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Asha

@Chytra

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: nniks
Many serial killers and rapists go through child abuse so does it mean they should be pardoned for their crimes??
Jagya is a victim tht does not give him licence to humiliate anandi.

His attitude was mean towards everyone not just Anandi...

He insulted his childhood friends,His village people,Shayam...What has child marriage got to do with this ??

He has grown into this airhead who is running after glamerous city life...he rejected anandi not cos of love but coz he wanted a modern upgraded wife...

Imagine if Gawari was an uneducated village girl would he still love her ??

He just wanted a modern city girl since Gawari was the only girl in college who gave him bhav he got attached to her...its not true love its just convience.

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Exactly Niharika. He turned into a person whom his own parents fail to recognise.
Yes jagat, anandi, gauri(childhood so...) are victims of child marriage.
Anandi was perfectly doing well. Its jagat who made wrong things and tried to shoove them under the rug. But the fire is still on!
He is a freak idiotic monger who neither respected elders nor his birth place. Right says my Nanima. "Jo apna jaanme gaav ko naa pyaar kar sake woh kya pyaar kare kise aur ko"😡

And gawari - she never thinks about anyone except her. for her it always me me me. she was normal until she married jagaaat and turned to physcopathic moron under the disguise of "insecurity"🤢

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tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

even if they are both victims of child marriage ...

I think anandi has borne a disproportionate brunt of the results of victimization... and jagya very little

He has redeemed the burden of child marriage by moving on with his lady love gauri ... anandi still remains in a village burdened by the divorcee tag...even if she wants to get remarried it will be very difficult in a village setting.

He moved to Bombay where he doesnt have to listen to gossip ... anandi had to live in jayetsar and bear the taunts of other villagers and be a brunt of gossip.

He is bang on target with respect to his career (more or less) ... anandi completed her B.A. at the age of 23 and is still struggling to establish herself in her sarpanch career. The villagers still dont listen to her 100%.

endless list ... so even if we accept both to be victims of child marriage... disproportionate brunt has been borne by anandi.

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leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

all three are vctims of cm!

g- the memory fuelled by venegence form illiterate parents made her the cynical spiteful insecure woman she is

j- he is basically spineless!! he makes excuses for his failuers, yes he found more compataibltiy with g, but how he went abt is what makes him evil for me!!

a- she suffered the most perhaps, she changed herself to satisfy the susral, adjust ot hubby insecurity, stooped education nad then that was the reason she got left and not left cordially, left like she is untouchable, broken esteem, broken soul, left to bear the pain of ppl pitying her, left to pik up the peices of her life amidst entering of the son with new wife on many occassions!!

but yes although it lead to the problem how it was doen was/ is my main problem ,whicvhi swhy i cnat ofrgive j, i can forgive him for choosing another wife,( theek ha found some one more compatible and still is in love so means it chalo secondary)

what i cant let go is

cheating a and g for five years

blaming a, that she isnt worth me

blaming family that it is coz of u that i got phansofied to her

behaviour with family frineds anandi

the expectatinos that now that m no longer wit a , kick her out, is she an object??

the fact that bv is not imp yet used bv only to justify mariage to g, saying she is guriya?

the fact that he demended cash in return for divrce

i cant forgive g for:

gon back on her words- when she told j that his frined is idsgustin, she maried that disgusting slimeball

when somehow marrying j became a sweet revenge over singhs for anuuling her bv

when she demanded all the rights of a just coz she is j wfe now

knwing ileagal she still stayed in marrage , cldnt have she walked out with an ultimatim that first get divorce then come to me??i wld have respected her then

somehow when all of it came to winning over a, showing her n singhs neeche

blaming every worng on singhs and anadi and assuming self to be a victim

but more than that real prob is j!! not g or sumtiras challenge it is just j!!

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TVmonk

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Loved yesterday's episode. One of the best till now.😭

What dialogues.👏 Dadisa saying, don't look at the chains, look at the freedom. This is exactly where this serial scores over above.

Loved it when DS said it was elders who were wrong and the kids who were paying. And then the camera went to show Anandi crying and Jagya restless. I am notashamed to say, this time my heart went out to Jagya. He too is a victim of this system, though his insensitive attitude towards Anandi needs to be condoned. I actually felt al though a long relation is abt to be broken. I could have just hugged both Anandi and Jagya yesterday.😭

What direction and what acting by everyone.👏

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ankit111

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

All three r victim, but suffered only one and tht is Anandi😆

Jogia never suffered any difficulty due to his child marriage. He was ankho ka tara, raj dulara of his family, he hd a very devoted wife, he was romancing with her child wife and thn went for higher study to city and thn there also nothing stopped him from romancing again. Even his child marriage cd not become abstacle for him, instead it become excuse for him.

Gawari mata is perfect example of people who love to drive their car in back gear, even the road in front is crear and smooth😆 she was initially a victim, but she was rescued. Very rare lucky victim. May be initially few month or years effected her this even, but finally it proved boon for her and she got wht she wanted. She got even better chance to fulfill her dream due to tht victimization. So being a victim proved for her blessing. It was never a abstacle in her life till she herself not decided to make one😆

Anandi, the only one, which life was shattered due to her being victim. She hd to bear the all burn. She was tortured by DS most part of her life, she hs to bear the rajshahi nakhare of her husband, she hs to take bullet for her loser and cheater husband, she hs to curb her dream, and finally she hs to bear the cheating of her adult husband😡 in short she is only one who hd to bear the all consequenses of child marriage victim. If today she is standing on her own fit, enjoying the love and respect of everyone, thn it was not becoz she begged or demanded or someone gave her out of mercy, but she own it, she deserve it and she earned it👏

I think difference is clear, the one who suffered most never portrayed herself as victime, never used her victim card, but those who was least effected but infact indirectly benifeated by it, trying to play victim card and DEMANDING love, respect and rits😡 this is difference between a fighter and a loser😆

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tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

hink it is a fallacy to say that jagat did not understand his vows or his situation.

He understood fully and then chose to ignore both his vows and his situation.

Not understanding something is very different from knowing something and choosing to ignore it/dishonour it.

He knew there was some girl called anandi living in jayetsar with his parents.

what did he perceive her role to be? was anandi the maid-servant of the singhs? was she living there to clean cowsheds? was she his sister? was she makhan's wife? was she suguna's friend? ... on what basis was she living in the haveli ... obviously as his wife... are you saying that a 20 year old man does not understand even that much? then he is not fit to be a doctor even if he is that retarded.

and never mind his own understanding -- what did he think his parents' understanding was of anandi? what did he think anandi's own understanding of her relationship with him? did he not know that she is under the impression that she is his beendhni?

and what i find really incredible about jagat is that he had already decided that gauri appealed to him, and he had made an emotional commitment to gauri by saying "mai tumse pyaar karta hoon" when anandi passed her 10th exam. At that time there was no confusion or fuzziness in his mind. Then even if he didnt reveal his relationship with gauri, he should have thought that eventually there will come a time when he will break off his relationship with anandi ... so atleast let anandi be equipped with an education to deal with that situation... let her study and have something in life ... but no he then showed that he was her beendh and had control over her...

his exact words were "anandi meri beendhni hai, aur uske beendh hone ke naate, mein use padhne se manaa karta hoo."

why? and on what basis was he saying no to anandi's further studies -- as her beendh-- so if he has no understanding of the relationship -- then why identify himself as anandi's beendh?

also, he has never really blamed balvivah for anything -- when he walked in hand in hand with gauri into the haveli post their court marriage -- dadisa gave him a tight slap -- he never had the guts to stand up for his adult choice and say "this is gauri, i met her in my adult life, and after a thoughtful adult decision have decided that she is fully compatible with me to be my adult life partner"...

instead he told dadisa "pehchana isse? aapne hi bachpan mein inse shaadi karwaai thee. aapne hi mere haathon se uske maang mein sindoor bharwaya thaa"...

which means he used the support of his child marriage to gauri to gain acceptance of gauri -- so he is a victim of his child marriage to anandi -- but the greatest beneficiary of his child marriage to gauri? 🤢

let us not say that jagat had no understanding of his vows.

he may not have had a choice in making those vows ... but definitely he had an understanding of his vows.

let us not say jagya is a victim of child marriage -- because he took the support of his child marriage to gauri to get acceptance from dadisa.

furthermore, let us also not say that he is a victim -- that would be the case only if he had sacrificed his love for gauri to remain within the boundaries of bapusa's choice -- swallowing the bitter pill of having to live with anandi even though she was not his chosen one... now that he has gauri in his life and he is leading his desired life with her, got her pregnant, everything ... what real consequences is he facing of his bal vivah.?

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sukanya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

jagya used his child marriage in excuse of his bigamy. till now this tag is safeguarding him against his all sins.luckily he was married at an early stage as it paved the way of enjoying two women and he can simultaneously relish the taste of adultery and accuse his family for his bigamy.. ins-pite-of that he is being labelled as victim.very funny. he has just manipulated his child marriage.

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