Shiv's state of mind

Why are the CVs not showing Shiv's state of mind yet ? A day has already passed after Anandi yelled at him. There should be something going on in his mind. But, what ? I feel really bad for this guy.

This is a very boring week. I hope from monday there is romance in the air. I watch this serial only for Shiv and want to see him smiling.

Originally posted by: elasingh

This is a very boring week. I hope from monday there is romance in the air. I watch this serial only for Shiv and want to see him smiling.

i dnt find it boring, rather i love the way they are hinting at the turmoil of a and shiv is trying ot absorb it, he will i guess show his reaction after j fight!

Dixie - we didn't get introspection or internal dialogue of Shiv, but we did get hints of where he is at:

Originally posted by: leo4ever

i dnt find it boring, rather i love the way they are hinting at the turmoil of a and shiv is trying ot absorb it, he will i guess show his reaction after j fight!

however i am loving the fact that a is finally returning to normal where she is putting herself above her family wishes and other ppl!! i want a long pursuit of a and shiv where he woos her completely!1

aww mera bachha shiv 🤗 deserves some pucchies *smoochs*

shridevigaddam - spot on. mate! Post-divorce, Shiv needs to give her stern dhaat. She needs to wallow, but not too too much.

I think Shiv has put himself on the back burner because he is more concerned about Anandi's state of mind because he knows she is suffering much more than he is. He will not make any more moves that might upset her, especially after he learned about her state of mind from her family today.

Shiv is Anandi's well wisher first and foremost and he likes her a lot and respects her. So he signals his willingness to wait for her to change her mind. So his decision to marry Anandi is made and he is not changing his mind. He will wait for her come around because in some corner of his mind her believes she will once she has had enough time to heal.

The scene I loved today was his touching daadisa's feet. This broke the ice. This clearly showed that he does not hold Daadisa responsible for what happened. Even thought Anandi insulted him, he did not take offense. His understanding nature is perhaps what will ultimately swing Anandi. Anandi is an extremely complicated person and until she falls in love, Shiv will have to handle her with kid gloves. His ability to empathize with her, his understanding and his caring will be what ultimately brings Anandi around.

Originally posted by: shridevigaddam

Anandi is still not normal. After the blasts and rants and crying, look at her now. She is in nervous state.The shout has done what it can do to her. It did not innerve her but has instead made her go back into her shell again. That's quite normal. It happens to all of us.

What she seriously needs to do to become normal is introspect her rants. Then only she can come out of the past pain, present latent rage and her getting nervous about seeing the same.

Hopefully as per the precap, she sits down to introspect something about herself and her past tomorrow. She needs to clean up all the cobwebs from her mental cupboards. Nahin to she's never gonna have the space for new tokens of her present life.

God! how scared she was to meet up Shiv and even stand before Dadisa and Bapusa. I must say a good depiction of her state. After the emotional rage settles down, its not a pleasant realization and she is fidgeting about it in one or the other manner.

In return, how the three of them Shiv, Bhairon and Dadisa were scared at being caught by her.

Shiv's state of mind.

To be dragged down from ecstatic moments and to be pushed hard onto to nothing, it definitely must have felt an abyss to him. Look at him in the meeting within office and the social event outside. How different is this Shiv from the earlier Shiv who had the collected mind to get up and give water to Anandi and calm her down. Now he definitely looks as if he needs some balming. He looked all shaken to me and devoid of that exuberant confidence he had all along. But then he is stoically bearing it and he has already started registering Anandi's reticence and avoidance at the meeting, tried to do something about it in a most polite manner. Faced the unyeilding quite nicely. Better than Anandi.

And then look at his grit and integrity, he still maintains cordial manners with Dadisa and Bhairon, Its clearly his upbringing and his personal character. He does not mix up his pain with his perceived social duties. While Anandi was being guided by Bhairon and Dadisa that she cannot mix-up personal and professional matters and she needed their support, Shiv was all by himself, unguided by outside agency and yet guided by his principles. He had once said the same thing about himself to Anandi ...Naitik Zimmedaariyan is post ke saat judi huyee hain...

On personal front, as long as Shiv keeps up with his keen observation, its not going to be hard for him to turn around the situation. Anandi is not that a tough-nut to crack. She needs one reality-check Bhashan from Shiv. All this time, he has been observing her at each of her slights.

And considering the way A is slow to pick up her pieces of life, she needs support from family. Someone was saying, shouldn't she walk out of the Singh's place after the divorce. If you ask me, she needs to think in those lines. Here in Dadisa, Maasa and Bapusa's care she is too protected to have reality checks and too distant from the need to channelize her internal rage.

About Anandi accusing Shiv that he cannot see that Aashi loves him. Well who said that one sided love has to be honoured. Shiv makes it clear through his body language and verbal expression to Aashi that she is nothing more than a friend. And if Ashi keeps up her hopes, is it Shiv's fault? I need to watch that episode again to see how Shiv reacts to that accusation.😳

Siddharth Shuka is really acting his best. I am impressed. That was a nice performance today as he showed pain albeit a subdued one before his immediate responsibilities.

😆 I just don't understand how come all these grey shaded heroines get the gem of hearts as their men and people like me wait for my Prince Charming to come and they never happen 😆

Chalo. Good Luck to Anandi and All the best to Shiv for winning his choicest Dame. 😆

Compared to Anandi, the other three characters, Jagat, Gauri and Shiv are handling their personal lives in all its brutality for better or worse. Anandi...still needs the whole family. Seriously do I blame Jagat for accusing her ? No. Because at the end of the day, that is a real statement. Fine Jagya lost family, and Anandi gets to keep family as alimony in their marriage fiasco. But again seriously Anandi, have you even thought of alimony for yourself to even fight for it ? You have steadfast support from your family and you don't care about anything else. So where are your reality checks from your own perspective ? Now that you have started ranting, better you also think if situation merits the rant.