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Posted: 13 years ago
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Will jagya change- what i mean by this is not just that he should realize how wrong he was in cheating anandi and hurting his family. all these should happen. but i feel that jagya should also stop being so gender-biased. he should stop expecting his wife to be the submissive in the relationship. given his background as being raised in a patriarchal family, it would be a holistic change if he were to understand how important it is to respect and value women as equal to men. when he was younger though he was nicer to anandi, he did believe that he was superior to her. and when his relationship with gauri began, he liked bcoz of her ambitious nature and modern attitude. but now he wants her to turn into a submissive wife. i hope that if and when jagya's changes for the better, he imbibes the quality of feminism too.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice topic 😊

i think jaggya is like this bcoz how he has brought up!...and DS is very much responsible for this...how DS used to pamper him will lots of money and toys..and also how DS cultivated the thinking in his mind that he should be superior than his wife all the time..i guess its very tough to come out of such thinking...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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jagya must realise this " life is not leaving game" kbhi anandi kbhi gauri

i want creatives bring the track where they showd women must be respected...if jagat will leave gauri and move to anandi its going to b vahi old story...

i hope they dont show shiv to be negative...shiv move with anandi...

jagat just realise how he insulted both gauri and anandi at different times...its time to b with gauri not leaving her...its not time to get jealous from woman success and to feel inferior from your wife...

i hope gauri also forget that challenge with sumitra

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalluuu

jagya must realise this " life is not leaving game" kbhi anandi kbhi gauri

i want creatives bring the track where they showd women must be respected...if jagat will leave gauri and move to anandi its going to b vahi old story...

i hope they dont show shiv to be negative...shiv move with anandi...

jagat just realise how he insulted both gauri and anandi at different times...its time to b with gauri not leaving her...its not time to get jealous from woman success and to feel inferior from your wife...

i hope gauri also forget that challenge with sumitra

yeah i agree... he should repent but he should not try to get back into anandi's life... he should try to stabilise his life with gauri...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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jagya always take decisions without consulting others and when his decision comes out to be wrong he starts blaming others .even if he repent whatever he did to anandi or his own family he will pass the buck to gauri for influencing his decision
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumreen

jagya always take decisions without consulting others and when his decision comes out to be wrong he starts blaming others .even if he repent whatever he did to anandi or his own family he will pass the buck to gauri for influencing his decision


I know! that is exactly what i fear... i hope that somehow his psyche will change in due course.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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NO... he wont change ever. a person cn chnge his living style, looks and even mentality to some extent but he cnt change his inner self n jagya is born selfish and egoistic so he will never change.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

nice topic 😊


i think jaggya is like this bcoz how he has brought up!...and DS is very much responsible for this...how DS used to pamper him will lots of money and toys..and also how DS cultivated the thinking in his mind that he should be superior than his wife all the time..i guess its very tough to come out of such thinking...

bilkul sahi kahe rahe ho aap. yaad hai jab jab bachpan mein Anandi ko jagya se jyaada marks aaye the tab Dadisa ne anandi ko kitna rulaya tha..? aur kaha tha ki apne bind se aage jaake tuje sharam naa aayi apne bind ka mooh nicha karwaya...something...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: michelle281194


I know! that is exactly what i fear... i hope that somehow his psyche will change in due course.

sirf uska hi nahi lekin sumitra aur dadisa bhi usi jamat ke bande hai. kal ko jagya wapas aata hai to anandi ko kahenge ki ab shiv ko chhod kar jagya ko apna le. par mein nahi chahti ki cvs aisi koi bhool karein kyunki jagya aur anandi ko ekththa karke cvs bachcho ki shadi akka child marri ka hi sath denge humein balika vaDHU ka virodh karna hai uska sath dena nahi hai.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: michelle281194

Will jagya change- what i mean by this is not just that he should realize how wrong he was in cheating anandi and hurting his family. all these should happen. but i feel that jagya should also stop being so gender-biased. he should stop expecting his wife to be the submissive in the relationship. given his background as being raised in a patriarchal family, it would be a holistic change if he were to understand how important it is to respect and value women as equal to men. when he was younger though he was nicer to anandi, he did believe that he was superior to her. and when his relationship with gauri began, he liked bcoz of her ambitious nature and modern attitude. but now he wants her to turn into a submissive wife. i hope that if and when jagya's changes for the better, he imbibes the quality of feminism too.

even if jaggi realise his faults today ( which by the way he ds deep down ) what difference ds it make to anyone ?
hehas already hurt anandi beyond limits for her to accept him back ... and his family too regarding that proeprty issue. what can change now as anandi has decided to move on.
i dont want anandi to go back to jaggi now becuase shiv has accepted and loved her just as she is and for who she is ... which jaggi did not. anandi will certainly very happy with shiv.
as for jaggi being gender biased ... i dont think he is gender biased with gauri ... deep down he resents gauri beucase he is missing his family. and teh reason is her.
i dont see him living happily with gauri either.
im sad for him becuas ein all this he is going to be the sole loosers this way or that.

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