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akvats01

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Posted: 13 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: earth1978
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then u can ty n appreciat ethe fact i changed myself so much for the responsibilities of womanhood.
rather than criticising my childhood which was the godo time of my life.

See you was rude to me, on so many things, You blamed me for being biased for doctors, and the fact that doctor's dont make a good wife.

This discussion was on BV, and on G and A ,But you fetched it on yoursef. then you starting blaming me for being biased for lady doctors, You blamed me for being proudy for my married life,

You suggested me to pray for my stars and to refine my thoughts on woman equality and freedom. . You clearly criticised me for being a woman who supports dominating male society,

You commented on when I had written about my SIL 's example. That too you had written that I don do it out of love, I do it in expectation that my Bhabhi would do it.. and XYZ... Wernt you judgementas for me?

When it became complex , you blamed me that I am being judgemental for you...

What did you expected from me when you strated writting rude about me and the practices that I follow?

When you are so Sensitive yourself, you better dont be rude and judgemental about other's

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Posted: 13 years ago

#82

i think v should not comment on each other personal life

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

#83

haan itna soch ke koi forum me nahi aat ki kissi ki personal life ko laayenge ... ho jata hai baat baat me.

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akvats01

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Posted: 13 years ago

#84

@earth

You must read my comments, I have repetedly said that I dont know what have created your POV like this.

You have again asumed many things

You hav esuumed that : I think , Only I share such equation with my In-laws not others.

You have assumed that : I think , If some body talks about equality , they dont do household work..

and its again your assumption that : " IF SOMEONE DONT HAVE SAME EQUATIONS U SHAR EWITH UR INALWS. IT IS NOT ENTIRELY THEIR FAULT AND UR SUCCESS."

Your Most important Asumption : That I am proudy that I am a good wife..

Dont you assume that "I am not so mature", "lecturing you without any experience"

Earth: I am a good wife for my husband. and you are a good wife for your husband. I am a capable woman for my family and you are capable for yours. So there is no point of proud on the fact that I am a good wife.. No body is a universal wife..

Second : You have managed your family. I have managed my family. there can be no comparision. For the sake of welfare of my family I may keep relation with my in-laws . Other may not found it good to keep relations with In-laws. Now it does not make me superior.

More over it is purely your assumption that I think my self superior.

What ever I have written is for the fact that : managing is the key. In managing some time you end up with extra responsibility, but when you manage the situation, every thing falls in place, So we should not strictly believe that according to the principle of equality, we must always end up with equal responsibilities. and if some time we have more responsibilities , it does not mean that others are dominating on us and our freedom has been snatched. My belief is that , we ( woman) are strong enough and capable enough to keep the stuffs at their place. Some time when we compromise in doing the same, we should not think that we have lost our freedom of womanhood.

If you dont agree with this, you may criticise, I really dont want to go in next set of arguments. Arguments never ends.

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: payalibm
i am shoked,i am amazed to read the comments...of some of the members...

well what i want to say is
koe din hathee na koe din ghodra ,
tou koe din paidal chalna ji

means - soem day we night get the ride of elephant...some day might ferrare or bmw and some day it might be ke we have to walk down the lane...

life is this simple...the one who understand what i am saying will know what actually is married life and one who wont understand ... then...

(i feel their are exctly 5 members whome i trust will know exctly what i am saying ..but letss seee how many of them replies to me in all..beside this 5 members ... )

ok so r u trying to say i did nto try to compromsie when it was my time to paidal chalna. i actually did.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#86

ek doosre ke personal life pe comment karte karte kitna argument ho gaya

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Picasso9

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Posted: 13 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: payalibm
i am shoked,i am amazed to read the comments...of some of the members...

well what i want to say is
koe din hathee na koe din ghodra ,
tou koe din paidal chalna ji

means - soem day we night get the ride of elephant...some day might ferrare or bmw and some day it might be ke we have to walk down the lane...

life is this simple...the one who understand what i am saying will know what actually is married life and one who wont understand ... then...

(i feel their are exctly 5 members whome i trust will know exctly what i am saying ..but letss seee how many of them replies to me in all..beside this 5 members ... )

On the money Payal.

This is with any relationship in life, not just marriage. All our days are not the same. It is how we respond to it that matters.

Coming to Gauri, she behaves as if she won the Nobel prize just fe being a Doc. When she got he job, she partied all night. As some members pointed out, she could have used her so called superior brains and spoken more tactfully or in private to Jagya about winding down the party. Being a woman wanting equality or being a doctor required to perform surgery the next morning does not exempt her from having good manners or respect for others.

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: surabhi01
ek doosre ke personal life pe comment karte karte kitna argument ho gaya

haa but insaan ha aur insaan se hi isa hota hai. actually yaar ye forum me aana hi nahi chahye ... waise bhi hamare sochane se hotta kya hai hota to wohi hai jo creaters dikhana chahte hai.

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: parri814

On the money Payal.

This is with any relationship in life, not just marriage. All our days are not the same. It is how we respond to it that matters.

Coming to Gauri, she behaves as if she won the Nobel prize just fe being a Doc. When she got he job, she partied all night. As some members pointed out, she could have used her so called superior brains and spoken more tactfully or in private to Jagya about winding down the party. Being a woman wanting equality or being a doctor required to perform surgery the next morning does not exempt her from having good manners or respect for others.

no i dont agree she is arrogant about it. she is not very sensible but she is not arrogant abt being a doc. the reason i go to such lengths is that ppl r equating docs with gauri hey yaar aisa nahi hai, doc girls r just regular gilrs , regular issues , gauri is not nice character due to her nture not due to her profession.

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Payal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: earth1978

ok so r u trying to say i did nto try to compromsie when it was my time to paidal chalna. i actually did.

hahahaha..but i am sorry to say...you dint at all understand my point...

ps - you or anyone or evryone who is married or unmariied...evry one in their own way and in their life style system has done compromise...evry single one do...and i am shure you also did that when need arised,and its only you who can understand what you did...or the person who would be stuk in the situation like you have been stuk and you have compromised...others who havnt will never understand..so you took it all wrong swettuuu

but i am sorry to say...you dint got what i said above...and what i meant...

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