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Posted: 13 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: shalluuu


ok ankit11 if jagat gauri is loose couple what name you will give to jagat anandi couple ..kya vo ek successful couple tha ..aur agar nahi tha to is couple m problem kya th??????

The problem in A-J relation was never Anandi, but Jagiya. Jagiya took her maturity and good behaviour for granted. He didn't realize it is not something everyone has. Gehna had made this observation when he got married to Gauri, that Jagya was not worth her because he can never understand her patience and goodness. Of course the major ingriendient of any marriage was missing- love. j fell out of love of A.
But love is not enough to sustain any relation. It requires maturity which both G and J lack. Tell me are they happy in their relationship. They are fighting and fighting. J is gradually feeling left out to the extent he cannot share his feelings with her anymore! He is longing for family. Why? Is their relationship succeeding?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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When you loose in personnel life and win in professional life, Still you are failure.

If some body say , today's woman have strictly equal responsibilities for making a home, just because she is professional and working. I do not agree. Woman always have an extra responsibility because she is equiped with many qualities like Patience, Compassion, Forgiveness, and Strength..She is better at managing and balancing..
Man's ego and woman's feeling should not be hurt .This is nature of both genders the same way like woman carry child for 9 month. We are man and woman first ; doctors and engineer's second.. How can some one argue that the requirement of doctor are primary then the requirement of our basic nature..
If some body want to practical it... it is open.. Hurt your husband's ego, both of you would be disturbed at work.. may you work in a mdical college, Hospital, or engineering .. what ever..
Hurt your wife's feeling you would be the same..
and then.. Pamper his ego, and pamper her feeling and see the results at workplace..
Gauri can never win if untill she pride on her professional identity.. She is so proud on her doctor status, That she has forgotten duties of her being a woman and a wife..
Who can help her.. If she want to be successfull as a doctor, she would be lossing her personnel life, coz she is zero capable of balancing professional and personnel life..
SHE IS A WORST EXPAMPLE OF A PROFESSIONAL WOMAN.. IF SHE CAN NOT MANAGE R HER OWN PERSONNEL LIFE,, WHAT IS THE USE OF HER EDUCATION AND PROFESSIONAL STATUS,,
She can not even contribute in her husband's job celebration. She is insisting that he should earn maoney first befor ethrowing party..
She can not even fund for her husband's clothe..
The very same husband , who had made her study, while she was bedrideen. It was Only jagat because of whome Gauri is a MS today,
Edited by akvats01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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How can one forget , It is only JAGAT, because of whome she is a MS today. He was the one who took care of her, made her study while she was bed ridden after her accident.. Otherwise she was also not able to sit in MS exams,
He did every thing to and for her, While he was himself very depressed as he was debared form the exams... but keeping his all pain aside he helped her..
And it was ONLY SHE WHO COULD NOT TOOK CARE OF THEIR CHILD. She have enough reasons to justify her anger, but when a woman is going to be a mother, she live for her child.. isnt it.. every thing she do , is for kid.. How can a mother be so non sensitive , who justifies that some XYZ has made her angry nd she has lost her child.. It means she was not worth of it.. any where , any time some body would make her angry and she would put her own child at risk... huhhh..
She should not be called great professionist. She is not. She may be a good doctor, but she is not a professionist.. She have no smartness to that level.
Edited by akvats01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think only jagat is responsible for his condition . he disrespected anandi and her feelings and now it seems whole world is taking revenge from him . but i still feel bad the way his friends behaved making me remind of the fact that true friends are only in schools not in professional colleges there we are competitors
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Posted: 13 years ago
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For a moment, as an exception , I can have compassion with Jagya, But NEVER FOR GAURIJagya was bad with A, for which I can never forgive him.. But He was always too good with Gauri.. He loved Gauri, Lived for her.. Left every body for her.. Changed himself.He compromised with her, when she ruined his career, He still supported her when she lost their child..
She made him feel low, when she refused for new clothe to him.. She crushed his ego each and every step.. She misbehaved with his family.. But Still he loved her..
But GAURI HAS NEVER BEEN GOOD TO ANY BODY>> SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN SELFISH, MANUPULATING , PROUDY, CUNNING, ... and lot more. She loved no body.. and now another aspect of her : she is too mad for her money..
For her salary : Its her salary, and for His salary : its their salary..
She wanted him for money, once he lost his money, she lost her interest in him.. Now she can not even manage food for him, can not sponser him clothe, can not be happy with his new job.,, Want him to be her legal assistant, and ordering him..
She want to prove that she is a doctor, and much successful then him.. Le de ke Gauri ke ek relation Jagya hi to hai, Jo usake parents se alag hai,, Usake saath bhi vo nahi Nibha saki..
Edited by akvats01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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this man wants to torture gauri becoz he had tortured anandi and she tolerated it without any resist ,but gauri is opposite she can't get compatible ,relations need compromise n compatibility both then they goo which is just missing here ,no reason they just fill selfish gaps to still fight so tru illegitimate relations cause illegitimate conditions to ruin life
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Not being tortured and being wrong with some one are two entirely different thing..
It is Aanandi who has resisted to his torture, and she is now free. She made herself strong enough, Worked on her passions, wishes, changed her path, and disconnected from him
But Gauri is not resisting to Torture, She is ACTUALLY BAD with him..
Infact do you remember : once when she retured Mumbai after the challange with Sumitra , Her mother made jaguya Angry.. and Gauri was Sooo manupulative, to win her challange she sent her own parents back, By saying that the terrorist fear in village is increasing, Terrorists are making the lonly home as their adda.. Unfortunately she never afraid of terrorists, when she want her mother to come to mumbai and support her agaisnt Jagat..
Her parents may be bad, and her mother may be wrong, But none of them are wrong with Gauri.. When ever she cries, Shout, get angry and all her drama Aavatar, She rudely closes the door , and her mother keep on banging the door from out side..
She is not soft to her own parents, what good she will do to others.. She is not resisting torture, she is only living what she is is.. She would be same with everybody.. Selfish manupulative and Rude...
Edited by akvats01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: earth1978

m mulling over wha u said. i think today jaggi is really cross with gauri because she made him loose his family. thats what is really eating him up .i dont think merely her being MS has anything to do with it.
otherwise he wudnt have encouraged her to study for it and cooked for her while she rested and studied.
if anything that is the real reason why he will leave her in the end, the family issue. not this MS thing really, it may act as an assisting factor but not the prime factor.

yea... true.. it's gonna be one of the many reasons but not the main reason
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalluuu


ok ankit11 if jagat gauri is loose couple what name you will give to jagat anandi couple ..kya vo ek successful couple tha ..aur agar nahi tha to is couple m problem kya th??????

U really want to know my pov on this?😆 I dont think u wd like, but as u asked i will reply for sure😉 for me In jaan relationship Jogia was like parasite, which was benifited on the expense of Anandi. Breaking this relationship was loss of Jogia but boon for Anandi, which is obvious in the show. Anandi graph is going up and up, where Jogia graph is going down and down heading towards gutter😆 yes Jaan was unmatched couple, becoz Jogia dint deserve Anandi, she really deserve better one. But in JAGO relationship, both r perfect match for each other, made for each other type😆 match of same type of people, match of TWO LOSER😉 btw let me clarify tht by loser couple, i didnt meant losing relationship, but combination of two loser😉 individually. So in Jaan case, a failed relationship is success indivisually for Anandi, whn in JAGO case a successful (i really wish😉) relation ship, failure for both. Both r sucking each others blood and this really they deserve😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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no i dont think expecting a woman to automatically balance both professionala dn personal life and blaming her squarly for all the failures in marital life is fair .
i dont liek gauri and thast no secret . i love anandi. but gauri is not at fault as of now for demaning enough sleep.
jab kaam karna padta hai naa tab aurat aur mard nahi dekha jata.
it is so ridiculous to say a woman dsnt deserve the same sleep a man does so that he can work properly the next day.
yahan baat naa woman ki feeling ki hai , naa man ke ego ki. yahan baat sirf sone ke hai so tha a person can go and concentrate fully he next day on a SURGERY. i am sure the patient dsn care the surgeon is a woman and she is required to pander to her husbands ego, all he cares for is an efficint surgeon. and for efficiency slee is required, i know becuase i have fainted in a surgery due to lack of sleep.
i dont know if u know this or not, or care or not ... a doctors prime responsibility is towards his patients and some what secondary owards personal life. im sue u wud want such a doc who thinks liek this for urself ... then why criticise gauri for demanding whats needed to keep her working!
ridiculous to ask her to sacrifice her sleep for a party to take care of mans ego.
Edited by earth1978 - 13 years ago

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