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tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: surabhi01
ain mauke pe kyon kaha.hua yeh tha ki jub jagat ka dost party maang raha tha to jagat ne kaha ki abhi to kaam bhi theek se bhi shuru nahi hua to dost ne kaha tum to bade kanjoos ho achha koi baat nahi party meri taraf se phir jagat ne kaha nahi nahi party meri aur gauri ki taraf se hogi .us time gauri ne aisi koi baat nahi ki tumhe jub first salary mile to tub party rakhna .she should tell this him before why to tell these things to him when party about to begin

she did tell him before also... but he did not listen to her. (even though they did not show the conversation that she has told him it was implied that they had that conversation before and he had not listened to her)...it seemed to me he had simply invited everyone over inspite of gauri's objections, and then she was re-iterating her irritation that he did not check with her also ... i dont think it is the first time she said it just before the party.

Woh shaayad mana bhi kar sakti thi...lekin usko fir se jhagda nahi karna tha, toh woh man maarke chup chaap sab khana vagairah le kar aayi, but uska irritation tha which came out ... maybe her bank balance became low. 😆 she told him you could have waited till you got your first salary.

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: apalepu
Jagya always had an ego problem even when he was little. He always had to win in every game he played. At one point, Dadisa brain-washed him into not letting Anandi read and write so she doesn't become smarter then he is. He's a rich, spoiled bratt! It's just how he is. It's not a good reason for you but it is for him. He only wanted a wife equal to him not more then him.
This is a problem but it's not gonna cause the divorce. There's so much more that's gonna go on between them. Many things that have to come out between them... Keep watching lol...

m mulling over wha u said. i think today jaggi is really cross with gauri because she made him loose his family. thats what is really eating him up .i dont think merely her being MS has anything to do with it.

otherwise he wudnt have encouraged her to study for it and cooked for her while she rested and studied.

if anything that is the real reason why he will leave her in the end, the family issue. not this MS thing really, it may act as an assisting factor but not the prime factor.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

jubardasti yeh dialouge kyon bul waa rahi ho gauri se .gauri ne aisa khuchh nahi kaha tha maine yeh dialouge confirm karne ke liye maine doobara episode dekha pur gauri ne aisa khuchh nahi kaha phir uske baad kul se pehle koi gaga ka scene nahi aaya tha

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: kavmuks
Agree with earth1978..

Moreover the true purpose of Balika Vadhu show is that people married din childhood did not find happiness with each other but they found happiness with the partners they chose after growing up.

I think the real message of balika vadhu is that yes child marriages may not work out ... but adult marriages will work out only if they are conducted with integrity and honesty. This adult relationship is not working out because it is based on lies, lies and more lies.

I really think jagya would have had a very happy married life if he had done the honourable thing and closed off the chapter with anandi first and then married gauri.

And even if he chose to do the dishonourable thing and marry gauri, it is okay, but then he should have had the integrity to close off his relationship with anandi later on atleast. instead, he wanted to keep taking money from her.

Also, this particular character jagya is a slimebag.

When he first took gauri home, he said to dadisa "I have married the same girl that YOU chose for me dadisa. YOU made me put sindoor in her hair, you made me do this"

which means that he wasnt against child marriage at all.

if he had integrity he would have proudly stood for his adult decision and said "this is my adult choice and I feel she is more compatible with me based on my adult decisions"

Did he do that? No. his logic is that gauri is his childhood beendhni so he married her in adult life to legitimize that particular child marriage 🤢🤢...

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earth1978

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: surabhi01
jubardasti yeh dialouge kyon bul waa rahi ho gauri se .gauri ne aisa khuchh nahi kaha tha maine yeh dialouge confirm karne ke liye maine doobara episode dekha pur gauri ne aisa khuchh nahi kaha phir uske baad kul se pehle koi gaga ka scene nahi aaya tha

gauri ki request yaa uske kehane ke tarreke me koi burayi nahi thi at least kal.

but she tried to wrap up the party i guess that was a bit wrong.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

wohi to gauri ko at the spot irritate hone lagi ki tumhe apni first salary se party rakhni chahiye aur ittafak dekho gauri ki mun ki ho bhi gayi ki use hospital se call aaya aur gauri ko party wind up karne ka reason bhi mil gaya

Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: earth1978
i thought i would be happy to see JG marriage disintegrate.
but unlike most people on this forum who are iking this and saying they deserve it ... i beg to differ.

i wud have liked to see JG marriage disintgrate of its own accord. not due to the idea being planted in jagiya head by callous friends. that too omething which is not gauri's fault.

gari is a doctor, her concern of getting enough sleep was valid. jagiya shudnt have had the party or wound it up properly. he being a doc shud have understood. but i agree even my husband wud never ask his guests to wind up early.

the thing is being an MBBS husband to an MS wife is perfectly fine. the circumstance wudnt last forever. there is nothign wrong in assisting wife.

i dont like the CVs showing this as a reason for disintegration of their marriage as it is not a valid reason.instead they cud have shown something else.

i am actually feeling bad for both jagiya and gauri. him becuase his happiness of finding a job was snatched in a moment. and her becuase jagiya will leave her for being good at her work! hardly any reason for divorse.

I don't think the marriage is disintergrating as yet. And this is just one incident adding fuel to fire. Jagya had already feared such ridicules when he got appointment as an assistant to Gauri. Thats why he wanted to get his position changed. The onus is on him to behave maturely and ignore such comments. Of course he has to be helped by Gauri. For start Gari madam should learn when to talk what? I didn't find a mistake in her asking to wind up early but to start giving instructions to Jagiya in front of everyone😲, especially when everyone is making his fun 😆? She is very silly that way. She did the same in BM incident, in front of dean, in front of villagers (when she announced her marital status without realizing the implication of being a second wife, and then getting angry at Anandi for all the insults phooli and other heaped on her) 😆.

I honestly feel that a distance is going top grow between J and G. J is now very sensitive to the idea of being inferior to his wife and peers. Its very interesting to note that the man who was very helpful with the household work when they were studying, is now gradually becoming resistant to the idea. He didn't want to serve the chips and put down the empty glasses. Its because he is fighting tooth and nail to the idea of being inferior to Gauri. I predict in the coming episodes he will become even more unco-operative. He will not help G even in small things and may disobey her commands. This will create tensions as G will think he is becoming insensitive and wants to treat her like a dirt. He doesn't respect her problems and help requests.

This may require some maturity and sensitivity on gauri's part. For start she may start reassurring him that he is not inferior. This can not be done by praising alone. The best is not giving him any instructions whatsoever and talking to him properly. What did she do in the hospital? I asked you something Dr Jagat? 😲 It will not help. Once Jagat is reassured of his position, he will return to back to being normal and cooperative husband he was to gauri. Otherwise get ready for fireworks. Because both of them are self-centered and selfish.

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shalluuu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

i am lecturer at medical college sometime i postponed my planes for student life...they call me day night to ask about xams and even my colgue too

lekin mere husband ko kbhi koi problem nahi hoti...jagat always think he is dud pita bacha.."gauri uske saath saa rahe"

"man who cant stand on his feet how he can movie with other arms"

pehle jagat apne liye kuch soche

blaming on gauri should not b part of his game...

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shalluuu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: ankit111
CVs r doing a great job, if they r saying problem between this loser couple, it was not becoz a mbbs husband working under MS wife, but it is becoz a person with big ego and selfish and a equaly selfish wife ,who dosnt know how and where to behave. There was problem even before they started working and there will be problem even if both will work seperately and not depending on each other. They will always find reason to fight, becoz they dont know how to compromise in life, which is very necessary in marriage life. Two person cant think equally everytime, but if u want tht the gaddy of ur marriage life run smoothly, u hv to make compromises. I m clarifying, before any faminist start cutting my throat, tht my statement is for both, husband and wife. If u cant compromise and ur thought most of time not match thn option is always open to run out from the relationship, instead making each other life hell. This is musch easier for illeagal relationship like JAGO😆

ok ankit11 if jagat gauri is loose couple what name you will give to jagat anandi couple ..kya vo ek successful couple tha ..aur agar nahi tha to is couple m problem kya th??????

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Asi Jain

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: shalluuu

ok ankit11 if jagat gauri is loose couple what name you will give to jagat anandi couple ..kya vo ek successful couple tha ..aur agar nahi tha to is couple m problem kya th??????

in JAAN couple only jagya was selfish and insensitive and anandi always used to love him unconditionally even after his betrayal. In GAGA couple both are selfish and insensitive.

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