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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: surabhi01

no no jub friends ghar mein nahi bhi aaye the to bhi gauri irritate ho rahi thi ki kya zaroorat thi party rakhne ki .thats why i am confused

she was irritated then because she felt jagat should have got his first salary and then given the party. 😆😆😆
ab gauri ke khud ke paison se yeh sab karna pada tha, toh woh kafi upset thi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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rofl so funny tinoo !
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

rofl so funny tinoo !

no, not trying to be funny ... I am serious... she actually said these words to jagat. she wanted him to give the party after he got his first month's salary.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kabakaba4

I think we have to be patient and wait for the wright time for CV's to open "Pandora's box."


In my humble opinion, trust is very important in marriage. Jagat DOES trust madam, but she DOES NOT trust him and she still hides some things from him, to keep him to herself.

Just a few: agreement she has with Sumitra, she lied to him that she went to see her relative, but she went to Haveli when Bade Papa told her it was Bhairon who supported her, and not Papa. And that was the biggest secret she has learned from papa, but J still does not know it.

And why not? Her Ma told her not to tell him, because he will think that his father is so good and he might go back to his family. She tries to be nice to him, so Sumitra does not win!

What will happen when J hears all those things?
THAT could be a big rift!


Just to add one more thing...J DOES NOT KNOW that Ma suggested to G to find him a job, so he still do not know WHY he got that job.That will bring some trouble, me thinks!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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tinoo gauri ne aisa khuchh nahi kaha tha pur haan uske dost ne kaha tha ki jagat tum to bade kanjoos ho accha yeh party meri taraf se
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Posted: 13 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: surabhi01

tinoo gauri ne aisa khuchh nahi kaha tha pur haan uske dost ne kaha tha ki jagat tum to bade kanjoos ho accha yeh party meri taraf se

yes, she said that in the kitchen when they were cooking yesterday. she was doing kich kich kich kich continuously saying all this. i think you missed it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: tinoo

earth1978,
I think you are basing your arguments on feminist logic or morality/ethics in terms of something being right or wrong.
The fact remains that even if there is nothing wrong in assisting his wife, he simply doesnt like it.
Even if it were the most right thing on earth, he does not like it. It is eating him up alive.
So, instead of applying ethical logic within marital relationships, we have to see if we are sensitive to our spouse's likes and dislikes...
I may feel adoption is absolutely wonderful ... bring a nice child into the home from an orphanage. It is so very very right.
My husband may say "we have a biological child or no child at all." He doesnt want adoption as an option.
Now in this situation, i cant argue about the rightness of the adoption issue ... if he doesnt like it.
So either I cave in to his request as a compromise, or I make up my mind that adoption to me is more important than living wih my husband.
And under no circumstances, knowing his dislike for adoption should I go and unilaterally adopt a child, bring it home and then put burdens of expectation on him that he should play daddy to the child...

adoption issue is very sensitive. and both spouses need to be as committed towards it ecuase otherwise an innocent child's life is runied twice.
adoption is for life , jagiya's situation is temporary.
we often land ourselves in situations we dont like or infact absolutely abhorr. but we all try to see things as they are and accept some and loose some. any intelligent man in place of jagiya wud tell himself , this situation is temporary. it will soon pass if he holds his guns.
if he finds assisting his wife so WRONG, guess what he can quit!
rather than blaming his wife for this situation! it is so not her fault that she was already employed as his superior! taking his frustration out on her is the most unintelligent thing to do. since gauri now runs the house, it is impractical for her to quit. and why shud she?
i am not feminist. u have no idea just how agressive they are and i am definitely not a feminist.
i just want men to start thinkign logically but i guess as usual that is a far call.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jagya always had an ego problem even when he was little. He always had to win in every game he played. At one point, Dadisa brain-washed him into not letting Anandi read and write so she doesn't become smarter then he is. He's a rich, spoiled bratt! It's just how he is. It's not a good reason for you but it is for him. He only wanted a wife equal to him not more then him.
This is a problem but it's not gonna cause the divorce. There's so much more that's gonna go on between them. Many things that have to come out between them... Keep watching lol...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ain mauke pe kyon kaha.hua yeh tha ki jub jagat ka dost party maang raha tha to jagat ne kaha ki abhi to kaam bhi theek se bhi shuru nahi hua to dost ne kaha tum to bade kanjoos ho achha koi baat nahi party meri taraf se phir jagat ne kaha nahi nahi party meri aur gauri ki taraf se hogi .us time gauri ne aisi koi baat nahi ki tumhe jub first salary mile to tub party rakhna .she should tell this him before why to tell these things to him when party about to begin
Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: apalepu

. It's not a good reason for you but it is for him.

Hi apalepu,
thanks for this... this is what i meant to say when i said 'he doesnt like it'...
we cant get into trivializing others feelings because we have no business to decide what is trivial for others.
for some men it may not matter, or even if it did, they might keep their long term goals in sight and realize that having a montly paycheque is better than nothing at all.
for jagya (the character as portrayed in this particular story) it *is* a big deal... so we cannot say to him ...no no, it is a trivial issue.

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