Is dadisa turning into gauri

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have really, really loved shivraj shekhar's entry and am equally heart thumping about his impending marriage to anandi.
That being said, I find dadisa's approach to splitting up ashi and shiv a little disconcerting considering she has already seen the havoc that gauri wreaked in jagya and anandi's life.
Dadisa said "Lapundari should go back to london and find a lapundara for herself, this collector is only for my anandi"
Funny as all the dialogues may be, and comedic as the situation and dadisa's actions may be, it bothers me to a point of serious irritation.
If the lapundari is indeed for the collector and the collector feels the same way (which they have not shown till now that it is only ashi's one-sided love, we only get the same hint from his vague avoidance of marriage talk ... but dadisa has not been privy to it) ... is it right then for dadisa to start plotting about breaking them up? How is dadisa any better than gauri or her mom?
bhairon, sumitra and dadisa have all told gauri that "kisi ke aansuo se seencha hua rishta kabhi khushi nahin deta" (a relationship sown with someone else's tears can never bring happiness to you) ...
I feel that if anandi and shiv get married on a foundation of ashi's tears then that too will not be a happy or healthy relationship.
It is one thing if ashi and shiv break up on their own, or shiv declares there is no relationship, and then dadisa gets into action mode to hook up anandi... but for dadisa to actively plot to send the lapundari back to London to find her own lapundara didnt sit well with me...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with you tinoo..even dadisaa's that dialogue didn't sit well with me either ...i can understand her frustration , her insecurity from ashi because she thinks she is danger for her dreams of shiv anandi...but unaware of shiv's feelings for ashi she cannot put her decision that ashi is not suited for him ..he is only for my anandi...i think she should understand this its up to shiv who will decide whom he wants to be with not her...i hope cvs won't show her planning and plotting to make ashi run away from there otherwise this will be extremely bad from her ..she should try to find out what relation these two share ...either shiv too holds any feelings for her apart from best friend...and donot make her start a competition with ashi on how to win shiv planning to make anandi outshine ashi... let shiv and anandi's story move smoothly and in a natural way instead of her forcing ..by now dadisaa should understand this for healthy marriage there should be understanding and free will involved of both man and woman instead of complete decisions of adults ...i hope cvs won't show her doing planning to break ashi and shiv's friendship or make her run away or her mission to down ashi and outshine anandi in front of shiv ...that will be mean and double crossing from her
Edited by mahi12 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well...its not clear..what exactly shiv-ashi relationship is!!...what will the effect on ashi...and ds still doesnt stoop that low..what gauri did!!

but one thing..i am not liking...that she will not let ashi to be the photographs!! according to the article...thats really not done!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tinoo Ds was the most hated character in bv for 2 years. Is she evil ...no but she can be very bad if she wants.

She has many shades and I am glad cvs are showing that ,all of a sudden ds is nice and dandy with no bad qualities...no that doesn't fit...

So even after her change , she does have some of her plotting skills and selfishness with her.

Is she gauri ? No
Why? Because she accepts her fault and changes when necessary
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Posted: 13 years ago
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khusi, my post was triggered off precisely because of the article that she crops ashi out of the photographs. I understood dadisa being thrown off completely by ashi's entry and her closeness to shiv with their touchy feely closeness ... and until yesterday it was funny ... but now dadisa is being shown like teepri, cutting ashi out of the photo... teepri used to go around with a black marker marking an x on sumitra's face because she was in love with bhairon 😆😆It has me concerned. In the absence of any clear decisive marker as to what the relation is, it can be thought of (by default) that shiv and ashi are romantically involved. Naturally if ashi says 'best friend', it can be seen as a polite indicator of their relationship in a place like Jayetsar. Nobody goes around declaring "we are boyfriend and girlfriend" in an Indian village. I mean it is perhaps a delicate way of indicating their relationship -- which has not yet solidified into an engagement. That is the way I would read it.

So given the signals so far, it was in bad taste for ds to say " let the lapundari go to london and find her own lapundara, the collector is for my anandi"
I mean how is it different from gauri saying " jagat is for me, and let anandi go take a hike"
you know what i mean?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well u r over reacting i suppose.If u r forgetting then i would like to remind that dadisa is a 80 year old character from a small village of Rajasthan.Even educated ppl from metros sometimes form preconceived notions abt girls who have been born and brought up abroad.natrually we indians have this bent of mind that foreign ppl lack the compassion and love we indians have and we consider them as cold and ungenerous.I mean this is a typical indian mentality even with ppl who live in metros like delhi and mumbai.And dadisa is a 80 year old lady who has spent all her life in a village.Obviously for her anandi wud be anyday better than ashi.But later if she comes to know that Shiv loves ashi she would never unite ansh.Not for anyone else but for anandi.

If she can change her age old views for anandi...if she can disown her beloved grandson for anandi...how can she ever think of tangling anandi in another unsuccessful marriage???A marriage where anadi's husband loves some other girl.U must be kidding me by saying so. I think u shud wait for a few more episodes.Its just one day since ashi's entry.i am sure the first thing dadisa will want to make sure is what shiv feels for ashi just the way she ensured that whether or not shiv is married.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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DS has this great desire to settle A down and her getting irritated with Aashi is only an outcome of that. Since this hit her suddenly her reaction in the episode was natural. But it will not be right for her to continue harboring ill feelings towards Aashi and plot against her in the long run. No relationship will be successful if its is forced upon someone but it has to come out of free will. If Shiv feels love for Aashi DS has no business to try break it. Even if Shiv doesn't feel any love for Aashi, DS need not go outright to bring A and Shiv together. She can create situations for their interactions which she has done in the past, but still in certain quarters she has gone a little too far by making it obvious at times. She will have to be patient and let Shiv and A decide for themselves. She also should remember that it is not going to be easy for A to start a new relationship with some one while her divorce proceedings are still on. A may consider it to be unethical.

But DS turning in to G, I don't see that as yet. She is more mature than G to know better and not stoop too low.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well this is not really done dadisaa ..why she cropped ashi 's picture...😳is this a signal she will make ashi run away from there ..😕that will be bad from her ...by now she has changed a lot and have become a lot understanding and broad minded .. so didn't expect this act from her 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeah i am getting...but still there is no confirm thing...about it at all...about ashi and shiv!!
but one thing is confirm,..that she is his frd...and as a frd also...its not good that she will be not in the picture!!..frds ki agal jagah hoti hai...
lets c what exactly the situation is!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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and poor thing, it is probably ashi's camera ... and ashi wanting mementos of her trip to badi haveli and Jayetsar ... and then she goes back and develops the pictures to find herself cropped out of them
BTW, gauri too cropped anandi's photo out of the family photo hanging on her and jagat's wall and superimposed a photo of suguna on anandi's face

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