ashi arrives at jaitsar haveli - Page 7

Originally posted by: tinoo

the only sensible way they can retrieve this storyline is if she is revealed eventually to be his sister🤣

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

Don't worry dear I am sure it will be Anandi at the end! I know you are very concerned 😊. In fact a handsome guy like Shiv must have a girlfriend. It is so unrealistic to think he may not have someone in his life unless until he is too workholic, unapproachable type. 😆😆

Originally posted by: akvats01

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My concern for the Track :

I am also unhappy because, Shiv is allowing her to touch and hug. Though hug was all of a sudden, but it need courage and confident to hug some one like this. This confidence would have been provided by Shiv only, .. But He may definetly communicate to maintain distance by his gestures, He is not doing the same. As opposite he is comfertable on all these.

In today's promo he was shown lil shocked but , not for the hug. only for she hugged him Infront of the team in village. Where he is the top most officer in the office. So his gestures are not against what she is doing, its is just that things are happening in front of his team.

That is why I am so unhappy. He could have stoped her by his gestures, if he was not involved.

D.C. The word "you" is to imply a general being, as a noun, Not as pronuon , for the person who is reading.

Originally posted by: akvats01

@avantikasharma1

In Dil chahta hai: PZ decided on the eve of marriage, and nothing happen after wards, because that was a movie. Suppose it happens in real marriage . what would be the consequences? the least legal is : bride and her side may end up in jail. Cash payout of all expenses in that marriage. forget about the social consequences .. Okay even if it was not on the eve of the marriage. she had fallen in love with aamir, despite 8 years of relationship and dating. Why public didn't object to it. Kabhi alvida na kehna was so ruthlesly condemened. In hum dil de chuke sanam, Ash was married to Ajay, despite dating Salman. I never heard any one saying its unfair, she should marry Salman. On the contrary, in the end the director made Ash choose her marriage!! All movies work on this principle. They cannot show something that is socially unacceptable. They don't because they need to have an audience.

There is a time and limit to everything.

If Ashi loves shiv and shiv has also receprocated to her, then he meets A and gets attaracted towards A , he leaves Ashi, and get married to A, Then we say leaving Ashi was not wrong becasue they were not commited..

@ bolded: Did you mean Shiv? It may be painful for Ashi, but its not marriage. What are you saying, both partners in dating are aware that it may or not lead to marriage. If not, lets remove word dating and call it marriage. No need to use dating. Dating is first step to marriage, not marriage.

I can understand the pain, but if Ashi is sensible she will stop pursuing shiv. Shiv is not her husband.

She will find someone else, who is her own. We don't use these lines for gauri like situation alone. that is by mistake she is involved witha married guy. We use it for bf-gf and unrequited love.😆

Now think,,

after marriage he find difficulty in accomodating with A on some reason ( very much possible) . Shiv gives divorce to A , and this will be breaking of commitment.. Then leaving A will also not be worng because breaking a commitment after notification is not wrong...

It will be wrong because its marriage !!!

But in second case we may defend that he is making issue of unnecessary stuffs..

But I still want to see in what consequences they break up , if they breakup, Yes this is true!! I am not asking anandi to break up their relationship.

I think we are entering a stalemate. I am not going to equate dating or affair with marriage, if i do, then i will have symphathize with G too. She too was dating without knowing his martial status for 5 years. how much attached she must be to him. Then to ask her to face pain is also big deal.

Ashi is his gf not wife. Not all bf and gf decide to marry. But yes you may have your viewpoint. 😊

may be there is some technical difficulty in their relationship. Like she can not leave London, or He cannot move out of India. Then they mutully decide not to get into marriage relation ship.. There can be thousands of thing. so lets us wait for the track..

But I must thank you, becasue I was so restless, and now during this reply to you, I thought about the various aspects, Now I am more comfertable and can wait for the track... 😊😊😊😊😊

I love discussion on India forum. I hope you are not offended by my view. love is such a difficult thing to debate. Because it always involves pain, and yes it is not logical. Thanks

Originally posted by: Achava11

Originally posted by: tinoo

Even in 'dating' -- there are four stages

1. dating -- means it is just both parties exploring each other and non-romantic interactions

2. seeing someone-- you both have decided after exploration that you like each other ... but you are free to date someone else too. Its not exclusive. Its more friendly in nature and can be hand holding and hugging in nature - but non romantic. Just that you like each other's company.

3. going out with someone -- Is decidedly romantic in nature and implies that both parties have decided on mutual exclusivity of the romantic nature.

4. being involved with someone -- involves romance and physical/sexual intimacy.

After being involved with someone, then at that point, if they want to take it forward it leads to intimacy.

Just depends on what stage of dating ashi and shiv are at.

Originally posted by: monamie111

i thought ashi and shiv is "just friends"! 😉...but they r dating!? 😲...is it true? i mean is it a confirm news or u guys r just assuming?..pls i do not want one more love triangle in BV😭...then at the end it will become a love pentagon! 😆 😆