Originally posted by: bhach
Agreed, why he will marry anandi..he will have only working relations...we work in workplaces and does that mean everyone starts thinking of marrying at workplace...what about shiv s parents ...can he avoid them and becomes another jagya for his p[arents by marrying anandi against the wishes of his parents...Truely speaking..i have never seen any IAS officer marrying a girl like anandi in this real world..yes..there are many IAS who have girls married to them like anandi but they were married before becoming IAS...I have no doubt on the abilities and capabilites of Anaadi ..but do you not agree with me that Anadi is really very traditional who does not want o leave jetsar..study further but her for her she thinks life is only and only in haveli and jetsar...she needs to get out of the box...how many people lives with their parents in today s world because of their nature of jobs or survival..does that mean those people do not love their parents...come on anandi ..be yourself a collector rather than marrying a collector ..you have the potential ..
Bhach --
1. Yes, it is true that we all dont start think of marrying colleagues at the workplace. At the same time, in love marriages, people usually spend a lot of time together and bond because of common interests, common friends and common topics to talk about. Since people spend a predominant amount of time with colleagues at workplaces, it seems feasible that two people thrown together all the time in an office situation will spend a lot of time together and may connect and develop feelings for each other? I am yet to meet someone who developed a relationship waiting at a bus stand every day for 10 minutes to catch a bus. I do however know several people who married each other because they were in the same class and studied together...or worked together in the same office. It is not necessary for everyone who works together to fall in love, but the chances are great that two people working together can connect.
2. How many IAS do you know? Do you know the marital situation of each and every IAS officer in India? And how can you generalize? Maybe there are some who marry girls like anandi. Maybe there are women IAS officers who fall for landowners like Bhairon? Who is to say what will click and what will not click?
3. Why do you automatically assume that if he marries anandi, then his parents will disapprove?
For all you know, they may fall in love with anandi. That is just YOUR particular bias.
Parents who have raised such a broadminded son may be equally broadminded themselves. Why should they punish a girl who is divorced for no fault of hers?
4. Finally, what anandi chooses to do for her career is her own choice. If she wants to do politics, then good, she will do politics. She isnt aspiring to marry an IAS officer and never has. The way you are talking is as if this was her sole ambition in life - to marry an IAS officer. Shiv happens to be an IAS officer. It is not anandis desire to marry him (otherwise we would have known it by her internal dialogues). It is currently dadisas desire for anandi and him to get together.
5. I think anandi has more experience within her box of jayetsar to real world issues than most others who move out of their hometowns and 'break the mold'. Yes, there was a time when some of her activities seemed superfluous and redundant ... but now those have borne fruit, and jayetsar has elevated to a district because of her activities and i think we should be appreciative of that.
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