self made gauri - Page 6

Originally posted by: surabhi01

because u call dirty bheekh

Yes that BHEEK was 😆 Basically it was ruin a girl's life then think you can make up for it by throwing your money on the poor girl.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Yes that BHEEK was 😆 Basically it was ruin a girl's life then think you can make up for it by throwing your money on the poor girl.

chalo maana ki DEMAND tha...still ethically what right GAGA have to damand poperty share ??

bhalaai kaa to zamana hi nahi raha hur acche kaam mein khundak nikaalni hai

Originally posted by: Noureen_Ansari

That poor girls parents sold her at that time... try to remember that or yad dasht chali gai hay abhi k pizza madam k parents rich family dekh kar aik married bachay k sath apni lado ki shadi karwa rahay thay... Bhairoon Asked that time with this pizza madam what you want to do she replied I want to study, at that time bhairoon committed to panchayat I will funded her studies... Why pizza madam parents thrown her on the door steps of haveli than???

Yeh taking money for getting your daughter married is an unfortunate custom in poor households and Gauri's parents werent the only ones that did it. Little did they know they were giving their daughter over to such pain but what dadisa did was even more wrong! she had no majboori only ego. By funding someone can you make their emotional pain go away?

I think gauri's parents can be blamed only if they were extremely wealthy, and they still sold gauri just for the fun of it or a little extra pocket-money.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

In fact there are many ways around monetary problems - scholarships for example it is about USING your brains and believing in the fact that if there is a will there is a way! But for people to say just because B funded her education she cannot taunt Jogia about her success that is wrong! If B threw his money at her and didn't even tell her about it that is not her problem. Where she is today is due to her hard work and no she had not intentionally taken the sahara of anyone. She did not even use the words "self made woman" so not sure what everyone is so upset about! Did people even watch the context of that conversation? Jogia said she forced him to ask money from his parents and she said I dont need their money I am able to stand on my own two feet. Is that wrong to say?

I know about USING brains exactly. because I am born a remote village and walked 13 kms just to attend school, it was not until i was in my 9th a got a bicycle. I struggled even more hard when i got to higher studies. Stayed months together away from my people my house. I was topper all the while and I still don't forget the day when I was standing outside the class just because my father couldn't pay fees for a quarter. There were scholarship then as well but please do understand that they are not in access to everyone who is merit.

That was absurd joke that she doesn't want jagaaat's money. all the while she was henpecking him humara hospital, humara sapna blah blah... If she is able to stand on her feet then stand firm on it naa why brag like a leech???. If she has so self respect then how come the shameless begging at the cost of a divorce got into?? wasn't it her cheap idea??? YES IT IS WRONG TO SAY BECAUSE IT HER IDEA TO SUCK BLOOD FROM SINGHS

THREW MONEY is a wrong term again. If at he did threw money he would throw it on her face not invest in her education and look after her every requirement. So bade papa who is a teacher is also wrong, everyone is wrong expect for gawari???. intentionally or not without that help she is going no where. No one is going to search and come to a remote village to help.

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P.S Live in a village and then grow up like a villager , you will never understand what they go through until go through it! everything, every mere thing is struggle. education, medicine, transport... You got to live there to know what facilities we have...

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think gauri's parents can be blamed only if they were extremely wealthy, and they still sold gauri just for the fun of it or a little extra pocket-money.

Lets face it, gauri's parents were poor, they had an elderly grandmother who needed medicines, and they were not able to bear gauris upkeep anymore.

To them, this arrangement would work out financially for them and they also felt gauri would be going into a haveli where she would not face any financial problems and have three square meals a day.

dadisa had told them that anandi was mentally ill and would be returned to her home shortly, and that gauri would be the only beendhni after that. once dadisa has made a commitment, then which parents will think of going and ascertaining with other members of the family? dadisa is the elder and she had come to their home. is it the responsibility of gauri's parents to go and consult with bhairon and basant after dadisa has given her word?

the fault is dadisa's alone. Instead of seeing the bullet that anandi had taken in her brain for her grandson, she promptly set about trying to replace anandi on grounds that anandi would no longer be fit enough to take care of jagdish. 🤢

I know its solely dadisa's mistake..She made She made major mistakes in her entire life.

1) Got everyone in her family married when they were little children (except of course nandu n sugnas kids).

2) She did not treat her pregnant eldest beendni (basant's first wife) properly. She needed medical attention and hospital treatment during her delivery. But dadisa had her treated by a village midwife. She lost her life because of that. Dadisa didnt feel a even a slightest iota of remorse for her death.

3)She spoiled Jagdish rotten to the core. which resulted in him turning out to be a buffoon that he is today...

4) Had her widowed son basant marry a very young teenage girl (Gehna). above that kept quite after knowing that basant is raping this young girl repeatedly.

5) did not allow her beendni's to study especially anandi during her childhood.

6) tried to remarry jagya when his first wife (anandi) was still alive, which resulted in another girl's (gauri's) life and childhood spoiled.

And now after what jagat did to their entire family and anandi she has remorse for only one mistake done (of gauri n jagat's child marriage).

Now she is trying to be a modern lady after spoiling so many lives...and childhoods...

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aasha nice comment but it is of no use sanya will again jump with same ghisa pita question "do u think it is easy to forget past for poor girl ? do u think these dirty money can compassionate gauri misery which she suffered during child hood ?

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

And lets not forget Anandi's money is Bhairav's earned money. Why doesnt anyone say anything about that huh?