Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke
No human being is self made, no matter what amount of difficulties they have been through, no matter how rough the patch they have walked on. Human's live in society, they don't live single. Everyone in your life will make a impact. Even if you deny or agree.
Everyone in this world is born with some or other talent. It depends on how you look yourself in future and RESOURCES. There are millions of people who dreamed big but how many did achieve?? MOst of them don't lack love for their dreams. But still due to the lack of resources(money, education, environment they live in, people they live with,peace). No one is denying gawari's sucess as surgeon ., but people here are questioning it because she was on resources bharion provided. She need not shut her eyes are yell I am self made!! coz she is not
Only talent won't fetch you , your goal neither does hardworking. You still need money and several other things in this monetary world. My dad was a topper in science in his university and he aspired to become a doctor, but my granddad was not rich enough then. He was top in his university but no one came up saying i will put my resources on you and will make you a doctor. My dad thereafter worked very hard and earned money and stabilized our families so that we don't face what he did!
It will be a joke if a rich person throws his son out and say I earned from nothing so you do the same! Even if the son turns that fortune into multiple times they won't forget where they got their roots from. Its joke that gawari yells that she is self made blah blah blah...
In fact there are many ways around monetary problems - scholarships for example it is about USING your brains and believing in the fact that if there is a will there is a way! But for people to say just because B funded her education she cannot taunt Jogia about her success that is wrong! If B threw his money at her and didn't even tell her about it that is not her problem. Where she is today is due to her hard work and no she had not intentionally taken the sahara of anyone. She did not even use the words "self made woman" so not sure what everyone is so upset about! Did people even watch the context of that conversation? Jogia said she forced him to ask money from his parents and she said I dont need their money I am able to stand on my own two feet. Is that wrong to say?
