Mistress is very strong Word- please avoid it - Page 2

Originally posted by: shaannn

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hello just let me post what i think if u think anandi is right i am not posting against ur comment...let me do my work...aapko ache nahi lag rahe u dont care...yes personaly i also think agara humara beta khrab h,hmara pati theek nhi we cant blame other...dont argue with me ovr thisssd


This is a public forum and I can post my POV. I am not stopping u from posting urs. And ur statement isn't about Gauri or Anandi but against all Women. I don't support that. I am not telling u to change ur LOVE towards Gauri but u cannot insult all women.

may b u think its against all women i don think i am telling u the fact...if this is public forum..gauri is not jagya mistress he has given her full right he call her his wife...even singh family call her jagiya second wife but no mistress ...may b its ur dictionary word ...even jagya is ready to give divorce to anandi to give gauri right of his wife...why singh family want jagya divorce anandi coz she is no more of anandi...u can call her mistress thats ur choice...i dont care



LOOOL. Look who is in denial. Gauri's relationship is illegal. Even if u bang ur head against a wall it is still illegal. You cannot deny the fact. It doesn't matter if Jagya is giving her rights or not.. In court. in the Indian legal system it is still illegal

As I said before when people cannot defend their favorite character anymore, they point out other things to divert the matter. And the Singhs r not calling Gauri, Jagya's second wife. Even yesterday, they said "us ladki".
If still want to stress Gauri is Jagya's legal wife u can do so

Mistress is the technical term for what she is. It isn't inaccurate or an improper word. Calling her a W@$&& or S&$@ would be calling her names and or insulting her

Mistress is the technical term for what she is. It isn't inaccurate or an improper word. Calling her a W@$&& or S&$@ would be calling her names and or insulting her[/QUOTE]

I completely agree with u. Mistress is an adjective used to describe people in Gauri's situation.

Originally posted by: shaannn

like your post but here no one understand if gauri is wrong even one can ask from anandi "tera pati kisi ki tarf kyu gya" ...here people just call gauri as mistress coz they want to show their anger to negative character...

Originally posted by: runes

If illegality is acceptable and even an illegal relationship makes Gauri J's wife, then why is Gauri hiding the illegal fact from the society.. their friends, Bade Papa, etc.

I totally agree with you on this...but keep in your thought that Gauri knows that she is wrong and people will not respect her after know the truth that she had break other girls house.

Originally posted by: patelcharu

no you are taking my post wrong, I am not supporting Gauri..not at all. Gauri is at fault...what she did is wrong. And blaming Anandi is totally wrong, Anandi gave her 100% to her marriage but Fault is Jagya the great...He is the one who never valued Diamond (Anandi).

again you are taking this topic in wrong direction...WHY you need to dubt ANANDI for Jagya's Deed? Why again being a woman balming woman (in case of ANANDI).

In Guari's case bleming Gauri is justified because she is at fault of breaking house is other women...but calling have Mistress is not good thing...this is one thing someone can learn from Anandi's Character...never use bad word for other...you know that Gauri is wrong...thats enough.

I agree with u but again I feel that there r many other bad words (mentioned in other post) that could have been used. Mistress is like the most decent word that could be used in the light of how she is behaving currently and how mad all the viewers are at Gauri.

@ TM. Gauri has been slated by all her supporters as a very 'real' character. In the REAL world such a person would be called a mistress regardless of what status her lover gives her. This is a public forum and as far as I am aware Mistress is not a swear word but it does have negative connotations for obvious reasons. In fact, Mistress is a more polite way of labeling rather than keep, Rakhail, concubine.. Furthermore this word is very befitting of the character Gauri. We do not wish to insult your sensibilities or that of any Gauri supporters, however we have to call a spade, 'a spade.'

Originally posted by: patelcharu

I totally agree with you on this...but keep in your thought that Gauri knows that she is wrong and people will not respect her after know the truth that she had break other girls house.

and the fact that she is in an illegal relationship which is not socially or legally acceptable. Its not only about breaking a girl's house.. it is also about illegality issue. She said that when she was pregnant that "what would be the status of her child?" She knows that she is in an illegal relationship and thts why ashamed to admit that fact

@parri agree with u. In real life, people would call Gauri even worse names.

Originally posted by: znursingh

@ TM=You find the word "mistress" objectionable? OK?

WHAT should we call her----- how about a KEEP?
AND to keep the balance,only refer to Jughead as "that BIGAMIST"

Does THAT please your sense of balance?!

Keeping balance is good thing...we are in 21st century where women =men...so not right to just blame women...man should be equally blamed.

Originally posted by: parri814

@ TM. Gauri has been slated by all her supporters as a very 'real' character. In the REAL world such a person would be called a mistress regardless of what status her lover gives her. This is a public forum and as far as I am aware Mistress is not a swear word but it does have negative connotations for obvious reasons. In fact, Mistress is a more polite way of labeling rather than keep, Rakhail, concubine.. Furthermore this word is very befitting of the character Gauri. We do not wish to insult your sensibilities or that of any Gauri supporters, however we have to call a spade, 'a spade.'

Rakhail (hindi word) = Mistress (English word)