Mistress is very strong Word- please avoid it

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello Everyone

I know that we all are angry with Jagya and Gauri's Action in Balika Vadhu. But calling Gauri as Mistress is not nice thing. My question to all men and women...why bad words for woman not for man. We all know this whole mess start by Jagya not by Gauri, yes Gauri support his action later on but that doesn't mean we have right to call any women Mistress. Come on Why didn't any one call Jagya as Male Mistress...She might be mistress if Jagya would not have give right of wife...also if he has considered Anandi his wife and going to Gauri for Sexual satisfaction.
I hate people like Jagya and Gauri but why we blame only women for bad dead why not man. why we call women as mistress, Rakhel, prostitue...so and so...why not to man who coming to them.
At least we as women just for sake of society should avoid this kind of words.
I hope you all who like to use this word would understand my point.
Thanks,
Charu
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with u. But the thing with Gauri is she knowingly did it. Everyone calls J worse names (cheat, slime) than G too. And if u look into a dictionary... living with a married man is called a mistress. Its not about men or women. And you cannot put the whole blame on Jagya. Gauri was an equal partner in their crimes. And now Gauri asking for money also established her status as mistress.
Anandi is a women too... does anyone call her a mistress..even people who hate her?

Here is the dictionary definition
A mistress is a long-term female lover and companion who is not married to her partner; the term is used especially when her partner is married.

Mistress is not an offensive word just an adjective used to describe Gauri and I think G's situation completely matches the definition
And Jagya is not conning G. G knew that her marriage was illegal but continues to stay in that relationship. No decent girl/women would do that?? Even Bhairav called her what kind of a girl lives in with a married guy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaannn

like your post but here no one understand if gauri is wrong even one can ask from anandi "tera pati kisi ki tarf kyu gya" ...here people just call gauri as mistress coz they want to show their anger to negative character...



Oh God, should we start calling Gauri..legal wife of J???????? which is not even true. She herself told that. When there is no argument to defend a favorite character, people start pointing out other things.

Come on supporting G means we all are supporting infidelity & living in an illegal relationship. Even if Gauri was a positive character she shouldn't live with a married guy. She should try to make her relationship legal. But when there was a golden chance to make her relationship legal...she wanted money. What would u call that???????

Wow so u r saying it is a wife's fault that her husband left her?
That is such a male chauvinist statement.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaannn

like your post but here no one understand if gauri is wrong even one can ask from anandi "tera pati kisi ki tarf kyu gya" ...here people just call gauri as mistress coz they want to show their anger to negative character...

@Bold...Oh really so if a Ba$***** husband has an affair its the wife's fault? Thanks for the enlightening...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaannn

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Oh God, should we start calling Gauri..legal wife of J???????? which is not even true. She herself told that. When there is no argument to defend a favorite character, people start pointing out other things.

Come on supporting G means we all are supporting infidelity & living in an illegal relationship. Even if Gauri was a positive character she shouldn't live with a married guy. She should try to make her relationship legal. But when there was a golden chance to make her relationship legal...she wanted money. What would u call that???????

Wow so u r saying it is a wife's fault that her husband left her?
That is such a male chauvinist statement.


hello just let me post what i think if u think anandi is right i am not posting against ur comment...let me do my work...aapko ache nahi lag rahe u dont care...yes personaly i also think agara humara beta khrab h,hmara pati theek nhi we cant blame other...dont argue with me ovr thisssd


This is a public forum and I can post my POV. I am not stopping u from posting urs. And ur statement isn't about Gauri or Anandi but against all Women. I don't support that. I am not telling u to change ur LOVE towards Gauri but u cannot insult all women.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gauri is mistress, that is a fact. There is no justification for her. Jagat is a jerk, and it is also a fact.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: runes

I agree with u. But the thing with Gauri is she knowingly did it. Everyone calls J worse names (cheat, slime) than G too. And if u look into a dictionary... living with a married man is called a mistress. Its not about men or women. And you cannot put the whole blame on Jagya. Gauri was an equal partner in their crimes. And now Gauri asking for money also established her status as mistress.
Anandi is a women too... does anyone call her a mistress..even people who hate her?

Here is the dictionary definition
A mistress is a long-term female lover and companion who is not married to her partner; the term is used especially when her partner is married.

Mistress is not an offensive word just an adjective used to describe Gauri and I think G's situation completely matches the definition
And I completely agree everyone should use the word "master" or "male mistress" for J.

And Jagya is not conning G. G knew that her marriage was illegal but continues to stay in that relationship. No decent girl/women would do that?? Even Bhairav called her what kind of a girl lives in with a married guy.

Yes I have read many definition for Mistress, and yes it is offensive word...I show this word used for those woman who are prostitutes many many times even though it mean as I said in my post or your definition...Gauri's marriage is illegal, but Jagya gave her all right of wife, He introduce her as his wife in society, He also fight with his family for her. In this case she is not mistress...yes legally Anandi is his wife but he himself didn't give the right of wife to Anandi.

I said Jagya started this mess by loving gauri without telling her that his is married and gauri joined him after knowing the truth make gauri equally responsible for this mess...but Who start this mess...Jagya himself...thats what I am saying,

I totally understand that people are angry, I am too but using this word is again not a nice thing.

Gauri is Jagya's wife per Jagya not by Law. Even Sigh family mentions her as his wife after knowing that legally she is not.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tijara

Gauri is mistress, that is a fact. There is no justification for her. Jagat is a jerk, and it is also a fact.

If calling Gauri Mistress making you happy than carry on...I will again say its not nice to call someone like this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ TM=You find the word "mistress" objectionable? OK?

WHAT should we call her----- how about a KEEP?
AND to keep the balance,only refer to Jughead as "that BIGAMIST"

Does THAT please your sense of balance?!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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If illegality is acceptable and even an illegal relationship makes Gauri J's wife, then why is Gauri hiding the illegal fact from the society.. their friends, Bade Papa, etc.

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