One Question to All Gauri Fans - Page 4

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Ok seriously I have one question now for you guys.

Say you were a poor person and some big person came upto you and said we recognise your capabilities and want to give you this job. After one day they kick you out of the job saying they've already got someone for that role and you find out they just wanted to taunt you for your poor status. In five years you have great trouble finding a good job and live in poverty and face much grief and humiliation in the job industry that you got kicked out cos you werent good enough when you know thats not true then one day you get this brilliant job! then you find out that the person who had humiliated you actually rang the company boss and got you this big job. Would you feel ashamed like your self respect had been damaged and think that other person was doing it cos they sympathised with you and was just using their power to try and ease their own guilt or would you go up and kiss the feet of that person and thank them thinking theyre great?

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

LOL. She has not begged for acceptance since her first time in the haveli. You don't usually beg acceptance from someone you shout at or throw food from😆
Marriage to Jogia was basically because she fell weak - in her love. Her mistake but kya kare Im guessing at that time she thought to dabao the past and move on but when she saw everyone's attitude towards her she realised they would never let her forget the past😆

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

@red - Wait, i think G's first visit to Haveli was Ashirvad mission??? She went there to beg them against her illegal hubby's wishes!!! So, she would have forgiven their past mistakes if they had accepted her now?😲 Yeahh...that's the reason i knew G's sole ambition in life was to become Haveli beendini..😆

@blue - ohh please...that's a blame game!!! She shouldn't have gone into their family if she didn't want to think of her past...or if she had gone let her accept her fate and move on... forcing people to accept and then bitching about them is really an intolerable attitutde🤢

Originally posted by: ankit111

Don't ask logical questions, u will get anyway fixed reply 😉 😉 the real trauma she got not in childhood, but in adulthood, when she was rejected the status of haweli bindani and only after tht she started behaving like psycho 😆 😆 😆as jogia was manipulating his dukh of being rejected by Anandi, covering it as family rejection, the sane gawari madam is doing covering her trauma of being rejected of haweli bindani under childhood trauma. 😆 😆

Originally posted by: -Perseus-

I have not watched for a while but I have seen the change in Gauri's attitude. I would like to think that Gauri went to the Haveli with good intentions of trying to get the elders to accept Jagya more than accepting her...she completely miscalculated the reactions which is when she should have left if she had had any pride instead she turned into a different character altogether.

As for the family not letting her forget...I think it is more that they cannot forget Anandi is their chosen daughter-in-law whom Jagya has treated shamelessly. Besides Gauri has not let sleeping dogs lie...she has also chosen to take issue with them so expecting them to serve her sweets with a forgiving smile is asking for the sun to set in the East.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

She went there to try make peace with them until she realised they werent going to be nice to her. Yes I believe she miscalculated their reactions but since that first visit she has not tried to ingratiate herself with them or ask for acceptance. Now if someone from that family is telling her that their son will leave her and return to them she is hardly going to feel like being nice to them coupled with everything else. When she has never even seen their good side she has only seen their bad treatment towards her can you really blame her for thinking they had bad intentions in giving her money?

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

My God Ankit! You talk like I like Jogia for doing all that!😆 Havent I stated that I resent him? But Anandi's pain everyone else here also gets so I dont need to stand up for her and express it😆 Nobody understands poor Gauri though😒 So it falls onto me to then stand for her😊 I know exactly what bade papa and Bhairav and Shivani said😆 Its what everyone says the old parroted line " once you found out his truth you shouldnt have married him" ha! very easy for them to say cos theyve never been in her situation

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Ok seriously I have one question now for you guys.

Say you were a poor person and some big person came upto you and said we recognise your capabilities and want to give you this job. After one day they kick you out of the job saying they've already got someone for that role and you find out they just wanted to taunt you for your poor status. In five years you have great trouble finding a good job and live in poverty and face much grief and humiliation in the job industry that you got kicked out cos you werent good enough when you know thats not true then one day you get this brilliant job! then you find out that the person who had humiliated you actually rang the company boss and got you this big job. Would you feel ashamed like your self respect had been damaged and think that other person was doing it cos they sympathised with you and was just using their power to try and ease their own guilt or would you go up and kiss the feet of that person and thank them thinking theyre great?