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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Manasi_16



Oh come on Sanya (I hope I got ur name right)...don't you know how these things work? Men in India are brought up with the concept that they are providers of the family. Sitting at home when the wife is earning hurts their self-esteem...they will not agree to it.

Now this is not fair...you are worried only abt half Ga (Gauri) from ur GaGa...what abt the self esteem of the other Ga (Jagya)??????😆 Socho...he also will feel insecure na, if Gauri is earning & he is not!

On a more serious note...call me old-fashioned, conservative whatever...I would never like my man to be sitting at home looking after the house while I work outside...goes against my schema of a MAN😳



Hehe true that😃 But I dont like Jogia so😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
The only thing both Gauri & Anandi supporters agree on is how Jagya should be treated😆😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: disha123

I have being reading lately that Gauri had to suffer so much in childhood, due to the broken marriage :

1. i remember clearly that during her child marriage Gauri was crying crying " I dont want to get married, I want to Study'. Whole time she was crying
2. When the panchayat told that this marriage is not acceptable, they showed her also to be happy b'coz she could study more
3. She fullfilled her wish of studing ..YES, unlike Anandi who had to struggle to even pass 10th with Dadisa's opposition and all..
She wat trauma are we talking about here ... the only trauma was due to her parents:
1. they sold her, even when thier child was srying they where forcing her for marriage...
2. they left an ill gauri out side of Singhs doors...
above traumas are due to her parents ... Please can you enlighten me with the huge suffering she had due to her childhood marriage ...!!! I dont understand...
I think even the CV's have forgotten that they has showed a Happy child Gauri after the Panchayat ka faisla.

Wasn't there something like she came back to haveli because of people's taunt. Dadisa wanted to keep her but Bhairon said 'no' and said he will pay for her education. I think child marriage may have an important change in her life. Society must have taunted her, excluded her. She shifted to Jaipur. Correct me if I am wrong.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

Wasn't there something like she came back to haveli because of people's taunt. Dadisa wanted to keep her but Bhairon said 'no' and said he will pay for her education. I think child marriage may have an important change in her life. Society must have taunted her, excluded her. She shifted to Jaipur. Correct me if I am wrong.

She might have been taunted by the village people so they shifted to another place and she might have been cursed by her parents for her broken marriage.
She said in one episode tht her father was an alcoholic with no sense of responsibility.
In all scenarios root cause of her so called trauma is her own parents...and society to some extent.But I dont think tht would affect her much as they shifted away.
If she has any grudges it should be towards dadisa and her parents not bahirov,sumitra or anandi.
Instead she is very respectful towards dadisa...and taunts bhairov sumitra and anandi.
Why does she have misguided targets
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: niharika_n

She might have been taunted by the village people so they shifted to another place and she might have been cursed by her parents for her broken marriage.

She said in one episode tht her father was an alcoholic with no sense of responsibility.
In all scenarios root cause of her so called trauma is her own parents...and society to some extent.But I dont think tht would affect her much as they shifted away.

If she has any grudges it should be towards dadisa and her parents not bahirov,sumitra or anandi.

Instead she is very respectful towards dadisa...and taunts bhairov sumitra and anandi.
Why does she have misguided targets



And even if one assumes that she perceives Dadisa, Bhairon & Sumitra as 'one'...meaning the elders responsible for her trauma...what has Anandi done to deserve such venom & hatred? Why can't she understand the plight of another child bride, esp who has been dumped by her husband in adulthood?

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