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Posted: 13 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: ankit111

Read properly, i hv used word JUSTIFICATION😉 i dont find justification of a crime intentionally done by any reason and dont say tht she is not doing it intentionally. she hs started planning and plotting. so its never can be justified on the name of pain or insecurity or anything. Anandi hd more reason to do planning plotting or hate these two, but she behaved very dignified way. but u people lebled her as DOORMAT and thn claiming tht u understand her pain😆😆 u understand the pain of only one person😉



kyun? why you cant label her a doormat and understand her pain at the same time? We use doormat because she is not standing up to the person who caused her that pain! And planning and plotting was only for few episodes. I think you fail to notice she has been considerably different since after accident
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Posted: 13 years ago
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of course jub aap under se khush nahi hain to aap jor jor se kaise hus sakte hain .agar aapko husna bhi pad jaaye to kum se kum itni jor jor se nahi husenge waise gauri ka five years kishorawastha dikhaayi hi nahi gaya
Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#53
Gawari's parents were desperate to marry her off...it was mere coincidence tht they happened to meet dadisa if not dadisa she would have been sold off to someone else...maybe to some old man even...she would have worse fate than anandi...become a chula chauka wali in some remote village ...end of all her padhai likhayi dreams.
After her wedding got annulled her parents tried to find another groom for her...but they failed because of the stigma of failed marriage...
Then they abandoned her in rain outside the haveli had she not been rescued by anandi she would be either dead or kidnapped and sold off to some brothel.
I agree dadisa is responsible for her condition but the bigger curlpit is her parents...bhairav actually rescued her from becoming a chula chauka wali.
This social stigma was a blessing in disguise for her...Bhairav compensated for whatever wrong happened to her...instead of funding her education he could have helped arrange another marriage for her...being a rich and powerful person it would have been easy task for him...her parents would have been more than happy..
But instead he chose to educate her...dosent tht mean he really had remorse for his mother's action and truly wanted a better future for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr



Oh really? Does internal pain have to be reflected on your face 24/7? Its called hiding emotions. We saw throughout that five years how that childhood incident impacted her mental wellbeing.

What impacted her...the childhood incident ..???
Did she lose anything with that...did she lose her mental equilibrium ??? Yes it could have upset her..but she had that much "mental well being" to become a successful doctor .
Let me tell you...she might have been affected a bit but that never interfered with her ambition..to outgrow herself...she grew up to become a successful doctor.
that childhood incident was broken and it was long forgotten until she discovered through Jaggu..infact she had met a guy for marriage proposal during her medical career.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit111

U again repeating same logic every where. u r saying urself tht the main culprit were DS and her own parents , but Gouri hs no problem with these two set of people. she is desperate to be accepted by DS and her parents r the GOD for her. but why u and ur Gouri is not understanding is tht Bhairaw was the one who saved her from spoiling her life by these two set of people. yes i hate people with bad memory, who want to remember only negative and forget positive things.
u r rit abt Anandi, but see she is not blaming whole world for her condition but in opposite she is very greatfull for all the support. she even dont running after Jogia and Gouri, whom she cd easily blame for her position. if u remember she told even Gouri tht if she wd hv get such chance, she wd hv moved on and not running after her past. even now she is taking it positively and thinking tht even this negative events hs given chance to built her life from new start.
this is difference between Anandi and Gouri and thts why most of people like her attitude even after few drawback. this is the rit attitude. if life hs given u chance, grab it and move on and not haunt ur past and make others and ur own life hell.
why ur limit only break whn something bad happens to ur favourit😆 ur limit break but still u want ur baby with Jogia😉



When did I say that?😲 I thought I made my hatred for Jogia quite clear! Given the choice I WOULD NOT have Gauri with him. It breaks with favourite because he's doing it with two people now and not only one. And I have made clear that mentally Anandi is alot stronger than Gauri. Gauri does not have any control over her emotions and she trusts blindly. And I think for everyone their parents mean everything to them. I mean if she hated her parents im sure everyone would start saying what an ungrateful swine she is not to respect the parents who gave birth to her😆 As for DS why only blame Gauri? Didn't Bhairav and co. forgive her after every mistake? As for why Gauri dislikes what Bhairav did for her I have made that clear in my other post. Would you like it if your enemy who had hurt, taunted and bankrupted you before he recommended and landed you a top job after? Would you kiss his feet and turn nice or think he is sympathising with you and feel liek your self respect has been compromised? Same thing with Gauri. How was she supposed to know he was being noble and not pitying her to cover up his mothers wrong deeds?
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr



kyun? why you cant label her a doormat and understand her pain at the same time? We use doormat because she is not standing up to the person who caused her that pain! And planning and plotting was only for few episodes. I think you fail to notice she has been considerably different since after accident

SRK jii, i know u will find justification from any situation😉 is there a time period action for justification. if she planning plotting for 100 episode only thn she is bad😆😆 but if she is shown 2 episode changed, she is a changed person😆😆 one or two episode, if a person is indulge in such ill intentioned activities, its shows her character and still she hs not accepted her mistakes, still she hs not told the whole truth, still she hs wear a mukhouta. she still the same and once situation will go adverse, she will start her tantrums again. i wd hv accepted her as changed person, if she wd hv realised her mistakes. she told abt her dean talks, but never told anything abt other things. thn i cant accept her a change person.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

She went there to try make peace with them until she realised they werent going to be nice to her. Yes I believe she miscalculated their reactions but since that first visit she has not tried to ingratiate herself with them or ask for acceptance. Now if someone from that family is telling her that their son will leave her and return to them she is hardly going to feel like being nice to them coupled with everything else. When she has never even seen their good side she has only seen their bad treatment towards her can you really blame her for thinking they had bad intentions in giving her money?


@blue
Try to make peace by waving that illegal marriage certificate on singh's faces??? Phew!!.
Were they invited or even consulted before that wedding??? They don't even know that their son married without even informing.
Now after married like that even in a normal situation where no wife involved, parents would react the same. With anandi doing seva to them all the time, how would singh's react??? They are very mature beings anyone else would reacted so wildly.
@red
when did she stop pushing them to accept her at all. . when she ran to jetsar to question anandi about money transfer instead of jagaat. She fainted and haveli people instead of throwing her out of the house treated her nicely until jagat come back to fetch her!. In deed haveli people are being very kind and miss gawari is taking their patience to be their weakness. she pushed herself on them multiple times and recently giving bashan to sumitra about how she should treat a preggo dil. what was that for , if not for acceptance.
@pink
First of she insulted bhairon infront of the whole family, yelling at him. If she can't respect his goodness can't she even respect his age???. she was yelling at them at top of her voice. Cut the crap she has no right to walk into anyone's house like that. The drama queen she is! she tried to touch bhairon's feet and when he refused the bhanshee started... Now any wife wouldn't tolerate a random freak come and blast her husband. Sumitra told from what she saw, her son will not be able to cope to with her and return. It's gawari who challanged sumitra.
@ green
what was it , if not being good. letting her come into the house again and again??? tolerating her tantrums. check her up with doctor when she fainted??. let her live with their son even after knowing that they can blast him for walking on their dreams???
@orange
Any sane person would stop and think why they helped me. If they don't have a good iradha then they would have pomped it out saying bhairon funded her studies. So much talk for self respect what happened to that self respect when she was eating and living on anandi's bheek ??. so much self respect for stomping on many people's lives. She will get it back one day what she is giving for free now! that too with interest!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeh vishwa tau ji gauri ke shaadi ke liye ladka le ke aaye the pur gauri ne mana kar diya tha kyonki woh career banana chahti thi ab hume kya pata tha ki woh kyon mana kar rahi thi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishwa19

What impacted her...the childhood incident ..???

Did she lose anything with that...did she lose her mental equilibrium ??? Yes it could have upset her..but she had that much "mental well being" to become a successful doctor .
Let me tell you...she might have been affected a bit but that never interfered with her ambition..to outgrow herself...she grew up to become a successful doctor.
that childhood incident was broken and it was long forgotten until she discovered through Jaggu..infact she had met a guy for marriage proposal during her medical career.



😕 I cant actually even believe this! Does the fact that she became a doctor minimise her pain? Study is done in house but society vilified her! Affected a bit😆 Jeez I feel a sick pit in my stomach reading such things🤢 She put on the facade of moving on but her mind was still disturbed. Remember her OTT outbursts on child marriage. Did NO ONE see when she entered the haveli to find out Jogia's truth what she was going through when she realised it was the same family? Did no one see wht all she told Jogia when she discovered his truth? Does she have to lose her mental balance for people to believe that she went through deep pain?🤢 The fact that it never interefereed with her ambition is something she should be applauded on! To make your way through such trauma and achieve such great things is indeed commendable!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit111

SRK jii, i know u will find justification from any situation😉 is there a time period action for justification. if she planning plotting for 100 episode only thn she is bad😆😆 but if she is shown 2 episode changed, she is a changed person😆😆 one or two episode, if a person is indulge in such ill intentioned activities, its shows her character and still she hs not accepted her mistakes, still she hs not told the whole truth, still she hs wear a mukhouta. she still the same and once situation will go adverse, she will start her tantrums again. i wd hv accepted her as changed person, if she wd hv realised her mistakes. she told abt her dean talks, but never told anything abt other things. thn i cant accept her a change person.



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