Selfish Sumitra? - Page 4

Originally posted by: tinoo

This is where I believe she is responsible for the consequences of her decisions. She knew that the marriage was invalid BEFORE she got pregnant. Bhairon told her that the moment they left the haveli the first time. I would have sympathized with her if she got pregnant thinking that it was a legal valid marriage...on her suhag raat or whatever. But she got pregnant after going to Mumbai ...and that too without using any contraception.

Anyway, its still not too late to set right certain things... she can just shift to australia or the u.s.

Even in India, Nobody needs to know that the kid is illegitimate, in big cities who pokes their nose into whose business? She can just portray herself as a divorced woman or as a widow even, and cut off all connection with Jagya.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

No I dont think she would abandon her own child

Originally posted by: tinoo

I believe that the biggest cause of human suffering is wishing that things were different from what they are.

It is incredibly freeing to accept the reality of the situation and just move on.

Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

In a country like India, came up now???
what happened when it is for Anandi. What will people in a village do when a husband leaves his wife?. What will be her status and what will be her future???. The same dialogues were heard for a unborn baby but why not for a girl who lived for 16 years serving that scumbag's family, nurturing his every need. Screw his head tight , coz he lied all his way, he did consummate his marriage with anandi sang songs, went on honeymoon all without love???

Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

In a country like India, came up now???
what happened when it is for Anandi. What will people in a village do when a husband leaves his wife?. What will be her status and what will be her future???. Nobody says anything to her in Jaitsar! They're all taking her side. Which is good! That village at least has some progressive thinking! The same dialogues were heard for a unborn baby but why not for a girl who lived for 16 years serving that scumbag's family, nurturing his every need. Screw his head tight , coz he lied all his way, he did consummate his marriage with anandi sang songs, went on honeymoon all without love???

can anyone on this forum tell me difference between love and true love. Is true love meant to walk on others lives devastating every heart that had hopes?? Well if it is so then it is a freaky true love because for every living creature parents hold a special place. Trashing their dreams and the consequences faced. how can anyone forget how the family felt with shame when the truth about their son came out. What to expect with such a son🤢

About bashing one's son. if the children do something wrong parents tend to do so. My father used to give nice coating when i do something wrong. So my father should be my villain now???. Every parent has the right on their children and especially a mother who breathed out life for that person. Now sumitra became selfish because she said her love will win over the love of a fake lover???. She never said about deserting kid or gawariji, she only pointed it that her son will reach her!!. If I did miss any episodes please point out. But what does it mean her saying that? Naturally she knows Gauri is pregnant I mean that bump is staring her in the face😆 And she knows the child wont separate from the mother but she wants Jogia back without Gauri. What does that mean then? Logically it means she intends him to abandon his child. That was her selfishness.

Originally posted by: tinoo

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excellent point!!

also in a country like india -- women would not live-in- with a man before marriage.

srkluvr, she may have been modern in mumbai, but i doubt that she would be modern to that extent.

maybe eating pizza instead of chappati ...but living in with a boyfriend...sleeping on a double bed?

so why sympathize with gauri about being an unwed mother in a country like india.