Selfish Sumitra? - Page 3

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Nobody wants sumi to accept the baby bt its very inhuman case to say that she wants g n her child to left alone,actualy she is being very selfish mother.She wants her child back bt at the same time she wants a father to leave his own child.

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think we are all going at this from the wrong angle.

The faulty assumption here is that J being in the baby's life will be an asset. 😆😆😆

I beg to differ. I think that the child will be better off without a lying slimebag father like him.

Jagya is a huge liability as a father.

What exactly will the child witness? That his father runs off in the middle of the night every now and then, that his mother throws fits, is angry and crying, and leaves him/her with a babysitter before she goes around town trying to track him? If at all the child goes to Jayetsar, then he will be introduced as some beggar child that J picked up at the train station (and not as J's own son/daughter)

Most unhealthy environment for that child.

In Gauri's situation, by now, I would have had enough of this, and would have put Jagya in a big nice cardboard box, stuck a few stamps on it, giftwrapped it with a ribbon and mailed it c/o sumitra at badi haveli in Jayetsar... and attached a card that says "here is your lying slimebag son, I want him nowhere near my child" 😡😡 ... and then in G's situation, I would have taken the initiative of bringing up the child myself.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Yeh true why will she care for that kid? She is totally selfish in herself. Im not sure what the Singh family wants? They did the child marriage and then wanted to send their son to jail for breaking it? They did what they liked with young Gauri's life and decided to make up for it by giving money. Im sure if Gauri and her parents knew where that money was coming from in the first place they'd never have taken it. Did they think Gauri would be grateful to them for funding her education? Personally I would feel so bad knowing I have lived off them for so many years who had spoilt my life. And now they decided to call Jogia back for their own ends and then demand he leaves once the need for him is finished. Yeh sab kya hai?

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think we are all going at this from the wrong angle.

The faulty assumption here is that J being in the baby's life will be an asset. 😆😆😆

I beg to differ. I think that the child will be better off without a lying slimebag father like him.

Jagya is a huge liability as a father.

What exactly will the child witness? That his father runs off in the middle of the night every now and then, that his mother throws fits, is angry and crying, and leaves him/her with a babysitter before she goes around town trying to track him? If at all the child goes to Jayetsar, then he will be introduced as some beggar child that J picked up at the train station (and not as J's own son/daughter)

Most unhealthy environment for that child.

In Gauri's situation, by now, I would have had enough of this, and would have put Jagya in a big nice cardboard box, stuck a few stamps on it, giftwrapped it with a ribbon and mailed it c/o sumitra at badi haveli in Jayetsar... and attached a card that says "here is your lying slimebag son, I want him nowhere near my child" 😡😡 ... and then in G's situation, I would have taken the initiative of bringing up the child myself.

Originally posted by: tinoo

Once the need for anandi was fulfilled, Jagia ditched her once the need for her was finished and then decided to call back anandi for his own ends (to fund his own education) ?

If the need for her was finished in terms of a wife, then why approach her to persuade bhairon?

also Jagya too could have taken a stand and said "I wont let you take me for granted"... but he didnt do that, and went along with this farce. ...and even in that farce, he could have maintained his distance from anandi, but he has not done that ... to the extent of trying to emotionally pressure her into buying a dress of his choice in the mirror. Why? Jab rishta hi khatam ho gaya, then where is the need to choose clothes for her?

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Nobody wants sumi to accept the baby bt its very inhuman case to say that she wants g n her child to left alone,actualy she is being very selfish mother.She wants her child back bt at the same time she wants a father to leave his own child.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

true Tinoo. Absolutely true. But unfortunately its much easier said than done to raise a child as a single mother in a country where such soch exists where such children are called all horrible names and the mother is tagged as all sorts of unfair things and their life is made a living hell. Whilst we may wish in our country these things were eradicated unfortunately they are not. In this case if Jogia leaves her the baby will unnecessarily suffer the tag of being illegitimate and his life will be made difficult all the more. Gauri will again go through all that she went through in her childhood. And honestly if Gauri didnt have this child I would have wanted her to leave him by now he is in no way worthy of her.

Originally posted by: tinoo

Better yet,

she can send both Jagya and the child back to Jayetsar, and ask sumitra to bring up both of them.

What makes gauri need to stick with the child herself?

Just dump him in the haveli with a note to dadisa saying "here is your parpotha/parpothi...kindly do the needful" 😆