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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Tinno-This is quite suprising.so dat means A should thank j for leaving her.

This is why i said "struggle with" 😆😆. I didnt say I definitely feel so. That is why i posted also to elicit perspectives of others.
In the 'seen' world -- j has caused A a lot of pain.
But in the 'unseen' world - the spiritual sense - J has actually freed up A to be the person she was meant to be by leaving her. if she had been his beendhni - and things had gone according to perceived plan, she might never reach the heights she was meant to.
Ideally, something good does not have to come from something bad.
But i am desperately grasping at straws in some way to make sense of that loss i faced, and consequently, i keep looking to these tv serials for examples that make my own upside down world sort of make sense. Maybe some "truth" as yet hidden from me that will make it all right again.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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what i mean is that sometimes the 'bad' things that happen to us seem to be the quickest short cut for us to reach our goals. Maybe we would never progress if those things hadnt happened.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I only meant to say like A says that singhs have suported her in tuff conditions like dat only g is thankful to bade papa n her parents also for being with her.now obviously A has a different position of J in her life.no matter how inhuman he behaves,she wont have any complaints with him bt g n singh parivar had totaly dif equations.they had suffered a lot in life due to them.bekar mein itna dard n ,may be we r nt shown how they had to suffer ,thats y we cant understand how painful it was.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tinoo,
Excellent and thought provoking post...Can identify with what u went through...Some wounding experiences teaches u something and u grow as a mature human being but some wounds are so deep that it takes a long time to heal... So what we do is the million dollar question..I heard this in a sermon that if you are bitter towards someone..everyday u are drinking poison and expecting the other person to die from poisoning...Time does often soften the wounds. The lesson I learnt is never to do to any other person what the other person did to me. You don't the the some other person to drink the gall that u drank and which left a bitter taste in your mouth.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hi avikakirk -
thanks for your reply. i appreciate it.
not doing to someone else is a different matter.
i need to know how to make up my loss and also i see the other person prospering and that is getting on my nerves. i dont want the other person to prosper -- want to see them having a bad life 😆😆 - petty minded I know, but that is the honest truth.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

hi avikakirk -

thanks for your reply. i appreciate it.
not doing to someone else is a different matter.
i need to know how to make up my loss and also i see the other person prospering and that is getting on my nerves. i dont want the other person to prosper -- want to see them having a bad life 😆😆 - petty minded I know, but that is the honest truth.

Love u girl! You are so brutally honest...went through couple of experiences myself. my whole being wanted to scream rant rave but sanity always prevailed..kept quiet moved away...what I did was stopped going to that memory lane again and again...asked myself if I wanted to move on or allow this person to ruin my life...Asked for God's help in dealing with the situation...focussed on my true friends watched and read funny things so I could laugh...surrounded myself with positives😆 These are some of the bitter pills I swallowed to help me deal with the situation
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Posted: 13 years ago
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G doesnt regret abt her life ,she definately happy that she is doctor bt she hates singh becoz she has seen her family suffering,i dnt think any child in her place wud hate singh for dat incident.r emotions towards people depends wat we feel abt them.bad incidents dat hapen in childhood makes an negative impact on us,that is one of reason as to y she always insecure abt maried life.this is my POV,sahi galat batein toh hoti rahengi ,ye karna chahiye or woh .Humare sath koi galat karta hai, villages k samne badnam ,one cant forgive such people.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

G doesnt regret abt her life ,she definately happy that she is doctor bt she hates singh becoz she has seen her family suffering,i dnt think any child in her place wud hate singh for dat incident.r emotions towards people depends wat we feel abt them.bad incidents dat hapen in childhood makes an negative impact on us,that is one of reason as to y she always insecure abt maried life.this is my POV,sahi galat batein toh hoti rahengi ,ye karna chahiye or woh .Humare sath koi galat karta hai, villages k samne badnam ,one cant forgive such people.



Then G should only blame her parents who sold her to DS knowingly that J is already married but what the heck we are getting rught price for our child G.

REMEMBER: Anger is like acid, anger burnes you first then others.

@Tinoo, Dear i also went thru a situation (But not like A or G) where i was hurt by close person but that helped me to grow stronger, You know ab toh main yeh sochati hoon ki yeh achcha hua jo mere saath aisa hua but at the same time being a normal (not perfect like serial human) i feel the same for others. But I try to forgive and forget which is very hard but trying to practice this. I will suggest you to forgive that person just for you own piece.

But hey I don't know you pain level.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ds had told them dat his first wife is mental ,n secondly they poor people who gt caried away by ds money bt dhoka toh singh parivar diya hai naa ,now when a gal is kidnaped ,u blame the gal for getting out of house rather then the kidnaper.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mmishra1



Then G should only blame her parents who sold her to DS knowingly that J is already married but what the heck we are getting rught price for our child G.

REMEMBER: Anger is like acid, anger burnes you first then others.

@Tinoo, Dear i also went thru a situation (But not like A or G) where i was hurt by close person but that helped me to grow stronger, You know ab toh main yeh sochati hoon ki yeh achcha hua jo mere saath aisa hua but at the same time being a normal (not perfect like serial human) i feel the same for others. But I try to forgive and forget which is very hard but trying to practice this. I will suggest you to forgive that person just for you own piece.

But hey I don't know you pain level.

@bold..exactly what i wanted to say...👏 yes no one can forget such pianful incidents but what is the point of crying everyday for the same incident?..instead of blaming the sing family, gauri should thank Bhairon for what she got in her life...if today she can forgive them i think it will reduce her pain only...
i m really looking forward for it when this gurl will change..yes she has done a mistake..but i will be glad if she will realize it..

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