why has bade papa kept it a secret?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I can understand why bade papa kept it a secret before he came to know of J-G marriage -- obviously there was no context to tell gauri -- and telling her the truth that bhairon was financing her education would only have triggered off violent memories of that particular child marriage -- but now it has been one year since their marriage -- so surely bhairon would have told bade papa -- and bade papa could have confronted gauri over the course of this year at some point or told her this financing secret earlier. It seems pointless to keep it a secret after the wedding.
Hats off to bhairon for not falling into petty one up-manship when gauri would keep insulting anandi as a chulka chauka wali and showing off her 'doctor authority' in the haveli and in jayetsar. He could easily have said "well if it had not been for me financing your education you too would be a chulha chauka wali somewhere" ... or some equally petty statement. He has just kept quiet about this.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes i don't know why bade papa kept it a secret..😕 may be it is bcoz CVs wanted to create more drama with this..😆

also one more question came into my mind...didn't gauri's parents know it that bhairon gave money for gauri's education?..😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111


also one more question came into my mind...didn't gauri's parents know it that bhairon gave money for gauri's education?..😕

No I dont think they did.
Atleast, if I were in Bhairon's shoes I would never let them know.
First, gauri's dad was an alcoholic drunkard at the time, always needing money. If he knew that bhairon was sending money -- he would probably have created some fight with bade papa and insisted on using that money for his own debts and liquor.
Second, he might try to fleece more money out of bhairon by making huge scenes if he knew bhairon was sending money. And bhairon only wanted to limit his money to helping the young girl/child for her education...not financing any luxuries for the parents.
Bade papa was gauri's school principal. So, I think bhairon approached him and asked him to oversee gauri's education with special vigour and to fund it.
Bhairon knew this girl would never be able to get married again in the village circuit of rajasthan because of all the mahapanchayat issue and the dirty mess it had become. The girl would always be seen as someone with stigma. (Infact, gauri has alluded to this several times ... after that her parents were ostracized in whichever village they went to. They were wandering nomads for several years. Anytime they entered a village -- they would be thrown out immediately because of this messy non-marriage).
So, Bhairon felt responsible for maasaa's mistake - only towards the girl. He was disgusted with her parents for agreeing to maasaa's proposal of marrying their girl to an already married man.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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when little gaURI(Gudiya) was in haveli,bhairav wanted her out even though dadisa wanted to keep gauri in hAVeli ... bhairav strictly opposed it,even said put her in hostel and he will help her financialy..basant found where her parents were hiding and asked them to take back gauri.. bhairav had said directly to her parents he wil pay for gauris education but they refused saying bade haveli people will suffer because of humiliating them and they left hating haveli people ...
but bhairav must have sponsored her education through bade papa ,he wouldnt want a little girl to suffer for the mistakes dadisa made,even anandi had askedhim what will happen to gudiya.. ,being the conscientious guy he is would have wanted to make gauris future secure ..he would have wanted to be the anonymous and bade papa would have agreed to that .🤔. ...but gauri could have said bad things about jagats parents to bade papa and that could have angered him ,hence he revealed bhairav paid for everything ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pjyo

...but gauri could have said bad things about jagats parents to bade papa and that could have angered him ,hence he revealed bhairav paid for everything ...

that sounds like gauri -- saying bad things about jagat's parents and anandi.
But why did he keep quiet for one whole year and not pull up gauri?
I guess he was miffed that she didnt even think it decent to inform him of her wedding let alone consult him after all that he had done for her ... infact, maybe she went to him this time to ask for a loan 😉😉 ... after one year she must have remembered bade papa for money purposes. 😆😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gauri never tol dwho jagat is abs jagat told a lie to bade pa that he lives somewhere in jaipur etc...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Cvs convinience-whenever they want tobring a character they bring-Although in a digital age like today its hard that Bade papa didint know jagat's whereabouts till a year after marriage-
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gauri had been double benefited by
1)getting the financial help from BHAIRON paid out of guilty consciousness as a penalty(for the second marriage with his son)
2)marrying Jagat
Thus she's benefited from crime & punishment.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Badepapa has not kept any secret - this twist is planned very recently by the CVs😆😉
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The reason they will show is that Bhairon kept it secret because he did not want to make G's family feel bad by giving them money.

Bhairon had announced during maha panchayat but nothing was finalized.

If Gauri's family would have started taking money from Bhairon, they would not have left G at their doorstep... Gauri's family was thrown out of village, G's parents left her before haveli so that singh family takes her responsibility; basant found them and singh family told clearly that they can't keep gauri at home but they can help by giving money. But gauri's family refused..

What we have been shown is that singh family lost trace of g's family completely.

Isn't it weird that badepapa had no knowledge about Jagat if he was in touch with Bhairon singh? Bhairon had known about Jagya's name change to jagat even before Badepapa met Jagat. Also if Bhairon had been sending money for G, he must have been learning about her progress. So didn't badepapa tell Bhairon that G has found her life partner after he met Jagat????

Badepapa was surprised when Gauri informed him of her marriage. Already Bhairon had known that who G is. Though he knew badepapa, he did not inform him! 😆😕😆
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Bhairon Singh reveals the truth when necessary - so when G was insulting A he could have easily told her - at least he could have told badepapa to reveal the truth to G. He was already giving money for J through A and JG was taking hefty amount as he has told about G's study also 😉
Edited by doyelpakhi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: doyelpakhi

Badepapa has not kept any secret - this twist is planned very recently by the CVs😆😉
😉

The reason they will show is that Bhairon kept it secret because he did not want to make G's family feel bad by giving them money.

Bhairon had announced during maha panchayat but nothing was finalized.

If Gauri's family would have started taking money from Bhairon, they would not have left G at their doorstep... Gauri's family was thrown out of village, G's parents left her before haveli so that singh family takes her responsibility; basant found them and singh family told clearly that they can't keep gauri at home but they can help by giving money. But gauri's family refused..

What we have been shown is that singh family lost trace of g's family completely.

Isn't it weird that badepapa had no knowledge about Jagat if he was in touch with Bhairon singh? Bhairon had known about Jagya's name change to jagat even before Badepapa met Jagat. Also if Bhairon had been sending money for G, he must have been learning about her progress. So didn't badepapa tell Bhairon that G has found her life partner after he met Jagat????

Badepapa was surprised when Gauri informed him of her marriage. Already Bhairon had known that who G is. Though he knew badepapa, he did not inform him! 😆😕😆
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Bhairon Singh reveals the truth when necessary - so when G was insulting A he could have easily told her - at least he could have told badepapa to reveal the truth to G. He was already giving money for J through A and JG was taking hefty amount as he has told about G's study also 😉

You may be right...bu i disagree...bhairav is not the kind of person who would offer help, but not do anyhing on it. possibly, he must have started helping gauri after he realised the gravity of the situation when gauri's parents abandoned her...
the reason of bhairav of not disclosing the fact about gauri's educaton could simply be that he felt guilty for gauri's fate in her childhood, and felt that it was wrong to potray his helps as a favour to gauri and throw it on he face...he is a man of principles and knows that what he did was his decision and what was done with gauri was not right. and he may not have remembered to tell bade papa...who knows how well he knew him...quite possible bhairav approached him only to fund gauri's education and was not in regular touch with him

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