The case: Phooli Vs Gauri

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@hooked

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Phooli's parents wanted a second life for their daughter as a married woman and chose to let themselves get duped by Phooli's in-laws. In their defence - they thought this family has rights over Phooli as they too lost their son and now they are asking her to "nata" with their second son coz his wife is unfit and has also deserted him.

Phooli's parents SHUD HAVE tried to find out a little more about this guy's wife and not rushed into giving P away and forcing her to agree by threatening suicide. Any gild will give in if her parents threaten suicide.

Tell me - who loves anyone the most ? Their PARENTS - thats who. And if her parents thought this was right - how was she going to disagree ?

P was coerced & blackmailed by her parent and they in turn were duped by her in-laws who they thought they cud trust. P is a 100% victim.

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Now Gauri -

Chose to live in with a guy w/out telling her parents and also put sindoor n MS to furhter her lie coz supposedly acco is hard to get in Mumbai..

cudn't she find another girl to bunk with ? It had to be a guy ? Why not ask Bade Papa for more funds then ? Why compromise her name just to get acco ?

When she found out - she visited Jaitser to confirm his current reality n saw Anandi still living in his family house as his WIFE.

When J apologised and got wet in the rain - she fell for the drama and married him out of SYMPATHY ??? Or out of lack of SELF-CONTROL ?

Wen he said he was thrown out of his house and doesn't like A - Gauri dragged him back to refresh his ties and get blessings.

When she didn't get them she blamed

- J for his family's lack of manners in blessing her

- A for trying to look good in the eyes of everybody

- the village elders for bad-mouthing them for romancing city-style

Consulted a lawyer and actually suggested trashing A's character to get herself the legal status.

Then, she went back to berate them all about Anandi's sms n financial support to Jagya.

When in all this Jagya started leaning towards his family - she berated J for going back on his word.

First she was not careful n got pregnant, and then got upset when J's family didn't celebrate.

When A got kidnapped, G actually rejoiced !!

When A was rescued by J, G actually grieved n got super mad at J.

When A's parents yelled at J, G stepped in and told them to shut up. But when her own parents yelled at J, she shut up J and told him to behave ??

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Gauri has at every step of her life, done exactly what SHE HERSELF WANTED. She never does anything she doesn't want to. She behaves like the Queen of Sheba and wants to order everyone around her to

LOVE HER, ADORE HER, RESPECT HER, BLESS HER, ACCEPT HER, ACCEPT HER KID, ACCEPT HER MARRIAGE...

She is SELFISHNESS personified in addition to being scheming, ungrateful, unkind, rude n immoral.

If anyone doesn't do what she likes - she throws a screeching fit and a tantrum fit for a super cranky 3 yr old !!

How can ANYONE even think to compare G and P's situation.

Edited by hooked - 13 years ago

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ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

if buy the logic tht Gouri married with Jogia selflessly , thinking abt his interest, thn the conclusion is tht, she sacrificed herself for Jogia😆😆 really true love😉, but as per my knowledge, those who sacrifice for a person, whom they love, dont make his life hell with their constant insecurity 😆😆 if she is so selfless, thn why she only DEMANDING😆 apart from her demand of everything she also demanding rit of feeling INSECURE😆😆 God save this world from such selfless people😆😆

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: hooked
Phooli's parents wanted a second life for their daughter as a married woman and chose to let themselves get duped by Phooli's in-laws. In their defence - they thought this family has rights over Phooli as they too lost their son and now they are asking her to "nata" with their second son coz his wife is unfit and has also deserted him.

Phooli's parents SHUD HAVE tried to find out a little more about this guy's wife and not rushed into giving P away and forcing her to agree by threatening suicide. Any gild will give in if her parents threaten suicide.

Tell me - who loves anyone the most ? Their PARENTS - thats who. And if her parents thought this was right - how was she going to disagree ?

P was coerced & blackmailed by her parent and they in turn were duped by her in-laws who they thought they cud trust. P is a 100% victim.

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Now Gauri -

Chose to live in with a guy w/out telling her parents and also put sindoor n MS to furhter her lie coz supposedly acco is hard to get in Mumbai..

cudn't she find another girl to bunk with ? It had to be a guy ? Why not ask Bade Papa for more funds then ? Why compromise her name just to get acco ?

When she found out - she visited Jaitser to confirm his current reality n saw Anandi still living in his family house as his WIFE.

When J apologised and got wet in the rain - she fell for the drama and married him out of SYMPATHY ??? Or out of lack of SELF-CONTROL ?

Wen he said he was thrown out of his house and doesn't like A - Gauri dragged him back to refresh his ties and get blessings.

When she didn't get them she blamed

- J for his family's lack of manners in blessing her

- A for trying to look good in the eyes of everybody

- the village elders for bad-mouthing them for romancing city-style

Consulted a lawyer and actually suggested trashing A's character to get herself the legal status.

Then, she went back to berate them all about Anandi's sms n financial support to Jagya.

When in all this Jagya started leaning towards his family - she berated J for going back on his word.

First she was not careful n got pregnant, and then got upset when J's family didn't celebrate.

When A got kidnapped, G actually rejoiced !!

When A was rescued by J, G actually grieved n got super mad at J.

When A's parents yelled at J, G stepped in and told them to shut up. But when her own parents yelled at J, she shut up J and told him to behave ??

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Gauri has at every step of her life, done exactly what SHE HERSELF WANTED. She never does anything she doesn't want to. She behaves like the Queen of Sheba and wants to order everyone around her to

LOVE HER, ADORE HER, RESPECT HER, BLESS HER, ACCEPT HER, ACCEPT HER KID, ACCEPT HER MARRIAGE...

She is SELFISHNESS personified in addition to being scheming, ungrateful, unkind, rude n immoral.

If anyone doesn't do what she likes - she throws a screeching fit and a tantrum fit for a super cranky 3 yr old !!

How can ANYONE even think to compare G and P's situation.

So well said... very well said.

At this stage when we are discussing difference between P& G, P is still in dark about her husband's first wife... when she knows the reality, she may chose to stand strong and take her kid and go away... but Gauri knew exactly everything about J, before she married him, so really there is no sympathy for G. Its total selfishness...

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woman11

@woman11

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: ankit111
if buy the logic tht Gouri married with Jogia selflessly , thinking abt his interest, thn the conclusion is tht, she sacrificed herself for Jogia😆😆 really true love😉, but as per my knowledge, those who sacrifice for a person, whom they love, dont make his life hell with their constant insecurity 😆😆 if she is so selfless, thn why she only DEMANDING😆 apart from her demand of everything she also demanding rit of feeling INSECURE😆😆 God save this world from such selfless people😆😆

Gauri is so selfless and loves Jagya so much that when she sees Jagya does get to do a little diwali celebration with the hospital folks, instead of being caught in duty and missing out the festival completely, she becomes upset.😆 Why? Because if she is not happy, so how dare Jagya be happy? Would any wife who loves her husband with an iota of emotion feel like this? NO. Rather any wife would have felt happy that her husband could still be part of the festival which he was completely missing out due to work duties. Such is her selflessness that even Jagya's happiness should seek permission from Gauri😆. It is impossible that a woman who can't even be happy for Jagya on such a small issue, just because it does not center around her, will sacrifice her life just for the sake of Jagya!!!

When has she selflessly thought about Jagya even once? When she dragged Jagya to the haveli for ashirwaad, did she stop to think how Jagya might be feeling to face his family? Did she listen to Jagya's protests when he said he didn't want to go? Nope. She just did what she felt like doing. And the same goes for everything------her decision to visit Jetsar or not to visit Jetsar, her decision to abort her child or keep it, her decision to ask her parents to stay in Mumbai forever, her decision to taunt Jagya about Anandi and badmouth his entire family--------which action is done for the sake of Jagya? When has Gauri acted selflessly, even for once, only and only for Jagya alone? When has she thought about only Jagya's well being and acted only for Jagya, keeping aside her own interests? NEVER.

Gauri just does what she wants to do------Everything centers around her and her demands and wishes. She got married because SHE wanted the marriage, she is staying as his live-in partner because SHE likes it, and she will leave Jagya when SHE feels like doing so. Jagya's wishes, Jagya's well-being, Jagya's disapproval does not figure in Gauri's scheme of things.

P.S. Gauri: Yeh gari maine apne araam ke liye li thi😆 Toh fir Jagya ko gift dene ka natak kyun kiya tha madam?😆

Edited by woman11 - 13 years ago

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hooked

@hooked

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

I seriously don't get how Gauri can inspire such faithful fan following ! Their logic is as creative and as twisted as G herself does it to confuse Jagya. For each person and in each situation - G has a new logic and a new valid reason to do as she feels fit.

Kuchh bhi bolti hai - kuchh bhi karti hai. Patient haath pakde, flirt kare - sab ok. Jagya phone bhi kare to she spits fire like a volcano ?

If she's so fond of going in a car - learn driving, or hire a driver. He's just come back from a night shift, to make him go all the way back to the hospi just to drop her n come back seems quite heartless and un-loving...

Why don't such people ever suffer from laryngitis ? I know I wl have a scratchy voice for a week everytime if I screamed as she does. But she can scream bindass - noon or night endlessly !

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: hooked
I seriously don't get how Gauri can inspire such faithful fan following ! Their logic is as creative and as twisted as G herself does it to confuse Jagya. For each person and in each situation - G has a new logic and a new valid reason to do as she feels fit.

Kuchh bhi bolti hai - kuchh bhi karti hai. Patient haath pakde, flirt kare - sab ok. Jagya phone bhi kare to she spits fire like a volcano ?

If she's so fond of going in a car - learn driving, or hire a driver. He's just come back from a night shift, to make him go all the way back to the hospi just to drop her n come back seems quite heartless and un-loving...

Why don't such people ever suffer from laryngitis ? I know I wl have a scratchy voice for a week everytime if I screamed as she does. But she can scream bindass - noon or night endlessly !

@bold well said & v.apt oservation!!!!👏👏👏👏

i also time & again fail 2 undersatnd her logics leave alone digest them!!they r so "khokhale like her" that i now fail 2 understand how i even liked/ sympathised her b4 sh eknew the truth abt J's marriage??😕

this woman is 2 much!!i think any human being who cum near this kind of women will immediately needs earmuffs. she screams more loudly even than "infant Mandrake plant"(mythical magical plants which r believed that their cry is fatal 2 any1 who hears them even infant plants cry is also considered loud enough 2 knock out a prsn 4 hrs.)!!😆😆😆

@bold red i also wonders abt it!! bcoz even sumtimes i do scream wensum1 upsets me so much that it bcums a saturated point 4 me 2 remain calm. but once wen i only shouted (but not loudlya s G does) for few minutes i got sort of "khichkhich" in my throat & here G madam is really doesn't've any effect on her vocal cords!!!😆😆

but i m thinking abt Anjum who has 2 do this ckt.poor anjum, she must has 2 eat "mulethi" off-screen after each on-screen scream session!!😆

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sreevask

@sreevask

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Shouting n screaming is an example of bad communication skill n happens whn we yielded to impulses.
A super egoistic husband like J can not tolerate such superiority complex nature for so long.
She'll b shown her limits & she will also forget every thing as she is as opportunistic as a chameleon.

Phooli will certainly get justice as she is not a silent weeping type like Anandi.

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Hooked-u r never going to understand how g can inspire faithful fan following ,only those people can understand it who want to,nt those who r closed minded when it comes to g.i dnt even feel like defending her now becoz what the pt,if one after the seeing situation,ul react like dis,wat is left to say,one logic i hv realy understand of the forum ,anyone who is nice to a is nt bashed n who doesnt like a is always bashed.

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hooked

@hooked

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Tanvi - I think I do understand your POV to quite an extent by now. We all love those who we chose, and we learn to accept them WITH their not so nice traits too. And that is how it is with you too. You accept that G created a lot of her own messes and also needn't hv yelled at A as much as she did. I too - used to be super mad at Jagya as he was the main trouble maker but he has just been lying low for quite some time now and so G keeping taking all the heat coz of her short fuse.

I was not such an Anandi fan to begin with, in fact her crying from start to finish as an adult, used to irritate me no end. She hasn't helped herself on a lot of occasions when IMO it might hv been better to stand up and do so. For ex - not sending money to Jagya. OR giving up studies as a kid to please DS. (@ the time she was a kid, so forget that). But later I saw that this was just her conditioning - keep the peace in the house at any cost, and put everything ahead of yourself. As a city based, career woman, it is not right of me to expect that same fire from A in her surroundings.

But I guess, I can sympathise with the blow her life has dealt her and her feeling completely numbed by the impact of it. So I just want J n his current flame to not keep coming here and mess with her emotions again n again. Wud never like J to come back to A, but do want him to continue to be her best pal as they used to be and for G to be understanding n accepting of this bond. If they cud just show once that G feels A's loss n pain, and that she feels a little guilt abt her share in it (I know J has to share 90% of the blame n guilt), I'll be content.

Currently, J has been showing remorse and acknowledgement of the messes he has made with DS n his parents n Anandi. Hence it is easier to feel a little less angry at him, but G shows absolutely no respect for anyone but her folks and no remorse for anything at all - that irks !! That's all...😊

It doesn't help that I know someone who tried to knowingly steal a guy away from his then fiancee, while these two were doing their MD and were spending a lot of time together. The fiancee was in another city and quite unaware of her fiance's shenanigans and eventually ended up marrying him too. And I was left consoling this silly girl who had despite my umpteen warnings tried to steal this guy away(of course he told her, it was family-arranged and he hated the girl and was being forced into it. He swore his heart to this one) It was so wrong !! But what do u do when someone uses only their their heart n never their heads ? and when things don't work-come crying for a shoulder. I hv provided that shoulder coz she didn't hv the guts to tell her mom she was expecting too and was crazy enuf to hv done very rash things if I hadn't been supportive right then. I had wanted to honestly just slap her hard and said - "Told U so ! Serves u right !" So I think I despise G more coz of this.

Edited by hooked - 13 years ago

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

I seriously cannot believe people taunting g over patient issue,comparing over anandi call issue,i mean dat patient was there in operation theatre ,so scared dat he poked his nails to her,now this is compared to jag anandi cal,unbelievable.she is blamed for screaming?what can she do,thousands times she has told j dat she dislikes anandi stil she finds him doing the same,it obviously makes her feel dat her feelings,emotions dnt have value.i know he was tired n al bt wen there is negative atmosphere in house,ur feeling r ignored,plus she is pregnant (where in a women goes a through lot of emotions,they tend to chidchida al the time-if u want to know more go n watch YRKKH)people just to blame a charater can write rubbish foolish baseless reasons.

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