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We can expect dumbness from an uneducated person but not from educated person. Atleast uneducated person is not shouting, suspecting, blaming other but just trying to convince herself. But educated person is shouting, shouting and shouting but result Zero 😆 😆 as concern to pyar thn i must say, if this is called pyar, thn better live without love. Kam se kam jindagi to Sakun se kategi. I even don't wish to understand such educated gawanr people. Ham nasamajh hi khush hain 😆 😆

rouke ,aaso bahake bhi koi fayda nahi,wo bhi ek nahi char saal ,vaise bhi sab log toh sun rahe toh phir chillana kyun,dil toh sabke pass hota hai chahe educated or ya gawar,lekin sab ko yeh samaj nahi aati.

Actually I donnot support people who in the name of love does all kind of things. What the serial could show is the hardship of life and how their character reveals to each other in those situation when there is no one to think about you. Thats why wise people used to say that decision should never be taken in hassle and one should never speak when no one is willing to listen. What Gauri did is of no use. She shouted , complained and interfered when on one was willing to accept her and anandi she spoke only when needed and that too with gravity which showed her persona and became the star of everyone's eye. One can express ones feeling even without shouting.

@tanvi:
I am not at all getting your comparisons between anandi and gauri here.
Anandi is not just any girl in jagya's life. She is his wife. And gauri is just a home-breaker and now a mistress irrespective of what education she has.
A wife has right to question her husband if he has extra-marital affairs, but a mistress doesn't have. So if gauri has willingly become jagya's mistress, enjoys the money that he spends on her irrespective of whether he gets it from his family or first wife, then she should be happy with that. Why does she have problem when jagya thinks about anandi or any other girl for that matter.
No matter, how much she believes herself to be his wife or that fake marriage certificate to have some value, the society will never give her the status of wife. THat is the bitter truth. And it is also the truth that, she doesn't have any legal or social standing, if tomorrow, jagya goes back to his wife.

Irrespective of whether anandi accepts jagya back or not, if jagya leaves her and goes to anandi, then according to her advice to anandi, she should forget jagya. Why is she shouting at jagya for that. After all he is going to meet his wife. Why should a mistress have a problem with that. Her relationship with jagya, is only till he maintains it with her. She doesn't have support of anyone else - his family, or the society or the legal system. Even kunda tai will throw her out of her house. Her friends at college too will not support her. Then why is she going ahead with this if she is not dumb.

Now comming to anandi, as another poster here asked, what is her fault, if jagya left her. What is her fault if another women tries to break her marriage and then insult her at every possible instant in every possible way. If according to you, she should take jagya and gauri to task by approaching law, then my question is - isn't what she is doing now, a better revenge. Gauri can never live her life peacefully. This insecurity will make her to continue nagging jagat, which wld keep driving him far. If she had put jagya behind bars, there are chances of jagya/gauri comming closer, since both wld be against anandi. Now ony gauri is against anandi - jagya is not. Jagya cannot find any reason to break his ties with anandi, even if gauri says him to do it.

SO how is anandi week in this case. Does only putting a husband behind bars makes a woman strong. Anandi has not lost much - she still has her parents, jagya family, the society and law with her. And if gauri nagging session continues, jagya will also return to her. I am not saying that anandi should accept him, but even if he returns to her, isn't that the biggest defeat that gauri can ever experience. Gauri doesn't have the strong heart to accept this situation irrespective of the advice she had given anandi about the similar situation. And why does staying with jagya's family make anandi week? She still have their support, and as previous episodes shown, if she ever decides to have another life partner, bairon and sumitra will support her. She can continue her studies, and do what she wants with the support of his family.
When such a situation comes, when she is successful and if she has found a life partner, she can get divorce from jagya. All laws would only support her. Let jagya go to jail at that time.
And about still thinking of jagya and crying and caring for him, their relation has 16 yrs of memories. You cannot forget it that soon, or start hating a person that soon. If gauri could forgive jagya with just 5 yrs of dating, then why can't anandi care for him, when they had a husband-wife relation for 16 yrs.

Originally posted by: Niha_Baishya

Actually I donnot support people who in the name of love does all kind of things. What the serial could show is the hardship of life and how their character reveals to each other in those situation when there is no one to think about you. Thats why wise people used to say that decision should never be taken in hassle and one should never speak when no one is willing to listen. What Gauri did is of no use. She shouted , complained and interfered when on one was willing to accept her and anandi she spoke only when needed and that too with gravity which showed her persona and became the star of everyone's eye. One can express ones feeling even without shouting.

Crying is not weakness, actually it makes one stronger as it tends away all the sorrows. Anandi although urge for Jagya but she never gave herself to him i.e she never showed any kind of feeling infront of him . She might feel lonely everyone does even when your loved ones is near but she never hurt others because of it. No one is sad because of her action even if she is sad. But we cannot say the same regarding Gauri.

well said!!👏👏👏 @bold i agree that crying is not always a weakness. and A's crying now is not a sign of weakness bcoz she feels lonely as she was made 2 believe by society & family that only J is her life partner & also she herself luvs him v.much. so wenever she felt lonely she cries. and by crying shes letting out her sorrow so that it won't effect her routine work as well as the ppl who r near & dear 2 her.while G's shouting session r just her insecurities & hatred 4 A.i'd already told in sum oder thread that G'dn't still cum out of the insecurity which she'd from her childhood wen J rejected her downrt 4 A after her parents'd left her at the doorsteps of haveli & she'd started hating A rather than her parents who were more responsible 4 her "bal-vivah"!! and i think that G bcame dr. only so that she can prove singh family that they'd rejected more suitable "bindni" 4 their laadesar & now they r loosers but she'd 4gotten its she who has bcum a looser 1stly by getting married 2 an already married prsn believing his lies & hurting an innocent prsn in the name of true luv & rt 2 choice at "suitable age" or so-called "maturity"; 2ndly by forcing herself on J's family who'd already disown him; 3rdly by constant shouting & screeching sessions like a banshee and last but not least by always bad-mouthing abt A & trying 2 prove her acts/deeds of kindness as "being mahaan" & blaming oders than herself even 4 her faults!!!

Rote raho ,strong ho jaoge,char sal tak rona zaruri hai varna weak n lakmi -such big post ,i wont read it ,no patience,just read one point ,y she is oposing jagya to go to anandi ,she had told anandi to move on then y cant she do the same,firsty let me tel u jagya never said he wants to anandi forever,obviously she only wants one thing ,if u want to be with me,then be hear ,otherwise leave,y should she remain hanging .

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Rote raho ,strong ho jaoge,char sal tak rona zaruri hai varna weak n lakmi -such big post ,i wont read it ,no patience,just read one point ,y she is oposing jagya to go to anandi ,she had told anandi to move on then y cant she do the same,firsty let me tel u jagya never said he wants to anandi forever,obviously she only wants one thing ,if u want to be with me,then be hear ,otherwise leave,y should she remain hanging .

Originally posted by: asru

@lakshmim_84

Loved every statement in your post😊. Still there won't be any use Lakshmi...G's supportters won't have time to read the facts😉. They continue justifying G's honorable character!!

i agree!! G's ckt is so honourable that even if shes bashed 4 her acts its considered a s sacrilege!!😆😆😆

@lakshi awesome points!

Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

@lakshi awesome points!

well naturally ur post was not read by those who do not want to listen to the bitter truth:

Gauri is the mistress and Anandi is the wife. : )

can anyone teach me technic how to pick ur matlab ka things from a long post without reading it 😉 😉 😉