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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayali_babes

Hmmm...then maybe she needs some time. She ain't gonna become independent anytime soon, not immediately after she starts college.

yes, but they want her to move towards something ...start walking towards the destination.
Here it looks like anandi's goal is to stay here forever and wait for her jagya to come home.
Also, By independent, I dont mean financially independent -- but more a sense of self-efficacy and a sense of direction independent of haveli life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ofcourse they luv her but their extra oridinary luv from where did it come?ds y is she behaving like dat becoz its her guilt dat she spoiled her life n want to give her everything to make her life beter bt she can never take of j in thier lives.in long term ,they want j to come back ,they r just controling their feelings becoz they dnt want to hurt anandi.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Ofcourse they luv her but their extra oridinary luv from where did it come?ds y is she behaving like dat becoz its her guilt dat she spoiled her life ..

Bravo!! well said tanvi. Their love too springs from guilt.
Did dadisa have love for anandi even when anandi took bullet in brain for jagya?
No. Instead, she started worrying that how will anandi be able to take care of jagya's grihasthi in the future with a hole in her head? So what did she do? She went looking for a second wife for Jagya...and this is how gauri entered the picture to begin with.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Tomorow if they see anandi is happy wel settled in life their anger towards j wil be over .they wil want him to come back.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@tanvi -- exactly! well said once again. As soon as anandi is well settled they will take jagya back, because quite frankly, after tempers have cooled down, it is evident that beyond dumping anandi and lying about his affair with gauri he hasnt really done something bad to "them". Dadisa had no issues accepting him back with gauri ... even if it meant hurting anandi ... all this was done in anandi's face -- the kuldevi pooja, the suhaagraat etc. Though rationalized under the idea of her great "plan", she wanted jagya back.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If at al cvs bring parpota track ,i gues others wil understand our POV.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree she needs to stop being the perfect beendni and start beeing the perfect daughter and do whats right! I mean can't she keep them happy by studying and making her name...can't she keep them happy by doing a pooja for the family's happiness! I mean seriously the man who left you...who insulted you...who disrespected you and your love...who treated his whole family badly...you want to go and pray for him...that he has a happy life and gets everything he asks for! Wah ab yeh to kuch jyada hi ho gaya! Aur reet-rivaj tab hote hai jab koi apna hota hai...but when that someone isn't worth anything..even if you remember them...doesn't mean you need to do everything else! 😡 😡

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