Who else is tired of watching BV - Page 3

of Course.
When the husband sleeps with another woman, who's fault is it?

The wife's DUh!!!!

More power to bashing the victims ! yay!!

GAGA are behaving as if nothing ever happened. G said she wont sleep with J on the same bed but the very next day she is sleeping with him. Gosh these two are living so happily and blissfully. Arrghh. a's track is going too slow. The CV's should speed it up or else we'll just lose interest in it.

Originally posted by: annika20

@Vasuja

I agree they need to show Singh family. But the focus on them must be reduced! More of Anandi's solo scenes are needed. Haven't we had more than enough focus on Singhs already?! Earlier there was excuse that everything couldn't be shown with little Anandi since she's a kid and certain things can't be shown with kids on national television. What is the excuse now?!

And why show them sympathising or expressing hopes for Jagya's return or redemption?

And social work is good, but as I said this social work degree is also a sham. They should have shown her as lawyer or getting a degree in social work or social entrepreneurship so that she could at least become a graduate and then do IAS.

Seeing the way things are going I think bringing Teacher ji was ultimately useless! Only education or classes are not going to help!

Anandi's track can drag, but basic focus should be on her, major chunk of any episode should be devoted to her!

Jagya thing is all nonsense until and unless he is ACTUALLY disowned! His detailed romantic scenes with Gauri are most nauseating stuff ever! Why devote so much time and footage to them?!Almost glorifying adultery?!

Annika I understand what you are saying...But BV knows to stretch the tracks...Though most of us loved JAGA getting bashed when they were in haveli, we were slowly getting irritated and wanted them to leave soon...May be the CVs could have avoided the trouble and shown a leap with all things set...But looks like the CVs are gonna drag this track as much as they can...May be they want to show JAAN divorce before the leap...

I agree that Anandi should study to gain more knowledge...She should start travelling outside Jetsar meeting people with memos or requests for village improvement...I don't mind if she does not become IAS or lawyer...IAS is definitely challenging to study but does not have lot of power as we think.My cousin brother's friend was an IAS and an honest one too...He was transfered from one place to the other by politicians and he could not do anything useful in anyplace...he got frustrated and quit his job...As a lawyer one can file cases for people but their will also be other lawyers taking up cases for money and truth always doesn't triumph...Politics is definitely good becoz it has power...but I don't know wether the CVs have enough potential to show a good and intelligent politics ka track...while IAS and lawyer would have been an easier track to pursue, social work and politics is atougher track...will th CVs portray the track successfully????i have my doubts

But all said and done...I still wish Anandi files a case on Jagat and sends him to jail...I still cannot get over the bitterness of Jagat's one dialogue...the confidence with which he told Gauri,"Anandi will never file acase against me. She will never harm me." I just hated that dialogue. People change so does their believes and policies...Anandi should change atleast in Jagya's case for the good...

I think today the princi will also pardon JAGA...that is for sure...Will he keep a clause???lets see? I think if princi does not keep any clause more andaas and tamatars coming on CVs today.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

anandi track is geting slow n boring ,y geting mad at gaga ,if u think they r scot free then credit goes to anandi.

Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

GAGA are behaving as if nothing ever happened. G said she wont sleep with J on the same bed but the very next day she is sleeping with him. Gosh these two are living so happily and blissfully. Arrghh. a's track is going too slow. The CV's should speed it up or else we'll just lose interest in it.

Originally posted by: tinoo

credit goes to anandi if they are getting away scot free. Anandi had every legal, family and monetary resource to teach them a lesson. But did not do so, and is fully funding them -- so obviously they have all the time in the world for watching cricket matches and shopping for karelas and shirts.

If she had not been so generous in her support of this couple, then Jagya would not have time to breathe. He would be working three jobs to fund his education and the room at Kundatai's and would not waste money on new clothes - yellow shirts and trousers. He would not have time to romance Gauri. This would have been punishment for Jagya.

But nooo -- Anandi could not leave this alone. The completely non-existent Haveli ijjat had to be protected by sending Jagya money.

that's true tinoo,if anandi hadn't pleaded bhairav to keep up jaggu's monetary support this guy would have been struggling to make ends meet,🤔kahin se loan lena padthaa jo wapas deney ke liye mehnath karni padthii...karela shoping yaa rakhi naa milney pe roney kaa time hi naa milthaa instead apni monthly budget pe ro rahaa hothaa😉...tabb daal chawal kaa bhaav patha chaltha issey...kaash iski finances rukk jaaye..😍.

Tinno-gud observation even i noticed it.bt i wonder how do they manage to sleep straight til morning.hehe .ur right wen they sleep its like north n south pole of bed.

As far as Anandi being a victim -- my definition of victim (stretching it to give it as much rope as possible) stops on the day that Anandi went to bapusa to advocate for sending him money and when she agreed to be his funder. After that there is no victim.

Yes Tinoo I see your point but you are viewing it from YOUR POV and what YOU define a Victim to be.

Rather a victim is not simply painted as person who is powerless if that was the case then I guess those women , who are abused in US , those educated, working women who can easily dial 911 and get their abusive partners arrested for molesting them and their children, physically and mentally , they are not really victims because they have the POWER to dial 911 or even social workers knocking at their door literally pleading them to press charges but those , I should say, rather 'stupid' women do not take action.

So naturally they are not victims and serve them right for tolerating that abuse even though they have the power to press charges!

wow.. isn't that nice
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I say! before we understand what a VICTIM is and try to define what a VICTIM is from our own POVs and life that we live , or rather should I say a bubble of optimism, there is a world out there that despite of all the privileges and despite the opportunity , choose to be abused because they are




Brainwashed or sometimes, are psychologically effected with some sort of need. The problems are deep rooted.


So I say , Anandi is a victim and she remains a victim. Because

a) She was conditioned to worship her husband and forgive everything he did said

b) provide for him in what ever means she can physically, emotionally , verbally everything!

c) because this is what is expected of her to do that even though your husband leaves you for another woman , you be the bigger person, the greater soul and forgive him and keep the door open , waiting for him, so that perhaps one day, he might think about you and eventually return!

This is the mentality she has grown up with, embraced and living.

So is she a victim or not?

one might argue... but but but but and but..

I say ,,, please .. go to a village person, talk to them and see what they think and believe in. See how they are conditioned and then say big words like, well once the power is in your hands you become the do-er not the victim etc. etc. which I think is Bogus and plain BS. Sorry.


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look at the scene I posted in a thread earlier. Mr. Bhairav singh when he was telling Jagya and Gauri about how , their relationship was illegal, please listen to what he said.

he said to Jagya

'Dekh jagya, ise kehthay hain rishtay nibhana, ise kehthay hain sacha pyar. Jo vachan bachpan main samaj nahi aye jab samaj aanay per use puri sachai sey nibhana'

Now , the guy who is willing to fight for his D.I.L by pressing charges against his own son , is stopped by Anandi is praising Anandi for that very act she did!

do you really think he wanted to press charges? or subconsciously was conditioned to assume that Anandi will just back off.

And she did.

and even teacher ji when Anandi gave her the explanation of her wanting to move on. she praised her POV. Its easier said than done and very hard to remove one's conditioning and going against the flow.

So I say again, that YES Anandi is a victim so do not diminish that by stating laws and other bogus stuff because there are women out there who are suffering worse than Anandi and they def. have opportunities to turn those people who torture them in , but they don't

Why

because they are victims.


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