I before 'we' & 'you'

I was going through many inspiring posts and the current portrayal of Anandi's character, my belief in a woman 1st identifying herself as an individual has been reinforced. A woman leads multiple phases in her entire life starting from being the doted daughter all the way till the sensible grandmother, at every point e are not only adding emotional bonds but conciously or not we all end up moulding ourselves to events , people and situations. Somewhere in our journey we tend to loose ourselves, our individual identity like in Balika Vadhu's case Anandi a spirited girl though ended up being perfect n her relations but somewhere failed herself, thankfully now she is realizing the importance . Similarly Gauri, I might not agree with her character's choices but she is a vicitim too , love is a beautiful thing but one should not be so docile to loose self-respect, she has a career , had age on her side and the opportunity to discover world , yet she is loosing all to her so called love, is it really worth it? Sumitra is so clueless that i doubt she will be lost without Bhairon , Gehna had potential and still is her on self somewhere but her financial sitiuation , now marriage, I just hope that she continue voicing her opinion . Dadisa too had suffered and is still suffering by living herself through others , she is such a strong woman , i wonder how she doesnt even the woman inside her.

its nothing to do with rich or poor, educated or not , I just wish every woman or girl to take some time out step aside and look at herself and try not to compromise her soul,respect for anyone or anything.Girls love is very beautiful, marriage is very scared but dont just limit yourself to that let it be your extension not your defination.

WIsh BV continue this journey of Anandi's self-discovery and let her live life finally.

Let marriage be your extention not definition.. I liked it.. very well said and true